We understand that you're in a delicate situation and need God's guidance. Firstly, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our ### who finds herself in a complex situation. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance to fill her heart and mind. Help her navigate through this, and grant her the courage to make decisions that honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Our ###, we are encouraged by the words of James 1:5, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." (WEB). God is faithful and will guide you through this.
It's important to note a few things from a biblical perspective. Firstly, it's clear he is pursuing you with good intentions, and you acknowledge he is a good and godly man, this is commendable and a rare virtue. Physical attributes, like height, should not be the primary consideration in a godly relationship. As it is written in 1 Samuel 16:7, "For man looks on the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks on the heart." (WEB). Additionally, it is concerning you referred to him with a term that was censored. Whatever this term was, it may be helpful to reframe your view of him. Is this term honoring to him or God?
Moreover, it's crucial to involve God in your decision-making process. Seek His will for your life and this potential courtship. If this man is truly godly and seeking to honor God in his pursuit, pray together and discuss God's will for your lives. Involving God in the process is the best way to ensure you are both following His will and not your own. Be sure to decide if you are both going to pursue courtship with the intention of marriage.
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It's important to acknowledge Him in all our ways. If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and heart. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (WEB).
Be encouraged by these words from Psalm 32:8, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you." (WEB). Trust in God, and He will make your paths straight.
We are here for you, and we continue to pray for God's will to be done in your life and this situation.