We stand with you in this time of deep hurt and spiritual warfare, lifting up your heartache before the Lord who sees all things and judges righteously. The pain of manipulation, disrespect, and false accusations—especially from someone claiming to follow Christ—is a heavy burden, but we serve a God who is just and who will not allow the wicked to triumph forever. The Scriptures warn us that such behavior is an abomination to Him, for He despises hypocrisy and those who twist His Word for their own ungodly purposes.
The Lord says in **Proverbs 6:16-19 (WEB)**, *"There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* This relative’s actions—manipulating Scripture, sowing discord, and demanding you disown your father over false pretenses—are not of God but of the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. Yet we know that **Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10)**, and He will not allow the enemy’s schemes to prevail against those who trust in Him.
You have done well to recognize that forgiveness is a commandment, yet it does not mean tolerating sin or allowing this person to continue in their destructive behavior. Forgiveness is releasing the debt to God, trusting Him to repay (Romans 12:19), while also setting boundaries to protect your family from further harm. **Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Your anger is justified, but we must not let it fester into bitterness. Instead, we surrender it to the Lord, who alone can bring justice and healing.
As for the curse of poverty spoken over your family—**we break it now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ!** The Lord declares in **Deuteronomy 28:1-14 (WEB)** that obedience brings blessing, and in **Galatians 3:13-14 (WEB)**, we are told, *"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,' that the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Christ Jesus; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith."* No curse can stand against the blood of Jesus! Your family is covered by His provision, and we declare that every word spoken against you is nullified by the power of the cross.
We also address the grave concern of idolatry mentioned in your request. If your father has not brought idols into the home, we praise God for His protection. But if there is any openness to idolatry in your household, we urge you to stand firm in **Exodus 20:3-5 (WEB)**, *"You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourselves an idol, nor any image of anything that is in the heavens above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: you shall not bow yourself down to them, nor serve them."* Idolatry is an abomination that invites demonic influence, and we pray that your home would be a place of worship to the one true God alone.
Now, let us pray together:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, You see the pain and manipulation this relative has inflicted—twisting Your Word, sowing discord, and speaking curses where You have ordained blessing. We ask for Your justice, Lord, not out of vengeance, but because Your Word says You will not be mocked (Galatians 6:7). Expose the hypocrisy, Father, and bring this person to true repentance. Softening their heart to see the error of their ways, that they may turn from their wickedness and seek Your forgiveness before it is too late. If they refuse, Lord, we trust You to handle their rebellion, for You alone are the righteous Judge.*
*We break every curse of poverty spoken over this family in Jesus’ name. You, Lord, are our Provider (Philippians 4:19), and we declare that no weapon formed against this household shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what has been stolen, Father—peace, harmony, and provision. Protect this home from idolatry and every scheme of the enemy. Let Your Holy Spirit fill every corner, driving out all darkness and establishing Your kingdom here.*
*Lord, we ask for wisdom and strength for our brother/sister as they navigate this trial. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven us, yet also to set godly boundaries to protect their family. May their home be a refuge of Your love, where Your Word is honored and Your presence is tangible. Heal the wounds caused by this relative’s actions, Father, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).*
*Finally, Lord, we pray for salvation and true transformation in this relative’s life. If they do not know You, reveal Yourself to them in a way they cannot deny. If they are a believer walking in rebellion, convict them deeply, that they may turn back to You in genuine repentance. Do not let them be a stumbling block to others, but either restore them or remove their influence, according to Your will.*
*We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your justice. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.*
Stand firm in the Lord, dear one. Do not waver in your faith, for **1 Corinthians 15:58 (WEB)** tells us, *"Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the Lord’s work, because you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord."* Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. If this relative refuses to repent, remember that **Psalm 37:5-6 (WEB)** says, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* The Lord will vindicate you. Stay in prayer, stay in the Word, and trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
If this relative continues in their behavior, it may be necessary to limit or cut off contact for the sake of your family’s spiritual and emotional well-being. **Matthew 18:15-17 (WEB)** gives us a process for addressing sin in a believer’s life, and if they refuse to listen even to the church, we are to treat them as an outsider. This is not done out of malice but out of love for truth and holiness. Pray for discernment on how to proceed, and may the Lord grant you peace that surpasses all understanding as you trust in Him.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
