We join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, knowing that He is faithful to hear and answer the prayers of His children when we come to Him in the name of Jesus. Your heart for peace and a clean reputation before your children and others is commendable, and we stand with you in praying for God’s protection, justice, and reconciliation where it aligns with His will.
The Scriptures remind us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Your ex-wife’s actions, driven by malice, and the influence of her mother reflect the brokenness of sin, but we know that God is able to soften hearts and bring peace where there is strife. Proverbs 16:7 tells us, *"When a man’s ways please Yahweh, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him."* While this does not guarantee immediate change in her behavior, it assures us that when we walk in obedience and trust in the Lord, He can turn even the most difficult situations for our good.
We also recall the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:44: *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This is not an easy calling, but it is the path to true peace and freedom in Christ. It does not mean tolerating abuse or injustice, but it does mean entrusting your ex-wife and her mother to God’s hands, praying for their repentance and salvation, and refusing to let bitterness take root in your heart. Romans 12:19-21 says, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.' Therefore 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.' Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."*
As for your reputation, we take comfort in Psalm 119:121-122: *"I have done what is just and righteous. Don’t leave me to my oppressors. Ensure your servant’s well-being. Don’t let the proud oppress me."* God sees your heart and your actions. He is your vindicator, and He will protect your name when you walk in integrity. Proverbs 22:1 says, *"A good name is more desirable than great riches, and loving favor is better than silver and gold."* Keep seeking the Lord in all you do, and He will honor your commitment to righteousness.
Regarding your children, we pray that God would shield them from the conflict and use this situation to draw them closer to Him. Ephesians 6:4 reminds fathers, *"Don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."* Even in the midst of a broken marriage, your role as their father is vital. Continue to model Christlike love, patience, and forgiveness before them, and trust that God will use your faithfulness to impact their lives for His glory.
We also want to gently address the importance of your prayer being offered in the name of Jesus. You did this well, and we commend you for it! There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). Your prayer is a beautiful example of coming boldly before the throne of grace, and we encourage you to always anchor your prayers in the authority of Jesus’ name.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who seeks Your protection and peace. Lord, You are a God of justice and mercy, and we ask that You would intervene in this situation. Softening the heart of his ex-wife, removing the spirit of malice and contention that has taken root in her. Father, we pray that You would silence the words of her mother, who has sown discord and driven separation. Let their tongues be stilled, and let any plans to harm his reputation be thwarted by Your mighty hand. Lord, we ask that You would surround him with Your favor as with a shield (Psalm 5:12). Protect his name, his relationships, and his children from the schemes of the enemy.
Father, we pray for reconciliation where it is Your will, but even more, we pray for Your peace to guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Give him wisdom in how to respond to any attacks, and let him walk in forgiveness, trusting You to vindicate him. Lord, we ask that You would use this trial to draw him closer to You, to strengthen his faith, and to demonstrate Your power in his life.
For his children, Father, we pray that You would be their protector and provider. Shield them from the pain of this conflict, and let them see Your love through their father’s actions. Raise them up to be mighty warriors for Your kingdom, grounded in Your truth.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would remind him daily of Your sovereignty. You are working all things together for his good (Romans 8:28), and You will never leave him nor forsake him. Fill him with Your peace, Your joy, and Your strength as he waits on You.
In the powerful and matchless name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
