Pray For Me And My Fiance To Clear All Heathen Ideas That Creep Into Our Relationship

[friendshipcalling]

I am writing this with a very dejected,depressed and a broken heart...and a bit confused because I am not sure what I have done is good in God's sight or not. This is exactly the reason that forced me to sit down and write this letter.

I need your suggestion, your prayer desperately.Here is my story in brief...

I am Abhishek Mukerji.Am from India.(Email:friendshipcalling@gmail.com)

I was engaged to a Christian girl Moumita for more than 1.5 years(our family made the arrangements).Truth is we love and do love each other madly.Though we are not married we considered each other husband and wife and meant it.

Recently talks of our marriage date finalization came up.And during that her parents and me disagreed on one point..

In India Hindus have a culture to put 'sindoor'(vermillian) on a bride's forehead during marriage.It is considered an auspicious sign (a sign believed to protect the husband,a sign of a married woman) and that has to be put by the husband.

When I heard that I have to put this on her head, I refused to do so. I said how can I put two signs on her head? She will already have the sign of cross on her head during our wedding.How can I put that sign on top of that.I would be defying God in doing so and I fear God.There is no sign greater than the sign of cross which God made on our head by buying us with his holy blood.I cant put faith on any creative thing and defy my creator.

On hearing this her parents accused me that I am stubborn and I dont love her..my love has no meaning..just a simple applying of sindoor holds more meaning than my love for her.And finally I relented and they called off the marriage.They are clinging to worldly signs and beliefs rather than God.

I am heart broken..i cant tell u what is going on inside my heart.It's as if my heart has been teared of my body.My love is pure..but my fear of God is more than my love for her.She is not that much Christian minded and she is too afraid to retaliate against her parent's false notions and ideas.She holds me responsible for all this.But she loves me a lot I know.

I am down and hopeless.But I know God has some plan for me. I believe she will be my wife.I believe her parents will know the true living Christ and know that nothing is more holy and auspicious than Christ himself.

I need your prayers..please pray for me and my Moumita..and her parents. Please help me out.I cant rest,I cant sleep,I cant work..I feel so much depressed.

 

[Betty Land]

Jesus I join in prayer and trust and believe that his life will improve and because of You Jesus we can face anything we need to face because You live within side of all of us. Thank you Jesus for answering and always being here for us all.

 

[clay pot]

Thank you, Lord, for helping him and his fiance to marry and restoring all relationships that Christ may be glorified and all members saved, healed and delivered from Hinduism. Thank you, Lord, for healing him and his fiance of broken hearts that this marriage may take place and all glory to you for it, in the name of Jesus, let it be so, amen!

 

[pray4u]

Lord, I Pray that You give this brother Comfort and Peace in his stand of doing what is right as You lead him. I Know if I were in his shoes, I would not go along with this pagan ritual. Brother, Your wife needs to be strong in her Faith in God with you or you will be fighting for her total commitment to you and God. If she does not break free from the pagan rituals, there will be a great tug-a-war between you and her family. I hope you understand what I am saying. You best Pray that God will show you the direction to go. God Bless you.

 

[Praying4u15]

Abhishek,

my friend, my heart goes out to you !!!

Our Heavenly Father, we place your Son & His Fiancee in your presence @ your feet for your Blessings & Intervention. Father, please touch evryone's Heart involved, soften it that these Children of them will not have to go their seperate ways but instead give you Glory & Praise by their life together as a Christian couple.

In Jesus name, Amen !!!