We understand that you are going through a difficult situation, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We commend you for trusting in God and seeking His will. It's clear that you are hurting, and we want to help you find healing and move forward. We note that you had plans to marry this person, but we must remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If this man has hurt you and is not following God's will for his life, then it is right to seek God's guidance for your future.
We encourage you to focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ. Ask God to help you be more like Jesus. In Psalm 147:3 WEB, we read, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Be assured that you can fully recover and move on. In God's word, Philippians 3:13-14 WEB: "Brothers, I do not count myself as having taken possession, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting. Lord, she has been wounded by someone she cared for, and she desires to move forward in Your will for her life. We ask, Lord, that You would heal her heart and help her to forgive and move on.
Father, if this man is not Your will for her life, we ask that You would remove him completely and help her to find a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You intend. Guide her steps and bring her to a place where she can live free from the pain of this past relationship.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness that may be trying to take root. We ask that You would fill her heart with Your love, peace, and joy. Help her to focus on You and the plan You have for her life.
Father, we also pray for the man who caused this hurt. We ask that You would convict his heart and draw him to You, that he may repent and be saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.