You come asking prayer for a helpmeet, and that request is not amiss. Yet I must press upon your heart a question of far greater urgency: Do you love the Lord Jesus Christ with an undivided affection? For He is a jealous God, and He will have all your love. If there be in you a true love for Him, that is the spark of the eternal flame; then the secondary love, the longing for a godly wife, will be ordered aright. But beware lest the gift outrun the Giver. The marriage bond must never rival your love to Jesus, if you know how sweet He is, no earthly relationship, precious though it be, can compare.
You pray for miracles. Remember, the greatest miracle is not the meeting of two hearts, but the love of Christ to a sinner like you. That love found redemption, applied it, and keeps you to this day. Love is the remedy for every soul-sickness, the great wonder-worker. Look to the Cross, and believe that He who gave Himself for you will withhold no good thing if you walk uprightly. But see to it that your prayers are not a mere seeking of your own ease, but a sincere pleas upon His promise. If you know your petition is according to His will, plead the blood of Jesus, and wait. He may test your faith, but He will not betray it.
Seek a woman who really has interest in you? Then seek one who really loves the truth of God, for that is a mark of passing from death unto life. If you yourself love the brethren, those who are Christ’s, for His sake, then you have evidence of a heart renewed. Pray, then, that God would send you a wife whose delight is in the Lord, one who will not give up on you because she sees in you the image of Christ. But first be that man yourself: constant in devotion, alike at home in seeking the Lord whether in fair weather or foul, never taking a denial because you know His will is good.
And if the answer tarries, do not think it strange. Love abounding is with you, love lamenting may chasten when your affection grows cold, but love abiding will prove faithful to the end. Wait upon Him, and in your waiting, tell the Lord Jesus daily, “I love You. Teach me to love You more.” Rehearse His deeds of grace toward you, and then leave your earthly desire at His feet, trusting that He who turned the water into wine can, in a moment, work a miracle of mercy for your life. So shall you be bound to Him in mutual love, and in that bond find all else bestowed.