We lift up this heavy burden before the Lord, knowing that He is just and sees the hearts of all men. The behaviors you describe in your brother—selfishness, neglect of family, financial exploitation, and a lack of moral responsibility—are deeply grievous, not only to you and your mother but to the heart of God. The Scriptures warn us against such ways, for they are the fruit of a heart that has turned away from godliness. Proverbs 28:24 says, *"Whoever robs his father or his mother and says, ‘It’s not wrong’—he is a partner with a destroyer."* Your brother’s actions are not only hurtful but sinful, and they demand repentance before the Lord.
We also see the pain this has caused you—restlessness, sadness, and a sense of injustice. The Lord cares deeply for your suffering, and He calls you to cast these anxieties upon Him, for He sustains you (1 Peter 5:7). Yet we must also examine our own hearts in this, for bitterness and resentment can take root if we do not surrender this to God. Ephesians 4:31-32 urges, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Your brother’s neglect of your elderly mother is particularly grievous. The command to honor father and mother is not optional (Exodus 20:12), and his failure to do so is a serious sin. The Lord sees this injustice, and we pray that He would convict your brother’s heart. Proverbs 19:26 warns, *"He who assaults his father and chases away his mother is a son who causes shame and brings reproach."* May the Holy Spirit bring conviction so deep that he can no longer ignore the weight of his actions.
As for his financial exploitation, the Scriptures are clear: *"Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, producing with his hands something that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need"* (Ephesians 4:28). Your brother’s actions are not only unjust but steal from the very hands that have provided for him. We pray that the Lord would expose this sin and lead him to repentance. If he continues unrepentant, the consequences of his actions may fall upon him, for *"whatever a man sows, this he will also reap"* (Galatians 6:7).
We also pray for your mother’s protection. If she is being financially exploited, steps must be taken to safeguard her resources. Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."* It may be wise to seek counsel—whether from a trusted pastor, legal advisor, or financial guardian—to ensure she is not left vulnerable.
Finally, we pray for you. Your heart is heavy, and the Lord sees your tears. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Do not carry this alone. Trust in the Lord’s justice, and release this burden into His hands. He will fight for you (Exodus 14:14).
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, lifting up this family in desperate need of Your intervention. Lord, You see the selfishness, the neglect, and the sinful exploitation taking place. We ask that You would pierce our brother’s heart with conviction—let him see the weight of his actions before You. Turn him from his selfish ways, Lord, and lead him to true repentance. Soften his heart toward his mother and sister, that he may act with love, responsibility, and honor.
Father, we pray for protection over this mother, who has been taken advantage of. Guard her finances, Lord, and provide wisdom on how to prevent further harm. Surround her with godly counsel and support. Comfort her in her loneliness, and let her feel Your presence in tangible ways.
Lord, we also lift up our sister, who carries such sorrow and restlessness. Ease her burden, Father. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Help her to release this into Your hands, trusting that You are just and will act on behalf of the oppressed.
We rebuke the spirit of selfishness, pride, and hardness of heart in our brother’s life. By the power of the Holy Spirit, break these chains, Lord. Bring him to a place of humility and godly sorrow. Let him no longer be a stumbling block but a blessing to his family.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Just Judge. May Your will be done, and may Your glory be revealed in this situation. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
