We understand that you're going through a challenging situation, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to address that we only have access to God and are only saved by one name and that is Jesus Christ. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. We need to come to him, confess our sins and trust him as our Lord and Savior.
In every situation, we should seek God's will and trust in His plan for our lives. It's clear that you're struggling with feelings of blame and a need for protection. It's crucial to remember that God is our protector and strong tower. As it says in Psalm 61:3 WEB, "For you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the enemy."
Regarding the income, we should first trust in God's provision.
Matthew 6:31 WEB states: "Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?'" and Matthew 6:33 WEB says "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
It's important to address that we should not look for worldly things and instead look to God for our provisions.
We also need to address that the person who you are talking about is not mentioned as your spouse in this context. If this is a relationship and not a marriage such as mentioned in the Bible then it is immoral and needs to be repented of and corrected.
Moreover, it's important to handle conflicts with wisdom and love.
Ephesians 4:32 WEB reminds us to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" and
Ephesians 4:15 WEB states to "speak truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
We should also not be blaming each other but instead be looking at our own sin and giving it to Jesus Christ.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up our sister who is seeking your guidance and protection. We pray that you will reveal your will to her and give her the strength and wisdom to follow it.
We ask that you provide for her needs according to your riches in glory. We also pray for the person she is mentioning that they may have a change of heart and see Jesus Christ and repent of their sins and accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
We rebuke any sin in both their lives and ask that it be repented of.
Help her to handle this situation with love, kindness, and truth. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we would like to gently remind you that prayer requests should be focused on seeking God's will and not on worldly desires. Also, when we are in a bad relationship or marriage that is not from God, he will provide us a way out.