pray for Jesus help me forgive and forget the hurtful words that are not

We understand the deep pain you are carrying from hurtful words that have wounded your spirit, and we commend you for seeking Jesus in this struggle. Forgiveness is not an easy path, but it is the path Christ calls us to walk—one that leads to freedom and healing. The words spoken against you may have been cruel, thoughtless, or even intentionally harmful, but in Christ, you have the power to release them and refuse to let them define you. The Bible reminds us in **Colossians 3:13**, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Just as Christ forgave us while we were still sinners, we are called to extend that same grace to others, not because they deserve it, but because *we* have been shown mercy beyond measure.

Yet forgiveness is not just about the other person—it is also about your own heart. Unforgiveness is like a poison that eats away at your soul, while forgiveness is the antidote that sets you free. **Ephesians 4:31-32** tells us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Those hurtful words may replay in your mind like a broken record, but you have the authority in Christ to hit "delete" and cast them into the dustbin of forgetfulness. This doesn’t mean the pain never existed, but it means you refuse to let it control you any longer. You are choosing to surrender it to Jesus, who bore *all* your sorrows on the cross.

We also want to gently remind you that true healing comes not from our own strength, but from the power of Jesus Christ. You mentioned seeking Jesus’ help, and that is exactly where your victory lies. There is no hurt too deep, no wound too fresh that He cannot redeem. **Psalm 147:3** assures us, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* But we must come to Him honestly, laying our pain at His feet and trusting Him to replace it with His peace. If you find yourself struggling to let go, ask the Holy Spirit to fill you afresh. **Philippians 4:6-7** says, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."*

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, who is carrying the heavy burden of hurtful words that have pierced their heart. Lord Jesus, You know the depth of their pain, and You see every tear they have cried. We ask You to minister to them in a mighty way, to wash over them with Your love and to replace their brokenness with Your wholeness. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven them, not in their own strength, but by the power of Your Spirit. Teach them to release these words into Your hands, to delete them from their memory as though they were never spoken, and to cast them into the dustbin of forgetfulness, never to be retrieved again.

Father, we rebuke the enemy who seeks to use these words to bring shame, anger, or bitterness. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn (**Isaiah 54:17**). Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let Your truth be the only voice they hear. Remind them that they are fearfully and wonderfully made, that their worth is found in You alone, and that no word of man can define them when You have already called them *beloved*.

Give them the grace to move forward in freedom, Lord. Let this season of pain become a testimony of Your healing power. And if there is anyone they need to forgive—even themselves—grant them the courage to do so, knowing that forgiveness is the key to their own liberation. We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to meditate on **Isaiah 43:18-19**, which says, *"Don’t remember the former things, and don’t consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs out now. Don’t you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert."* God is not done writing your story. What the enemy meant for harm, God will use for good (**Genesis 50:20**). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (**Hebrews 12:2**), and trust that He is making all things new—including your heart. You are not alone in this; we are standing with you in prayer, believing for your complete restoration in Christ.
 
Oh, dear friend, we're here with you, holding your heart in our prayers. We know the sting of hurtful words, the echo of pain that lingers long after the words have faded. But we want you to know, you're not alone in this. Jesus is right there with you, and He's whispering, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28).

Forgiveness is indeed a journey, a path that Jesus walked first, and He's inviting us to follow. It's not about excusing the hurt, but it's about letting go of the burden that's been weighing you down. It's about choosing to see those words for what they are - words. They don't define you. You are a child of God, loved, cherished, and valued beyond measure.

We're praying for you, dear one. We're asking Jesus to fill your heart with His love, to heal your wounds, and to help you forgive as He has forgiven you. We're asking Him to take those hurtful words, to delete them from your memory, and to cast them into the dustbin of forgetfulness. We're claiming His promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

And remember, forgiveness isn't just about the other person. It's about your own heart. It's about letting go of the bitterness and anger, and choosing kindness and love instead. It's about finding freedom in forgiveness.

We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). He's making all things new, including your heart. You're not alone in this. We're standing with you, believing for your complete healing and restoration in Christ.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
❤️ May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request for healing and deliverance according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

🙏 Prayer Focus: God, You are the great Physician, Healer, and Deliver. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name, have mercy on all those I know who stand in need of healing and deliverance (including myself). Heal and deliver each of us from the top of our heads to the souls of our feet. Heal and deliver us of every sickness in our bodies and from every spirit the enemy of our souls has sent in our lives on assignment to steal, kill, destroy, and to prohibit us from having a close everlasting intimate relationship with You. God thoroughly wash, cleanse, purify, and restore each of us. Touch our hearts, minds, and bodies. Let each of us personally experience the transformative work of Your Holy Spirit, bringing healing, deliverance, wholeness, strength, and restoration to every area of our bodies and lives. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. Thank You Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith!

Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.


 

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