Anonymous
Beloved of All
Please pray for my strength. My bf son just had his third child last night. And my bf knows how I feel about his ex wife. She has been very disrespectful in me and his relationship and he allowed it. She text and calls him about stuff just to entertain him and he does not see that. Well he wanted to go to hospital last night and he said she was not there. Well I think maybe she was there but he didn’t go, his son told him not to. Well I seen a text on his iPad at 11:42 pm from his ex saying she is here 6 lbs at 11:27 pm. I do not know why she don’t let her son text his dad and I don’t know why she thinks she has to text my bf , her ex husband these things. I told him last night I can’t do this with her anymore. It’s driving me insane. I have tried so hard to deal with so much with this woman. I can’t do it anymore. He tells me I just have another year to deal with her. It their daughter turns 18 in July and I said no your daughter will be 18 in July after that no more. Im not happy I have no peace at all with this woman. It’s tearing me inside so bad. When she don’t text or call everything t is amazing but the moment she needs my bf attention, he gives it to her and I don’t say anything like I used to because we broke up already because of this. He left me because I can’t deal with her. Well we stayed talking after he left and we have been for two months doing better than ever and I have been watching her being needy for attention throughout these months and I haven’t said anything. Well Monday his son wanted his dad to go to her house to get a rim well he didn’t go but he said he would figure something out. I have no idea how he got the rim or if someone else did but it’s in a rim shop now. I didn’t ask him how it got there. I think his ex wife called him yesterday I think I saw a call but I was scrolling fast when he asked me to call his son from his phone. I feel like a servant girl. Like I have to bow down to this woman and allow her to fro what she wants. She is no queen to me and I wish my boyfriend would stop her from what she is ruining of his. So he thinks I’m making him choose me or his son when this is absolutely nothing to do with his son. He knows it’s the ex wife 100%. But it’s like he don’t want to stop her. He has been more humble to me and has not been angry and walking out like he used too but I wish he would understand all he has to do is out his foot down with her and top her. We wouldn’t have any issues if he would be a man instead of a scared little boy towards her. I’m not going to continue life with a man who still answering to his ex wife . He jumps when she calls or texts. He doesn’t do that for me and it is tearing me to pieces. I don’t deserve this. I asked him not to be around her not to give her any entertainment or attention. But if I am not there to watch I’ll never know. He talks to her behind my back so idk what kind of attention he gives her. She is one who doesn’t mind destroying houselhokds. She has been seeing a married man since before my bf and her divorced so 2017 and i heard someone say they believe she went on a shirt trip last month with this married man. I don’t see how my boyfriend doesn’t understand to let go of the past. It’s not your present or your future and what is ur present may not be your future if u keep letting the past into your present. I really respec my bf. When it comes to me and my ex we never talk. We have a son yes but I don’t text or call when he checks our if school just to check out. We have an understanding if it’s bad I’ll call or like we getting him braces we needed to discuss when and payment plans. I set appointments already and I didn’t even reach out to tell his dad. But he knows he getting it so it’s ok. I need him to put his foot down with her and I know he has been respecting my wishes and it’s killing him. But we have this grandbaby he will have to see with possibly her around and then his daughters graduation party at her house , I agreed to go to but he was gonna go with or without me and I said no we do this together . We do life together we do this together. I sucked it up and ima go to her house and feel so uncomfortable and I asked him hey I will feel out of place so please don’t leave me alone there. He agreed. I am not invited to graduation they have 4 tickets so he has to see her there and I asked him to not sick by her. Now all this I’m saying is not his daughter telling him . It’s the ex wife she controls everything and she even wants him to boil crawfish and he offered his pot to her. Like I said he didn’t talk to his daughter at all about her stuff it’s only the ex wife. So he asked about boiling and he was like I’ll Nicole know right now I can and I’m like looking at him and he has this glow about it and I said let’s hold off until the time comes see how everything goes. I just don’t want to be at this woman’s house looking at her for no longer than we should. I really don’t want him entertaining her at all. I know she will try and conversate with him but I pray he is shirt and dry with her. No laughing and giggling but be straight forward to the point and move away from her and the conversation because there is no need to enwmtwrtain the past. So pray what you feel is right in my situation. I know what I would like but i don’t know what I feel is what is right in Gods eyes. But I know he doesn’t want his daughter feeling like this/
