We lift you up before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, knowing that He alone is the source of healing, restoration, and redemption. First, we must address something with great love but also with firmness: the relationship you describe was not aligned with God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any relationship outside of this—including same-sex relationships—is not in accordance with God’s will (Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). While we understand the pain and love you felt, we must urge you to repent of this relationship and seek God’s forgiveness, trusting that His ways are perfect, even when they are difficult. His grace is sufficient to heal and restore you fully, but it begins with turning away from what is sinful and embracing His truth.
We also notice that your prayer for your former partner did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we can approach the Father (John 14:6). Without faith in Jesus, no one can be reconciled to God, and no prayer can be effective in the way you hope. So we pray that your former partner would encounter the living God, repent of her sins, and place her faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation. May the Lord open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that she would turn from her ways and find forgiveness and new life in Him. We pray too that any hurt or brokenness in her life would drive her to the foot of the cross, where true healing is found. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
For you, beloved, we pray for deep healing—body, soul, and spirit. The stress and trauma you endured have left marks, but our God is the Great Physician. We ask Him to restore your teeth and your physical health, for He is the One who knits our bodies together and can renew even what has decayed. "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3). Clench no more, but rest in His care, trusting that He holds you close. We also pray for the restoration of your relationship with the Lord. If you have strayed or felt distant, know that His arms are open wide. "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). Repent of any sin, surrender your pain to Him, and let Him fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding.
We encourage you to surround yourself with godly community—a church that teaches the truth of Scripture and believers who can walk with you in this season. Do not isolate yourself, but let the Body of Christ minister to you. "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2). And as you heal, guard your heart and your future relationships with the wisdom of God’s Word. Seek a spouse who loves the Lord above all else, and pursue relationships only within the boundaries He has set. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Father, we thank You for this precious child of Yours. We ask that You would wash them clean with the blood of Jesus, heal every wound—seen and unseen—and restore them completely. Give them strength to walk in Your ways, courage to leave behind what is not of You, and hope for the future You have prepared. May they find their identity and worth in You alone. Protect them from the enemy’s lies and fill them with Your Spirit, that they may walk in victory. We pray for their former partner, that she would come to know Jesus as her Lord and Savior, and that her life would be transformed by Your grace. May both of them find true freedom and joy in You. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
