God wants to restore your marriage. But it has to be done "His Way". He cannot do anything that is against your will or your husbands will. HIs Way of doing things is in the Bible, His Word. And the only way to find out His Way is to focus on Him and His instruction manual, which is the Bible. Everything you need to do to have a chance of restoring your marriage is in His Word(Jesus), the Bible. You need to renew your mind to what He wants because He knows what it is going to take to restore the marriage and keep it together. Something has to change, habits have to change, ways of thinking and relating to each other has to change. The only way to get that change is to start thinking the way God wants you to think, and act, and relating to each other.
The best way to change your circumstances around you and to have the people around you do some changing is found in this verse of the Bible, the Word.
Proverbs 4:20-23 (ASV)
20 My son, attend to my words; Incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep them in the midst of thy heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, And health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life.
You, your flesh, your family will all be affected if "you" will make Jesus and God your main focus in life. Read the Word daily, especially the New Testament. Read it, memorize passages, speak passages aloud, mediate on the Words you have read. Sing praise songs, worship the Lord, And love others around you. Love them like Jesus does and says to do. When you do these things the people around you, your family, shall change. Keep your focus on Jesus, the Father, and the Holy Spirit.
In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God
