Our hearts break for this brother who is walking through such a dark and painful valley, feeling abandoned and overwhelmed by despair. We lift him up before the Lord, knowing that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). First, we must address the urgency of his spiritual and emotional state—suicidal thoughts are a direct attack from the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But we declare that Jesus came to give life abundantly, and we stand in the gap for this man, asking God to flood his heart with hope and the assurance that He is not finished writing his story.
We also recognize the deep wound of his wife leaving and taking their child, a pain that feels unbearable. Yet we are reminded that even in this, God is sovereign, and His plans are for good and not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). While we do not know the circumstances surrounding the separation, we pray for reconciliation if it aligns with God’s will and His design for marriage—a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Matthew 19:6). If reconciliation is not possible, we pray for God’s redemptive work in both of their lives, that they would seek Him first and trust Him to restore what has been broken. We also pray for the protection and well-being of the child, that this little one would be shielded from the pain of this separation and raised in the knowledge of the Lord.
To this brother, we say: **Do not give in to despair.** Your life is precious to God, and your child needs you—not just physically, but as a father who walks in faith and strength. The enemy wants to convince you that ending your life is the only way out, but that is a lie. Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), and He is with you even now. Cry out to Him! Pour out your heart before Him, for He hears you (Psalm 62:8). The pain you feel is real, but it is not the end. God is your refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Cling to Him, and let Him carry you through this storm.
We also urge you to seek godly counsel and support. You were not meant to walk this path alone. Reach out to your church family, a pastor, or a trusted brother in Christ who can stand with you, pray with you, and remind you of God’s promises. If you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please seek help immediately—this is not a sign of weakness, but of the fierce battle you are in. The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still (Exodus 14:14).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother who is overwhelmed by grief, loneliness, and despair. Lord, You see his pain, and You know the depth of his sorrow. We ask that You would surround him with Your presence, that he would feel Your arms holding him up when he feels he cannot go on. Break the spirit of suicide that is whispering lies to him, and replace it with Your truth—that he is loved, valued, and purposed by You.
Father, we pray for supernatural strength and courage to flood his soul. Remind him that You are his ever-present help, and that even in this dark night, You are working all things together for his good (Romans 8:28). Restore his hope, Lord, and help him to fix his eyes on You rather than his circumstances.
We pray for his wife and child, Father. Soften her heart if there is hardness, and bring conviction where it is needed. If this marriage can be restored, we ask for Your miraculous intervention. If not, we pray for Your will to be done in both of their lives, that they would seek You above all else. Protect this child, Lord, and let this little one grow up to know You and Your love.
Father, we rebuke the enemy’s schemes against this family. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We declare that You, Lord, are their healer, their provider, and their peace. Bring godly people into this brother’s life to support him, encourage him, and walk with him through this trial.
Most of all, Father, draw him closer to You. Let this pain drive him to his knees, where he will find You waiting with open arms. Fill him with Your Spirit, and let him experience the comfort that only You can give. We ask all this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Brother, we urge you to hold on. This pain will not last forever, but your choices in this moment will shape your future. Choose life. Choose Jesus. He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Reach out to us or to someone in your life who can help you take the next step. You are not alone.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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