We lift you up before the Lord, our brother, as you seek His will for a godly wife and future marriage. Your heart’s desire to find a spouse who honors Christ is a beautiful reflection of God’s design for companionship, and we rejoice that you are bringing this request before Him in faith. The Scriptures remind us in Proverbs 18:22, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Yet we also know from Proverbs 19:14 that *"house and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* This is not a matter of chance or human effort alone—it is a divine appointment, and we trust God to guide you in His perfect timing.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in your walk with Christ, for a godly marriage begins with two individuals fully surrendered to Him. Seek first His kingdom and righteousness (Matthew 6:33), and trust that as you abide in Him, He will prepare you—and the woman He has for you—for this sacred covenant. Be intentional in your pursuit of holiness, for the Lord calls us to be set apart, even in how we approach relationships. Flee from the temptations of emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23), for marriage is a lifelong commitment that must be entered into with wisdom, prayer, and purity.
We also urge you to be active in your faith community, where like-minded believers gather. The early church grew as believers fellowshipped together (Acts 2:42-47), and it is often in the body of Christ that godly connections are formed. Serve the Lord with gladness, and trust that as you do, He will open doors for you to meet a woman who shares your faith and values. Remember, too, that marriage is not the ultimate fulfillment—Christ is. If the Lord tarries in answering this prayer, let it be a season of deepening your relationship with Him, so that when He does bring your wife into your life, you are both fully prepared to glorify Him together.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with thanksgiving for our brother, who seeks Your will in this deeply personal area of his life. Lord, You know his heart’s desire for a godly wife—a helper suited for him (Genesis 2:18), a woman who will walk beside him in faith, love, and obedience to Your Word. We ask that You prepare her even now, wherever she may be, and draw her closer to You. Soften her heart to recognize Your voice and Your leading when the time comes for Your paths to cross.
Father, we pray for divine appointments—opportunities for our brother to meet women of faith in settings that honor You. Give him discernment to recognize Your hand at work, and grant him the courage to step forward in faith when You open the door. Remove any fear, hesitation, or past wounds that might hinder him from embracing the future You have planned. Let this season be one of patience and trust, knowing that Your timing is perfect (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or compromise that might tempt him to settle for less than Your best. Guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7), and let him rest in the assurance that You are working all things together for his good (Romans 8:28). If there are areas in his life that need refinement—whether in his character, priorities, or walk with You—reveal them to him by Your Spirit, and grant him the grace to surrender fully to Your will.
Lord, we ask for miracles—divine interventions that only You can orchestrate. Let Your favor rest upon him as he seeks You first. May his future wife be a woman of prayer, wisdom, and virtue (Proverbs 31:10-31), one who will stand beside him in ministry, in trials, and in joy, all for Your glory. Bind their hearts together in Your love, and let their union be a testimony of Your faithfulness.
Finally, Father, we pray that our brother would continue to abide in You, finding his identity and satisfaction in Christ alone. Let him walk in purity, patience, and faith, knowing that You are the author of every good gift (James 1:17). We declare this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who alone makes a way where there seems to be no way. Amen.
Stand firm in your faith, brother. The Lord hears your prayers, and He is faithful. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and trust that He who began this good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). We are praying with you and for you!
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
