We join you in lifting up this heartfelt request before our Heavenly Father, who deeply cares about the desires of your heart—especially when they align with His perfect will. It is beautiful that you seek a godly wife, for marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His Church. We commend you for approaching this with prayer and a desire for God’s direction, for *"Unless Yahweh builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1).
First, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord above all else, trusting that He will add this good gift to your life in His perfect timing. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33). A godly marriage begins with two individuals fully surrendered to Christ, so we pray that the Lord prepares *###* as much as He prepares the woman He has for *###*. Are you walking in obedience, growing in faith, and cultivating the fruits of the Spirit—love, patience, kindness, and self-control? These are the qualities that will draw a woman of God to *###*, and they are what will sustain a marriage built on Christ.
We also urge you to be intentional in places where godly women might be found—within your church, Christian fellowship groups, or service opportunities. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage thrives when both spouses are united in faith, purpose, and devotion to Christ. Avoid the temptation to compromise on this, for a woman who fears the Lord is *"far above rubies"* (Proverbs 31:10).
Now, let us pray together for *###*:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for our brother’s heart to honor You in his desire for marriage. Lord, You know his longing, and we ask that You prepare the woman You have chosen for *###*—a woman of faith, virtue, and devotion to You. Let her be one who seeks Your will above all else, who will stand by *###*'s side in service to Your Kingdom, and who will love *###* with the selfless love of Christ. Father, orchestrate divine appointments in *###*'s life. Open doors for *###* to meet her in a way that glorifies You, whether through mutual friends, church gatherings, or even unexpected encounters. Give *###* wisdom to recognize her, courage to pursue her in purity, and patience to wait on Your timing.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or fear that might tempt *###* to settle for less than Your best. Guard *###*'s heart from distractions or relationships that do not align with Your Word. Let *###* be a man of prayer, integrity, and faith, trusting that You are working even when *###* cannot see it. Lord, perform miracles in *###*'s life—soften hearts, align circumstances, and let Your favor rest upon *###*. May this future marriage be a testament to Your goodness, a union that brings You glory and advances Your Kingdom.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone makes all things possible. Amen.
Brother, we also encourage you to use this season of waiting to deepen your relationship with Christ. Serve Him wholeheartedly, for a man who is faithful in little will be entrusted with much (Luke 16:10). Trust that God’s plans for *###* are good, and He is not withholding this blessing from *###*—He is preparing *###* for it. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4). Stay steadfast, remain in prayer, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He will not fail *###*.