Shtariararr
Disciple of Prayer
Im ###. my husband name ###. he is doing ### actions. and ### to me. plzz pray for him to change his mind
Plzz pray for ###
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We understand the deep pain and distress you are experiencing, and we want you to know that you are not alone. The Lord sees your suffering, and He cares deeply for you. It is heartbreaking to hear of the struggles within your marriage, especially when actions are causing harm and betrayal. We want to lift you up in prayer and encourage you with God’s Word, which speaks directly to the sanctity of marriage and the call for husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church.
First, we must address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father, and it is only through Jesus Christ that we find salvation, healing, and restoration. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone can bring true transformation to your life and marriage. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without faith in Christ, there is no foundation for lasting change or hope.
Marriage is a covenant before God, and He calls husbands to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). If your husband’s actions are unfaithful, abusive, or sinful in any way, this is a direct violation of God’s design for marriage. We must also be clear: if there is physical, emotional, or verbal abuse, your safety and the safety of any children involved must be prioritized. The Bible does not call you to endure abuse, and we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your church or trusted believers who can help you navigate this situation wisely.
Adultery and unfaithfulness are grievous sins in the sight of God. Jesus Himself said, *"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."* (Matthew 5:28, WEB). If your husband is engaging in such actions, he is walking in disobedience to God, and this is something that must be repented of. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality defiles the marriage bed and has no place among God’s people. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict your husband’s heart and lead him to true repentance. Repentance is not just feeling sorry; it is turning away from sin and toward God, seeking forgiveness and making amends.
At the same time, we encourage you to examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you forgiven your husband for the ways he has hurt you? Unforgiveness can become a root of bitterness that defiles not only you but those around you. Jesus said, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). This does not mean you excuse his behavior or pretend it didn’t happen, but it means releasing the debt to God, who is the ultimate Judge. Forgiveness is a process, and it may require time and the help of the Holy Spirit, but it is essential for your own healing.
We also want to remind you that you are not responsible for your husband’s choices. You cannot change his heart—only God can do that. Your role is to pray, to seek the Lord’s wisdom, and to walk in obedience to Him, trusting that God is able to work in ways you cannot see. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). This is a time to draw near to God, to seek His comfort, and to allow Him to be your strength.
Now, let us pray together for you and your husband:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, the betrayal she has endured, and the brokenness in her marriage. We ask that You would be her Comforter, her Strength, and her Refuge in this time of distress. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Father, wrap Your loving arms around her and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way.
Lord, we pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart of his sin. If he has been unfaithful, abusive, or dishonoring in any way, we ask that You would bring him to true repentance. *"Godly sorrow produces repentance to salvation, which brings no regret. But the sorrow of the world produces death."* (2 Corinthians 7:10, WEB). Father, soften his heart and open his eyes to the damage his actions have caused. Let him see the gravity of his sin before You, and lead him to turn away from it completely. Break any strongholds of lust, pride, or hardness of heart that have taken root in his life.
We pray for restoration, Lord, but we also pray for Your will to be done. If this marriage can be healed and rebuilt on a foundation of godly love and commitment, we ask that You would do the impossible. *"The things that are impossible with men are possible with God."* (Luke 18:27, WEB). But if her husband refuses to repent, we pray that You would give her the wisdom and strength to take the necessary steps to protect herself and her household. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Lord, if he continues in rebellion, do not let her remain in bondage to sin or harm.
Father, we ask that You would surround her with godly counsel—people who will speak Your truth into her life and support her in this difficult season. Give her discernment to know who to trust and where to turn for help. If she is in danger, Lord, provide a way of escape and protect her from further harm. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
We pray that You would heal her heart, Lord. Restore her joy and her peace. Let her find her identity and worth in You alone, not in her marriage or her husband’s actions. *"The Lord Yahweh is my strength. He makes my feet like deer’s feet, and enables me to go on my high places."* (Habakkuk 3:19, WEB). Father, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom, grace, and forgiveness, even as she sets healthy boundaries.
Finally, Lord, we pray that You would use this trial for Your glory. Let it draw her closer to You and deepen her faith. Let it be a testimony of Your faithfulness, even in the darkest valleys. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."* (Romans 8:28, WEB). We trust You, Lord, and we ask that You would move mightily in this situation.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Our sister, we want you to know that we are standing with you in prayer. This is not a battle you fight alone. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. *"Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."* (Deuteronomy 31:6, WEB). We encourage you to seek out a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor who can walk with you through this. If you are in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities or a safe shelter.
If your husband is unwilling to repent, remember that you are not bound to remain in a situation where sin is continually embraced. *"But if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* (1 Corinthians 7:15, WEB). Your first allegiance is to Christ, and He calls you to holiness and peace.
Stay rooted in the Word of God. Read Psalms for comfort, Proverbs for wisdom, and the Gospels to remind yourself of Jesus’ love for you. Surround yourself with believers who will uplift you and point you to Christ. And never forget: you are deeply loved by the King of Kings. He sees you, He hears you, and He is working all things for your good and His glory. *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). We are praying for you, and we trust the Lord to bring justice, healing, and restoration in His perfect timing.
First, we must address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father, and it is only through Jesus Christ that we find salvation, healing, and restoration. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone can bring true transformation to your life and marriage. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without faith in Christ, there is no foundation for lasting change or hope.
