Haleurkian
Disciple of Prayer
Please have ### contact me and want to come back to me
Please pray me and ### talk soon
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We hear your longing for reconciliation and communication with ###, and we come before the Lord with your request, lifting it up in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and it is in His name that we pray, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
First, we must examine our hearts and motives in this situation. Are we seeking ### out of loneliness, fear, or a desire to control the outcome? Or are we truly seeking God’s will and His best for both of your lives? The Bible tells us, "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). This does not mean God will give us everything we want, but as we align our desires with His, He shapes our hearts to want what is best for us.
If ### is someone you are considering as a potential spouse, we must ensure that this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage, a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you have been in a relationship that has involved sin, such as fornication (sex outside of marriage), we must repent and turn away from that sin, for "the body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body" (1 Corinthians 6:13). If this is the case, we encourage you to confess this sin before God, seek His forgiveness, and commit to purity moving forward.
If ### is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we must also consider the wisdom of Scripture: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage or courtship with an unbeliever can lead to spiritual conflict and hinder your walk with the Lord. We pray that if ### is not a believer, God would draw their heart to Himself first, so that any future relationship would be built on a shared foundation of faith.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). We lift up this situation to You, asking for Your will to be done in both of their lives. Lord, we pray that You would soften ###'s heart and open the lines of communication if it is Your will. If this relationship is not in alignment with Your purposes, we ask that You would close the door and give both of them peace in that decision.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment for both of them. If this is a relationship that should be pursued with marriage in mind, we ask that You would guide their steps, guard their hearts, and help them to honor You in all they do. If there has been sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, and we pray for the strength to walk in purity moving forward.
Lord, we also pray for ###'s salvation if they do not know You. Draw them to Yourself, open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel, and let them experience the love and grace that can only be found in Jesus Christ. May they come to know You as their Lord and Savior, so that any future relationship would be rooted in You.
Father, we surrender this situation into Your hands. We trust that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Give them both peace, patience, and faith to wait on Your timing. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this matter, not just for the outcome you desire, but for His will to be done. Spend time in prayer and in the Word, asking God to reveal His heart to you. If ### does reach out, seek the Lord’s guidance on how to respond in a way that honors Him. If they do not, trust that God is protecting you from something that is not His best for you.
Remember, "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth" (Psalm 145:18). Keep your heart open to His leading, and He will direct your paths.
First, we must examine our hearts and motives in this situation. Are we seeking ### out of loneliness, fear, or a desire to control the outcome? Or are we truly seeking God’s will and His best for both of your lives? The Bible tells us, "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). This does not mean God will give us everything we want, but as we align our desires with His, He shapes our hearts to want what is best for us.
If ### is someone you are considering as a potential spouse, we must ensure that this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage, a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you have been in a relationship that has involved sin, such as fornication (sex outside of marriage), we must repent and turn away from that sin, for "the body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body" (1 Corinthians 6:13). If this is the case, we encourage you to confess this sin before God, seek His forgiveness, and commit to purity moving forward.
If ### is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we must also consider the wisdom of Scripture: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage or courtship with an unbeliever can lead to spiritual conflict and hinder your walk with the Lord. We pray that if ### is not a believer, God would draw their heart to Himself first, so that any future relationship would be built on a shared foundation of faith.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). We lift up this situation to You, asking for Your will to be done in both of their lives. Lord, we pray that You would soften ###'s heart and open the lines of communication if it is Your will. If this relationship is not in alignment with Your purposes, we ask that You would close the door and give both of them peace in that decision.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment for both of them. If this is a relationship that should be pursued with marriage in mind, we ask that You would guide their steps, guard their hearts, and help them to honor You in all they do. If there has been sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, and we pray for the strength to walk in purity moving forward.
Lord, we also pray for ###'s salvation if they do not know You. Draw them to Yourself, open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel, and let them experience the love and grace that can only be found in Jesus Christ. May they come to know You as their Lord and Savior, so that any future relationship would be rooted in You.
Father, we surrender this situation into Your hands. We trust that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Give them both peace, patience, and faith to wait on Your timing. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this matter, not just for the outcome you desire, but for His will to be done. Spend time in prayer and in the Word, asking God to reveal His heart to you. If ### does reach out, seek the Lord’s guidance on how to respond in a way that honors Him. If they do not, trust that God is protecting you from something that is not His best for you.
Remember, "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth" (Psalm 145:18). Keep your heart open to His leading, and He will direct your paths.
Waiting and hoping for a spouse to reach out is such a tender, vulnerable place to be. We ache with you in that longing, and we want you to know you are not alone as you carry this desire.
When a marriage hits this kind of silence and distance, it can be easy to fix all our energy on what the other person will do. But one thing we’ve seen help often is gently turning our attention to the space we can tend right now, our own heart before God. Not because you are to blame for the silence, but because clarity and steadiness in you are sustaining gifts, no matter how the waiting ends. Sometimes we need to ask: Lord, what do You want to do in me during this season? That doesn’t replace the prayer for reconciliation. It runs right alongside it.
The path back to each other, if God opens it, will take two hearts willing to do honest, humble work. So while you hope for contact, we encourage you to keep bringing your own fears and longings openly before the Lord. Let Him meet you there with His own steady love. That kind of rootedness will serve you both, however things unfold.
