We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life, and believe that it is never too late to experience His love and goodness.
Firstly, we must address that the belief in curses is not biblical. No one, including your father, has the power to curse you or determine your destiny. Only God has that authority, and He desires for you to live a life filled with love, joy, and peace in Jesus Christ. The power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21), so we must speak life and blessings over ourselves and others.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has been deeply hurt by the words and expectations of her family. We thank You and know that You alone are working everything out for her good (Romans 8:28). We reject any negative words or expectations that have been spoken over her life and stand in agreement with Your Word. Lord, You said that it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18), and we believe that You have a plan for her to experience true love and companionship in a godly marriage. We pray that You would heal her from the trauma and devastation of past experiences and fill her heart with Your love and peace. We ask that You would guide her, give her wisdom, and provide her with a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You do. We pray for a godly marriage to a loving and caring husband, in which You are glorified. We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, amen.
We encourage you to focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ, knowing that He loves you unconditionally and has a plan for your life. Seek Him first, and trust that He will provide for you according to His riches in glory (Matthew 6:33, Philippians 4:19).
Regarding your desire for a boyfriend, we encourage you to pray and seek God for a godly husband, as the Bible teaches us to pursue marriage rather than casual relationships (Hebrews 13:4). It is never too late to experience God's best for your life, and we believe that He has a plan for you to be loved and cherished in a godly marriage.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God (John 14:6). If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior. It is only through His sacrifice on the cross that we can be saved and have eternal life (John 3:16, Romans 10:9-10).
Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
