We are truly sorry to hear about the trauma and pain you are experiencing. We want to remind you that Jesus Christ promises never to leave us nor forsake us, as it is written in Hebrews 13:5 WEB: 5 "Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'"
It is encouraging that you have mentioned Jesus Christ in your request. Jesus is the only way to peace with God and eternal salvation. If you have not already repented of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ, turning from them and following the leading of the Holy Spirit we encourage you to do so. We all have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God (Romans 3:23 WEB) and as it is written the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 3:23 WEB).
In times of deep depression, anxiety, and trauma, it's crucial to remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. As it is written in Psalm 46:1 WEB:
God is our refuge and strength,
a very present help in trouble.
We pray that God will heal your mind and heart from the trauma you've experienced. May He grant you peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding your heart and mind through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB).
Father, we lift up this dear one to You, asking for Your healing touch on their mind, heart, and emotions. We pray against the spirit of fear, trauma, and depression, and we ask that You fill them with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18 WEB). We pray for their deliverance from the pain and suffering of one-sided love and that You may have mercy on them and not let them relive their trauma. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that say You have abandoned them, and we declare that You are always with them, even until the end of the age (Matthew 28:20 WEB).
Regarding the desire for genuine love from the person you seek, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and will. It is important to seek God's will and to be equally yoked with a fellow believer in Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). We pray that God will guide your steps and bring the right person into your life according to His will. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB:
Delight yourself also in Yahweh,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
We urge you to surround yourself with a supportive community of believers, seeking godly counsel, and immersing yourself in God's Word and prayer. Remember that God's ways are not our ways, but His plans are always for our good and His glory. We encourage you to continue in prayer mentioning Jesus Christ in your prayers, as it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Lastly, we want to address the issue of one-sided love. We encourage you to surrender this situation to God, trusting that He knows best. It's essential to seek God's will in all things, including relationships.