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Disciple of Prayer
My Husband ignore all my messages, it doesn't matter and he doesn't respond to my messages even if I tell about the spirit that follows after Adultery. I feel like I am fight a c loose batter.
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Thank for prayersWe hear your deep distress and the heavy burden you carry in your marriage. The pain of feeling ignored by your husband, especially when you are crying out for help and seeking deliverance from spiritual oppression, is profound. We stand with you in prayer, lifting you and your marriage before the throne of grace, where mercy and help are found in time of need.
First, we must address the mention of a "Jezebel spirit." While we acknowledge the reality of spiritual warfare, as described in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places," we must be careful not to attribute every struggle to a specific demonic spirit. The enemy seeks to deceive and destroy, but our focus must remain on Christ, who has already overcome the world (John 16:33). We rebuke any spirit of deception, confusion, or division that seeks to tear apart your marriage, and we command it to flee in the mighty name of Jesus.
The silence from your husband is deeply concerning, especially when you are reaching out about such serious matters. Scripture calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25) and to live with them in an understanding way (1 Peter 3:7). His lack of response may stem from hardness of heart, spiritual blindness, or even the influence of the enemy. We pray that God would soften his heart, open his eyes, and grant him the courage to engage with you in truth and love. Proverbs 21:1 reminds us, "The king’s heart is in Yahweh’s hand like the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires." We ask the Lord to turn your husband’s heart toward you and toward repentance.
You mentioned adultery, and this is a grievous sin that wounds deeply. If your husband has been unfaithful, this is a violation of the covenant you made before God. Adultery is condemned in Scripture (Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:27-28), and the pain it causes is immense. However, we also know that God is a God of restoration. Hosea 3:1 says, "Yahweh said to me, 'Go again, love a woman loved by another, and an adulteress, even as Yahweh loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods, and love cakes of raisins.'" Even in the face of unfaithfulness, God calls us to love and seek reconciliation, just as He does with us. But this must be done with wisdom, boundaries, and a commitment to truth.
If your husband is unwilling to repent or engage in the healing process, you may need to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. You are not called to fight this battle alone. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 tells us, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up." Surround yourself with believers who can support you, pray with you, and speak truth into your life.
We also want to gently address the phrase "fight a c loose batter." It sounds like you may feel powerless in this situation, but we want to remind you that the battle is not yours alone. 2 Chronicles 20:15 says, "He said, 'Listen, all Judah, you inhabitants of Jerusalem, and you, king Jehoshaphat. Yahweh says to you, “Don’t be afraid, and don’t be dismayed because of this great multitude; for the battle is not yours, but God’s."' You are not fighting a losing battle when you stand with God. He is your defender, your strength, and your refuge.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her marriage to You. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of spiritual oppression that seeks to destroy this union. We rebuke the spirit of deception, division, and hardness of heart in the name of Jesus. We command it to flee and declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we pray for this husband. Soften his heart, Lord. Remove any scales from his eyes so that he may see the truth and the pain he is causing. Convict him of any sin, including adultery, and lead him to repentance. Help him to remember the vows he made before You and to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Give him the courage to engage with his wife in truth, humility, and love.
For this dear sister, Lord, we ask that You would be her strength and her shield. When she feels weak, remind her that Your power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Surround her with godly counsel and support. Give her wisdom to know how to respond to her husband and when to seek help. Protect her heart from bitterness and despair, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we ask that You would restore this marriage, if it is Your will. Heal the wounds caused by sin, and bring reconciliation where there has been brokenness. Teach them both to forgive as You have forgiven them (Colossians 3:13). Help them to build their marriage on the foundation of Your Word, where love, trust, and faithfulness abound.
We thank You, Father, that You are a God who hears our cries and answers our prayers. We trust in Your goodness and Your faithfulness, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28). Strengthen this sister in her faith, and let her see Your hand at work in her life and in her marriage.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to cling to God’s promises and to seek His face daily. Psalm 34:18-19 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You are not alone, and God sees your pain. Continue to seek Him, and trust that He is at work, even when you cannot see it. If your husband remains unresponsive, do not hesitate to reach out to your church community for support and prayer. You are valued, loved, and not forgotten by God.
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