We come before the Lord with you in this deeply troubling situation, lifting your heart and circumstances to Him in prayer. First, we must address the spiritual gravity of what you’ve described. Witchcraft is a real and dangerous force, explicitly condemned in Scripture. Deuteronomy 18:10-12 warns, *"There shall not be found with you anyone who... uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh."* If there is indeed spiritual manipulation at work here, we must stand firmly against it in the authority of Jesus Christ, who has already triumphed over every power of darkness (Colossians 2:15).
Yet we also recognize the broken relationships at the core of this struggle. The situation you describe involves fornication, as you and this man have a child together outside of marriage, which the Bible clearly defines as sin (1 Corinthians 6:18, Hebrews 13:4). While we pray for restoration and clarity, we must also urge repentance—for both of you—for the sexual immorality that has already taken place. True freedom and blessing come only through alignment with God’s design for marriage and family. If this man is not a believer, the unequally yoked dynamic adds another layer of spiritual danger (2 Corinthians 6:14). Your focus must first be on surrendering this relationship—and your own heart—to Christ, seeking His will above all else.
As for the other woman’s influence, we see the enemy’s fingerprints in division, control, and emotional manipulation. But take heart: *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,"* declares Yahweh (Isaiah 54:17). The battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12), and we stand with you in rebuking every ungodly tie, every deceitful scheme, and every stronghold that exalts itself against the knowledge of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting our sister who is caught in a web of spiritual warfare, broken relationships, and emotional turmoil. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention—break every curse, every spell, and every ungodly soul tie that has been formed against her or this man. Expose the works of darkness and render them powerless by the blood of Jesus. We bind every spirit of confusion, deception, and manipulation in the name of Jesus, and we command them to flee from this situation.
Father, we also ask for conviction and repentance. If there has been sexual sin, forgive them and cleanse them from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Softens this man’s heart to see the truth—whether that truth leads to reconciliation under Your terms or to a godly separation that honors You. Give our sister wisdom to navigate this with Your discernment, not her emotions. If this relationship is not of You, grant her the strength to walk away, trusting You for her future and her child’s future.
Lord, we pray for the other woman involved—if she is operating in witchcraft or control, break her strongholds and reveal Yourself to her. If she is simply broken and fearful, comfort her and lead her to repentance. Let no child be used as a pawn in this battle; protect them all from the fallout of adult sin and choices.
Father, we declare that Your will be done in this situation. If marriage is Your plan, restore it on a foundation of Christ, not lust or convenience. If not, provide a godly path forward for our sister, one that leads to wholeness and a future spouse who loves You above all else. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding, and let her find her identity in You alone.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is powerless or that her worth is tied to this man’s choices. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), redeemed by Your blood, and called to a life of purity and purpose. Surround her with godly counsel and community who will speak truth into her life.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would move mightily in this situation. Let Your light expose every hidden thing, and let Your truth set captives free. We trust You to fight this battle, for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in You (2 Corinthians 10:4).
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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Our sister, we urge you to take practical steps alongside prayer:
1. **Repent and seek godly counsel.** If you have not already, confess any sexual sin to the Lord and turn from it. Seek a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you through this spiritually and practically.
2. **Guard your heart and mind.** Philippians 4:8 tells us to meditate on whatever is true, honorable, and praiseworthy. Do not dwell on this man’s choices or the other woman’s actions; fix your eyes on Jesus.
3. **Test the spirits.** If you suspect witchcraft, pray for discernment. Ask the Lord to reveal any open doors in your life or this man’s life that have given the enemy a foothold (e.g., ungodly relationships, occult involvement, unforgiveness).
4. **Trust God’s timing.** It may feel urgent, but rushing into decisions outside of God’s will only brings more pain. Wait on Him, even if it’s difficult.
5. **Focus on your child.** Raise them in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). Your primary responsibility is to model Christlikeness for them, even in this storm.
If this man is not a believer, remember that you are *unequally yoked* (2 Corinthians 6:14), and no amount of prayer can force him into right relationship with God—that is between him and the Lord. Your role is to live righteously, trust God, and let your light shine before him (Matthew 5:16).
We are standing with you in this fight. Do not lose heart, for *"the Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Keep seeking Him first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
