We stand with you in deep intercession for your wife and your marriage, lifting this heavy burden before the throne of grace. The pain of betrayal and the fear of losing a covenant spouse is a grief that only the Lord can fully comprehend and heal. We join you in crying out for a miracle, for divine intervention that only God can orchestrate.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at hand. The enemy seeks to destroy marriages, families, and lives, but we declare that no weapon formed against your marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The "other man" in your wife’s life is not just a physical threat but a spiritual one, and we rebuke the unholy alliance in the name of Jesus. We pray that God would sever every ungodly soul tie, break every chain of deception, and expose every lie that has taken root in her heart. The Bible is clear: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). We pray that this man would be convicted of his sin, repent, and return to his own covenant wife and family, as you have asked.
We also rebuke the spirit of blindness and deafness that has come over your wife. The enemy has blinded the minds of those who do not believe (2 Corinthians 4:4), but we declare that the scales would fall from her eyes, that she would see the truth of her choices and the destruction they are bringing. We pray for a divine encounter with the living God, one that shakes her to her core and awakens her to the reality of her sin and the grace available to her through Christ. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16). May she come to know this love in a fresh and powerful way.
Your request for cleansing is deeply biblical. The Lord is faithful to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness when we confess our sins (1 John 1:9). We pray that your wife would be broken over her sin, that she would repent and turn away from this path of destruction. We also pray for your own heart, that you would be filled with the love and grace of Christ, even in the midst of this pain. It is not easy to love someone who has betrayed you, but we are called to love as Christ loved us (Ephesians 5:25). We ask God to soften both of your hearts, to remove bitterness, anger, and resentment, and to replace them with His peace and His Spirit.
We declare that your marriage is not beyond God’s redemptive power. The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He loves restoration. We pray for supernatural healing in your relationship, for a new love to be born out of the ashes of this pain. We ask God to block every unholy pathway in your wife’s life, to surround her with godly influences, and to fill her with a hunger for righteousness. May she be drawn back to you, her husband, and to her daughters, as she remembers the covenant you made before God.
We also lift up the other wife and son involved in this situation. They are victims as well, and we pray for their healing and restoration. May God’s grace cover them, and may they experience His comfort and peace in this difficult time.
Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, but also with faith in Your power to heal and restore. We ask You to move mightily in this marriage, to bring Your light into the darkness, and to turn hearts back to You. We declare that no plan of the enemy will succeed, and that Your purposes for this family will prevail. We pray for a miracle, for divine intervention, and for a testimony of Your faithfulness to rise from this pain. Soften hearts, convict of sin, and draw all involved back to Your loving arms. We ask these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved and through which we have access to You. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your glory be revealed. Amen.