Please Pray For My Husband To Understand What Marriage Is

[renayhof]

I have been been praying for 3 months now that my husband will forgive me for not being totally there for him, my sister died August 31, 2011, my husband left me about 3 weeks later, I dont know if he was not happy with me for being depressed or if he has found someone else

I have tried to tell him that I loved him, I missed him, amd I didnt want to go on in life without him, everone says move on but 6 years of loving this man, I know in my heart that this marriage can be healed with the grace of God. Please pray for me and my husband to rekindle the love we once shared.

 

[PrayingWithPower]

Holy Spirit please fall fresh on this woman and teach her how to respect and honor her husband the way you command us to in the Bible. Give her supernatural understanding and wisdom to know that problems arise to draw us to yourself and to change us more into Christ's likeness. I praise you, Lord, for hearing & answering my prayer in Jesus' Name. Amen

In relationships, if you fix what's wrong with you, God will change the other person, too. Don't blame your husband, work on yourself with the Holy Spirit and praise Him for bringing your husband back.

 

[renayhof]

What is wrong with me? I dont blame my husband for everything, I dont understand how he can leave me in a time when I am grieving the death of my sister. I Didnt leave him through his troubled times. I try my hardest to change fix whats broken, Why, in my time of need did he turn his back on me ignor me, tell me hes never coming back. I dont understand

 

[lovesthelord]

I pray for God to bless and protect you.

 

[The Encourager]

Let’s Pray: God I ask in Jesus’ name, that You would save, heal, and bless our marriage. Fix what is wrong and make it right. Teach us both how to pray and intercede for each other and our children. Let love, joy, peace, and faithfulness to You God and each other reign within the walls of our hearts and home. Give both of us patience and a great respect for each other. Help us; teach us how to be gentle, compassionate, courteous, and tenderhearted toward each other. Delighting in one another; being of the same mind and united in Love.

God I would rather be reconciled than right. Don’t let the spirit of pride poison our relationship with each other or our marriage. Don’t let us play head games with each other. If this is happening let it stop. Don’t let anything, not one thing divide us. We Are One. Teach us both how to walk in love and forgiveness and ask for forgiveness when we are wrong. Let us purpose in our hearts and commit to each other to live and conduct ourselves honorably and becomingly to You Lord Jesus and our marriage. Let us esteem our marriage as precious, worthy and of great price.

God I place this marriage in Your Hands. Lord Jesus do whatever You have to do to save, heal, and bless our marriage. Knit us and our marriage together, rooted and grounded in Your Love Lord Jesus, so that nothing can destroy it. And God all that I have asked You to do for our marriage in this prayer, please do the same for everyone in my family that is married and all my friends that are married. God I ask all of this in Jesus’ name. Amen, So Be It, And It Is So!!!

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister

 

[SurgicalFocus]

I have prayed for all these things for you and those you pray for. I pray for many blessings upon you and your family and all those that are dear to you. I pray for God to breathe new life into your husband and your marriage. May God forgive your sins and give you all that you need and desire according to His plan for your life! Thank you Lord for all your help! In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen

 

[brigitte1969]

I have prayed for you

 

[renayhof]

Thank all of you very much, maybe I misread the first response it hurt me to read it, I did respect, and honor my husband, he turned his back on me, yet, I still respect and honor him.

 

[SurgicalFocus]

I don't think the person who wrote that necessarily meant there was something wrong with you, just that when someone leaves there is usually a reason for it, and that reason isn't always themselves. I'm just taking a stab in the dark here, but just as an example, your sister passed away and you were naturally grieving the loss. Did you confide in him and share your grief, or did you shut yourself off emotionally. Grief is a very difficult and personal process, and how you respond to it is your own journey, but maybe he wanted to be a part of that journey too. Anyway, I'm purely speculating here, don't mind me! =)

Your husband leaving is not at all your fault - you obviously were a devoted wife to the best of your abilities - it just sometimes helps to look at the situation objectively and see how you may have contributed, if at all. If you still can't find anything then it maybe really is just something going on with him, but you can always pray to God to help you find the answers.