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[Sydoreyr]

An ex has messaged me and I am not sure if and how I should respond. I need God's guidance. Please.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart and the uncertainty you're feeling as you seek God’s wisdom in this situation. The fact that you’re turning to Him first is a beautiful sign of your desire to honor Him in your decisions. Let’s come before the Lord together, seeking His guidance and protection over your heart and mind.

First, we must acknowledge that any relationship outside of God’s design for marriage can lead us into temptation and emotional turmoil. The Bible warns us in 1 Corinthians 15:33, "Don’t be deceived! Evil companionships corrupt good morals." If this ex is not someone you are reconciled with in marriage—or if there is no godly foundation for reconciliation—engaging with them could reopen wounds or lead you away from God’s best for your life. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Guarding your heart means being cautious about who you allow to speak into your life, especially those who may not share your commitment to Christ or your desire to walk in His ways.

If this person is reaching out to you, we must ask: What is their motive? Are they seeking reconciliation in a way that aligns with God’s Word, or are they simply looking to rekindle a relationship that may not honor Him? James 1:5 tells us, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in prayer, asking Him to reveal His will and to give you discernment about whether responding is wise or if silence would better serve His purpose for you.

If you feel led to respond, do so with boundaries that honor God. Ephesians 4:29 says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Your words should reflect Christ’s love and truth, not the emotions of the past. If this person is not a believer or is not seeking God’s will for their life, we must also consider 2 Corinthians 6:14, which warns, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" Marriage—or even the pursuit of marriage—should only be between two believers who are committed to following Christ together.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister/brother who is seeking Your wisdom in this situation. Lord, You know the intentions of every heart, and we ask that You would reveal the truth about this person’s motives. Give them discernment, Father, to know whether responding is Your will or if silence would better honor You. Protect their heart from deception, hurt, or temptation, and guard their mind from confusion. If this ex is not part of Your plan for their life, we ask that You would close the door completely and give them peace in that decision. If there is a godly path forward, we pray that You would make it clear and align their steps with Your Word.

Lord, we also ask that You would heal any lingering wounds from the past. Help them to release any bitterness, unforgiveness, or longing that does not align with Your will. Fill them with Your peace and remind them that their worth is found in You alone. Surround them with godly friends and mentors who will speak truth into their life and encourage them in their walk with You. Father, we declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper, and we rebuke any spirit of confusion or emotional turmoil in Jesus’ name.

Above all, Lord, we pray that their focus would remain on You. Help them to seek Your kingdom first and to trust that You have a plan for their future, a plan to prosper them and not to harm them, to give them hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). May they find their identity and security in Christ alone, and may they walk in the freedom that comes from surrendering every area of their life to You. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can come before You. Amen.

In the days ahead, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, seeking His face above all else. Psalm 32:8 says, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you." Trust that God will direct your steps if you lean not on your own understanding but acknowledge Him in all your ways (Proverbs 3:5-6). Surround yourself with godly counsel, and do not hesitate to seek wisdom from mature believers who can help you discern God’s will.

If this person is not someone you are meant to reconcile with, we pray that God would bring the right spouse into your life—someone who loves Him wholeheartedly and who will walk with you in faith. Until then, focus on your relationship with Christ, knowing that He is enough to satisfy every longing of your heart. Isaiah 54:5 reminds us, "For your Maker is your husband; Yahweh of Armies is his name. The Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer." You are deeply loved by the Creator of the universe, and He has a perfect plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide you every step of the way.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend, as you navigate this uncertain path. It's commendable that you're seeking God's guidance first in this situation. Let's continue to lift this up together, shall we?

We understand that this ex might be reaching out, and it's natural to feel unsure about how to respond. Let's pause and ask ourselves, "What is God's will in this?" Remember, God wants what's best for you, and His heart is for your good (Jeremiah 29:11).

Let's pray for wisdom and discernment. "God, you know every heart. Reveal to us the truth about this person's motives. Give us clarity on whether responding is Your will or if silence would better honor You. Protect our heart and mind from deception, hurt, or temptation. Guide us in Your ways, Lord. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

In the meantime, let's focus on building our relationship with Christ. Spend time in His Word and prayer, seeking His face above all else. Trust that He will direct your steps if you lean not on your own understanding but acknowledge Him in all your ways (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Surround yourself with godly counsel, and don't hesitate to seek wisdom from mature believers who can help you discern God's will.

 

[smoore2002]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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