Let’s pray:
Lord Jesus, You see this ache and the silent gap between two people joined in marriage. We don’t know what is happening in ’s heart, but You do. Meet them in the quiet and the waiting. Work gently, firmly, however You see best. Give wisdom and patience to the one praying, and hold them close when discouragement crashes in. And if it is Your will, please open the door for honest, loving conversation, and eventually a path toward healing and restoration. We trust You with the outcome, because You love them both more deeply than we can imagine. In Your name, Amen.
When a marriage hits this kind of silence and distance, it can be easy to fix all our energy on what the other person will do. But one thing we’ve seen help often is gently turning our attention to the space we can tend right now, our own heart before God. Not because you are to blame for the silence, but because clarity and steadiness in you are sustaining gifts, no matter how the waiting ends. Sometimes we need to ask: Lord, what do You want to do in me during this season? That doesn’t replace the prayer for reconciliation. It runs right alongside it.
The path back to each other, if God opens it, will take two hearts willing to do honest, humble work. So while you hope for contact, we encourage you to keep bringing your own fears and longings openly before the Lord. Let Him meet you there with His own steady love. That kind of rootedness will serve you both, however things unfold.
Let’s pray:
Lord Jesus, You see this ache and the silent gap between two people joined in marriage. We don’t know what is happening in ’s heart, but You do. Meet them in the quiet and the waiting. Work gently, firmly, however You see best. Give wisdom and patience to the one praying, and hold them close when discouragement crashes in. And if it is Your will, please open the door for honest, loving conversation, and eventually a path toward healing and restoration. We trust You with the outcome, because You love them both more deeply than we can imagine. In Your name, Amen.
Praying in Jesus Name.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The cry of your heart is heard, not merely in the ears of men, but before the throne of the Most High. Yet consider well the nature of your longing. You ask for a mortal to return to you, but the deeper voice from the sacred pages ever cries, “Return, return,” not first to another, but to your own soul. The world and the adversary would have you fix your gaze upon a creature, making an idol of a restored connection, when the urgent business of eternity is that you yourself should return to God. Life is that vapor which appears for a little time and then vanishes away. You know not what a day may bring forth; therefore, let your immediate and all-absorbing longing be directed heavenward.
Is it not true that the aching emptiness you feel is but the shadow of a greater chasm, a soul that has strayed from its true rest? You are weary in the length of your way, pursuing a phantom hope, yet you have not said, “There is no hope” in myself or in this earthly affection. But there is a hope which is no hope, a hope that weareth out the life of the hand and leaveth the spirit grieved. The only hope sturdy enough to bear the weight of an immortal soul is found in Him whom God has provided to be the Savior. If you will not return to God now, if you will not make your own reconciliation with Him the one consuming passion, then all other returns are but repainting a sinking ship while the storm gathers.
What God intends to give, He first sets us longing for. Is your soul breaking with longing for His judgments, for His commandments, for His own blessed presence? If not, then this lesser longing is disordered and must be brought into subjection. The saint’s ardent longing is a living experience, a vehement desire for holiness, for the transforming power of the Spirit. Do not despise the holy longing to find God personally, practically, at all costs. That is the root of the matter. Seek first the God of all reconciliation, the One who has prepared everything necessary for perfect peace through the blood of the cross. The ministry of reconciliation pleads with you now: be reconciled to God.
Stand not upon the order of your returning, but return now. The voice of Mercy does not threaten, but simply cries with its own eagerness, “Return, return, return!” Your hope of mending your life or your circumstances by the return of any mortal is a fallacy. It is the one who knows himself lost, who condemns his own sin as a loathsome thing, who is met by God with affectionate embraces. There is no hope for you in yourself, nor in the arm of flesh, but there is hope for you in Jesus Christ. Let this one earnest longing possess your whole soul: to find God, to be right with Him. Then, and only then, will all other matters find their proper place, either to be restored in His wisdom or to be surrendered in His peace. Return now; the bell of eternity rings out no uncertain sound.
Is it not true that the aching emptiness you feel is but the shadow of a greater chasm, a soul that has strayed from its true rest? You are weary in the length of your way, pursuing a phantom hope, yet you have not said, “There is no hope” in myself or in this earthly affection. But there is a hope which is no hope, a hope that weareth out the life of the hand and leaveth the spirit grieved. The only hope sturdy enough to bear the weight of an immortal soul is found in Him whom God has provided to be the Savior. If you will not return to God now, if you will not make your own reconciliation with Him the one consuming passion, then all other returns are but repainting a sinking ship while the storm gathers.
What God intends to give, He first sets us longing for. Is your soul breaking with longing for His judgments, for His commandments, for His own blessed presence? If not, then this lesser longing is disordered and must be brought into subjection. The saint’s ardent longing is a living experience, a vehement desire for holiness, for the transforming power of the Spirit. Do not despise the holy longing to find God personally, practically, at all costs. That is the root of the matter. Seek first the God of all reconciliation, the One who has prepared everything necessary for perfect peace through the blood of the cross. The ministry of reconciliation pleads with you now: be reconciled to God.
Stand not upon the order of your returning, but return now. The voice of Mercy does not threaten, but simply cries with its own eagerness, “Return, return, return!” Your hope of mending your life or your circumstances by the return of any mortal is a fallacy. It is the one who knows himself lost, who condemns his own sin as a loathsome thing, who is met by God with affectionate embraces. There is no hope for you in yourself, nor in the arm of flesh, but there is hope for you in Jesus Christ. Let this one earnest longing possess your whole soul: to find God, to be right with Him. Then, and only then, will all other matters find their proper place, either to be restored in His wisdom or to be surrendered in His peace. Return now; the bell of eternity rings out no uncertain sound.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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