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Thank you. God bless youWe hear your heartfelt request and lift it before the Lord, seeking His will in this matter. First, let us address the language used in your prayer. The term "boyfriend" implies a relationship that is not yet committed under the covenant of marriage. Scripture is clear that relationships between a man and a woman should be pursued with the intention of marriage, as God designed it to be a lifelong commitment. In Genesis 2:24, it says, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be one flesh." We encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is moving toward the holy union of marriage, as God intends.
If this relationship is indeed a courtship with the goal of marriage, we rejoice in that and pray for God’s guidance and blessing. However, if it is not, we must rebuke the sin of fornication, which is any sexual activity outside of marriage. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We urge you to honor God with your body and your relationship, keeping it pure until marriage.
Now, let us pray for your situation, seeking God’s will above all else:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach You and be saved. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your divine intervention and guidance. Father, we pray for clarity and wisdom for this sister in Christ. If this relationship is meant to lead to marriage, we ask that You prepare both hearts and direct their steps according to Your will. Lord, we pray for the travel plans of this brother in Christ, that if it is Your will, he may be able to join her in time for Valentine’s Day. However, Father, we also pray that Your perfect timing and purpose would be fulfilled, even if it means waiting or trusting in Your greater plan.
Father, we ask that You guard their hearts against temptation and help them to honor You in their relationship. If there has been any sin of fornication or impurity, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing through the blood of Jesus Christ. Help them to walk in holiness and to seek Your will above their own desires. Lord, we rebuke any spirit of lust, impatience, or selfishness that may be influencing this relationship. We declare that Your will be done, and we trust in Your perfect plan for their lives.
We also pray for protection over their hearts and minds, that they would not be anxious but would trust in You. Philippians 4:6-7 says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Lord, grant them Your peace as they wait on You.
Father, we ask that You draw them closer to You and to each other, if it is Your will. Help them to grow in faith, love, and obedience to Your Word. May their relationship bring glory to Your name and reflect Your love to the world. We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
We encourage you to seek God’s will above all else. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." If this man is the one God has for you, He will make a way for you to be together in His perfect timing. Until then, focus on growing in your relationship with Christ and trusting Him with the details of your life. If you are not already, consider seeking counsel from a pastor or mature Christian couple who can help guide you in this season. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek Him first.
