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[Unregistered]

Please help me in prayer, my husband is having an affair and that is really hurting me. This is not the first time he is doing this, God knows, but with God all things are possible, I believe. I have a friend who uses charm on her husband and it seems to work on them; she is happy, the husband loves and obeys her, he doesn't sleep out. If her charms can work, why can’t God change my husband and make him a faithful, loving, and caring hubby? God created him and knew him before he was conceived. What did I do wrong to marry this man? He is a father of my child and I love him, but his doing is so painful. I am asking God to change him permanently because I know my God, the Lord of Joseph, knew about this before it came to pass. Why did God give me such a man if He can’t change him, having been praying, people of God, I am a laughing stock all because of the love I have for him. The God I worship is the same God who said whatever I ask in His name shall be given unto me. I am asking for a miracle in my marriage. I am asking for faithfulness, peace, love, and unity. As I am sending this to you people of God, my heart is in pain and sorrow. I cry to the Lord, asking why me. Haven’t I had enough pain from my past? Lord, hear my prayer, please. I am on my knees.

 

[Stephaniej]

Lord, I lift up this couple to You. I pray for strength and comfort in the midst of this storm for Your daughter and I pray for conviction yet protection for the husband. Lord, You are now restoring marriages and I add this one to our prayers as well. I ask for healing in this marriage. Destroy every obstacle in the name of Jesus. Draw them closer and back to You Lord. All these things I ask, in Jesus' name. Amen

 

[Jennie]

I know and feel your pain. You are right. Only God can step in and change people, but God gave us free will. We have to want, desire, and ask for that change. Then we have to work on it with Him. You can not change your husband. He has to be the one to go to the Lord with this request. Your spouse has to want this.

God is so sad at the choices your husband is making. His heart aches for you. He will see you through this, though. God is faithful. That is who He is. You must totally immerse yourself in His word. Jeremiah 29:11-14 comes to mind.

I know that words right now to you are so empty. I know it is hard for you to really believe me, but the best thing you can do for yourself and your family is to stand firm in your belief. Confront your husband and let him know that for the sake of everything that is right, he needs to shape up or ship out.....AND YOU HAVE TO MEAN IT! You were made to be a wife.....not a doormat. Woman was made from Adam's rib....NOT his foot.

You BOTH need Godly counseling together and separately. If he won't go, then go alone. But definitely go!

My friend, My husband left my 4 children and I for my friend and neighbor a year ago this month. I have not worked outside of the home for 10 years. I just finished renewing my teaching certificate and they've put a hiring freeze on teachers in all the counties around me. We were a church-going family. I go to Bible studies and prayer groups. I couldn't figure out what I had done wrong. My friend, you and I did nothing wrong. This was not our choice to make. It was theirs.

Believe me. I feel your pain. I know it first hand. But I am here to tell you that I see the light at the end of the tunnel and so will you. God is an awesome God. He has given me strength beyond my imagination. I'm not saying it's been easy. I'm not saying I don't break some days. What I'm saying is I know God's got my back.

Your story may end differently than mine. I am praying that your husband will turn back to the Lord and through His divine love and grace, restore your marriage and that it will be stronger through Christ than ever before.

Just know, if your husband chooses to stay in his worldly ways....God still has a plan for your life......and it is wonderful!