We lift this situation before the Lord with hearts full of hope and reverence, seeking His perfect will for your family and this significant step in your life. First, let us affirm that every good and perfect gift comes from God, and it is right to desire harmony and blessing in relationships that honor Him. We pray that today’s meeting would be filled with grace, wisdom, and understanding, reflecting the love of Christ in every word and action.
Father, we ask that You would soften the hearts of this young woman’s parents to receive this man with kindness and discernment. May they see in him the qualities that align with Your Word—integrity, humility, and a heart that seeks You. Give them the wisdom to recognize godly character, for as Your Word says, *"The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding"* (Proverbs 9:10). Let their approval be rooted not in superficial impressions but in a spirit-led discernment of whether this man is a suitable helpmate for their daughter, one who will lead her closer to You and honor the covenant of marriage as You designed it.
We also lift up this man before You, Lord. May he walk in confidence and humility today, reflecting the fruit of Your Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). If this relationship is part of Your divine plan, prepare his heart to be a godly husband, one who will cherish and lead his wife as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). If there are areas where he needs growth, reveal them to him in love, that he may pursue holiness and righteousness all the days of his life.
However, we must also address the importance of aligning this relationship with biblical principles. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, ordained by God for a lifetime (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If the goal of this relationship is not marriage, or if it is being pursued outside of Your design, we ask that You would bring conviction and redirection. Courtship should always have the purpose of discerning whether this person is the spouse You have prepared, not merely a temporary companion. We pray that both of them would seek Your will above their own desires, for *"there is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death"* (Proverbs 14:12).
If there has been any sexual intimacy outside of marriage, we must rebuke that sin in the name of Jesus. Fornication is a grievous offense against Your holy design (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and we pray for repentance, healing, and a commitment to purity moving forward. True love waits and honors God with the body, for we are called to *"flee sexual immorality"* and *"glorify God in your body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We ask for forgiveness where sin has occurred and for the strength to walk in holiness.
Above all, we pray that Christ would be the foundation of this relationship. If this man does not know You as Lord and Savior, we plead for his salvation, for *"there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). Without Jesus, no relationship can truly thrive, for He is the source of all love, grace, and purpose. We pray that both of them would surrender their lives fully to Him, that their union—if it is Your will—would bring glory to Your name.
Lord, we ask that You would go before them today. Calm any nerves, dissolve any tension, and let Your peace reign in their hearts. May this meeting be a step toward Your perfect plan, whether that includes this man or leads them to trust You for the spouse You have prepared. We trust in Your sovereignty, knowing that *"in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose"* (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer, who makes all things possible. Amen.