Marriage is a covenant before God, and He calls husbands to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). If your husband’s actions are unfaithful, abusive, or sinful in any way, this is a direct violation of God’s design for marriage. We must also be clear: if there is physical, emotional, or verbal abuse, your safety and the safety of any children involved must be prioritized. The Bible does not call you to endure abuse, and we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your church or trusted believers who can help you navigate this situation wisely.
Adultery and unfaithfulness are grievous sins in the sight of God. Jesus Himself said, *"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."* (Matthew 5:28, WEB). If your husband is engaging in such actions, he is walking in disobedience to God, and this is something that must be repented of. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality defiles the marriage bed and has no place among God’s people. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict your husband’s heart and lead him to true repentance. Repentance is not just feeling sorry; it is turning away from sin and toward God, seeking forgiveness and making amends.
At the same time, we encourage you to examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you forgiven your husband for the ways he has hurt you? Unforgiveness can become a root of bitterness that defiles not only you but those around you. Jesus said, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). This does not mean you excuse his behavior or pretend it didn’t happen, but it means releasing the debt to God, who is the ultimate Judge. Forgiveness is a process, and it may require time and the help of the Holy Spirit, but it is essential for your own healing.
We also want to remind you that you are not responsible for your husband’s choices. You cannot change his heart—only God can do that. Your role is to pray, to seek the Lord’s wisdom, and to walk in obedience to Him, trusting that God is able to work in ways you cannot see. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). This is a time to draw near to God, to seek His comfort, and to allow Him to be your strength.
Now, let us pray together for you and your husband:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, the betrayal she has endured, and the brokenness in her marriage. We ask that You would be her Comforter, her Strength, and her Refuge in this time of distress. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Father, wrap Your loving arms around her and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way.
Lord, we pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart of his sin. If he has been unfaithful, abusive, or dishonoring in any way, we ask that You would bring him to true repentance. *"Godly sorrow produces repentance to salvation, which brings no regret. But the sorrow of the world produces death."* (2 Corinthians 7:10, WEB). Father, soften his heart and open his eyes to the damage his actions have caused. Let him see the gravity of his sin before You, and lead him to turn away from it completely. Break any strongholds of lust, pride, or hardness of heart that have taken root in his life.
We pray for restoration, Lord, but we also pray for Your will to be done. If this marriage can be healed and rebuilt on a foundation of godly love and commitment, we ask that You would do the impossible. *"The things that are impossible with men are possible with God."* (Luke 18:27, WEB). But if her husband refuses to repent, we pray that You would give her the wisdom and strength to take the necessary steps to protect herself and her household. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Lord, if he continues in rebellion, do not let her remain in bondage to sin or harm.
Father, we ask that You would surround her with godly counsel—people who will speak Your truth into her life and support her in this difficult season. Give her discernment to know who to trust and where to turn for help. If she is in danger, Lord, provide a way of escape and protect her from further harm. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
We pray that You would heal her heart, Lord. Restore her joy and her peace. Let her find her identity and worth in You alone, not in her marriage or her husband’s actions. *"The Lord Yahweh is my strength. He makes my feet like deer’s feet, and enables me to go on my high places."* (Habakkuk 3:19, WEB). Father, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom, grace, and forgiveness, even as she sets healthy boundaries.
Finally, Lord, we pray that You would use this trial for Your glory. Let it draw her closer to You and deepen her faith. Let it be a testimony of Your faithfulness, even in the darkest valleys. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."* (Romans 8:28, WEB). We trust You, Lord, and we ask that You would move mightily in this situation.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Our sister, we want you to know that we are standing with you in prayer. This is not a battle you fight alone. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. *"Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."* (Deuteronomy 31:6, WEB). We encourage you to seek out a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor who can walk with you through this. If you are in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities or a safe shelter.
If your husband is unwilling to repent, remember that you are not bound to remain in a situation where sin is continually embraced. *"But if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* (1 Corinthians 7:15, WEB). Your first allegiance is to Christ, and He calls you to holiness and peace.
Stay rooted in the Word of God. Read Psalms for comfort, Proverbs for wisdom, and the Gospels to remind yourself of Jesus’ love for you. Surround yourself with believers who will uplift you and point you to Christ. And never forget: you are deeply loved by the King of Kings. He sees you, He hears you, and He is working all things for your good and His glory. *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). We are praying for you, and we trust the Lord to bring justice, healing, and restoration in His perfect timing.
Dear sister, we're here for you. We've been praying for you and your husband, interceding before the throne of grace in Jesus' name. We know that change starts with the heart, and we're asking God to soften your husband's heart, to open his eyes to the pain he's causing, and to lead him to true repentance.
We're also praying for you, dear one. We ask God to comfort you, to wrap His loving arms around you, and to fill you with His peace and strength. We pray that you would find your worth and identity in Him alone, not in your husband's actions. We ask God to give you wisdom, discernment, and courage to make the decisions you need to make, always trusting in His faithfulness.
We're here to support you, to listen, and to pray with you. Please know that you're not alone in this. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God is at work, even in the midst of this trial. Keep holding on to Jesus, and remember His unfailing love for you. We're standing with you, sister.
We're also praying for you, dear one. We ask God to comfort you, to wrap His loving arms around you, and to fill you with His peace and strength. We pray that you would find your worth and identity in Him alone, not in your husband's actions. We ask God to give you wisdom, discernment, and courage to make the decisions you need to make, always trusting in His faithfulness.
We're here to support you, to listen, and to pray with you. Please know that you're not alone in this. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God is at work, even in the midst of this trial. Keep holding on to Jesus, and remember His unfailing love for you. We're standing with you, sister.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
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