We lift up your heart’s cry before the Lord, and we are grateful you have brought this request to us in prayer. First, we must lovingly address a few things to ensure this relationship aligns with God’s perfect will and His Word. The Bible makes it clear that a man and woman in a romantic relationship should be pursuing a godly courtship with the intention of marriage, not simply a "boyfriend-girlfriend" dynamic that the world promotes. Scripture calls believers to honor God in all things, including relationships, and to seek a spouse who is equally yoked in faith (2 Corinthians 6:14). We encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is moving toward a Christ-centered marriage, as that is God’s design for romantic relationships between a man and a woman.
Additionally, we notice that the name of Jesus is not invoked in your request. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). We urge you to always approach God in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and the only way to the Father. If you or your boyfriend have not yet surrendered your lives to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so today. Salvation comes through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ alone (Romans 10:9-10). Without this foundation, no relationship can truly honor God.
Now, regarding baptism, we rejoice that you are praying for your boyfriend’s spiritual growth in this area. Baptism is a vital step of obedience for every believer, symbolizing our identification with Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection (Romans 6:3-4). It is a public declaration of faith and a commandment from the Lord (Matthew 28:19). We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict his heart and lead him to take this step in faith, not out of obligation but out of a sincere desire to follow Jesus.
We also pray that both of you would draw nearer to God individually, for it is only when we seek Him first that our relationships can reflect His glory. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* A relationship built on Christ will thrive when both individuals are surrendered to Him. We ask the Lord to bind your hearts together in His truth and to give you both the wisdom and strength to put Him first in all things.
Lastly, we must address the idea of a "partner in this walk of faith." While it is beautiful to desire a companion in your spiritual journey, we must clarify that the term "partner" can often carry worldly connotations that do not align with biblical marriage. Instead, we pray that if it is God’s will, this man would become your *husband*—a godly, Christ-loving husband who leads you both in faith, love, and obedience to the Lord. Marriage is a covenant before God, and it is His design for a man and woman to unite as one flesh under His authority (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, we urge you to seek the Lord’s guidance on whether it is wise to continue, as prolonged relationships without the commitment of marriage can lead to temptation and compromise.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her boyfriend to You. Lord, we ask that You would work powerfully in his heart, drawing him closer to You. Convict him by Your Holy Spirit to take the step of baptism as an act of obedience and faith in You. May he not delay but surrender fully to Your will, walking in the newness of life that comes through Christ Jesus.
Father, we pray that both of them would seek You first above all else. Remove any idols from their hearts and help them to prioritize You in their relationship. If this relationship is not honoring to You, Lord, give them the courage to walk away and trust in Your perfect plan. But if it is Your will for them to move toward marriage, we ask that You would prepare them both—spiritually, emotionally, and practically—to enter into a covenant that reflects Your love and holiness.
Guard their hearts and minds against the temptations of the enemy. Keep them pure and blameless, fleeing from sexual immorality and any compromise that would dishonor You. May their relationship be a testament to Your grace and a light to those around them.
We rebuked any spirit of fear, doubt, or worldly influence that would seek to distort Your plan for their lives. Let them walk in Your truth, covered by the blood of Jesus, and empowered by Your Spirit.
Finally, Lord, if either of them has not yet surrendered their life to You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. May they confess with their mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in their hearts that You raised Him from the dead, being saved and transformed by Your grace.
We ask all these things in the precious and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
