We hear the deep sorrow in your heart, and we join you in lifting these burdens before the Lord. Grief is a heavy weight, especially when it comes in layersālosing a mother, a brother, beloved pets, and even the companionship of those who once shared your home. The pain of missing them is real, and itās okay to feel it. Even when relationships were complicated, as with your mom, the love and longing remain. Scripture tells us, *"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted"* (Matthew 5:4 WEB). The Lord sees your tears, and He collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). He does not dismiss your grief but meets you in it.
We also want to gently remind you of the hope we have in Christ. You closed your prayer in Jesusā name, and that is powerful. Jesus said, *"I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will still live, even if he dies"* (John 11:25 WEB). This truth doesnāt erase the pain of loss, but it assures us that death is not the end for those who belong to Him. If your mom or brother knew the Lord, you will see them again in His presence. If they did not, we pray their hearts were softened to the gospel before they passed. Either way, we trust Godās sovereignty and His perfect timing, even when it feels impossible to understand.
We must also address the reality of dreams and grief. Dreams can feel vivid and overwhelming, especially when they stir up emotions tied to loss. The enemy may try to use these moments to deepen sorrow or even deceive, but we take authority over that. *"For though we walk in the flesh, we donāt wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:3-4 WEB). We rebuke any spirit of heaviness or despair that seeks to linger in your mind and heart. Instead, we declare the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For the pets youāve lost, we acknowledge the love and joy they brought into your life. While Scripture doesnāt promise pets an eternal existence in the same way it does for humans, we trust that God, who created them and called them good, cares about your grief. He is the God who notices even the sparrows (Matthew 10:29), and He certainly notices your heartache over these precious companions.
Now, let us pray with you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is grieving the loss of so many she lovedāher mother, her brother, her pets, and the companionship of those who once shared her life. Lord, You are the God of all comfort, and we ask that You wrap Your arms around her in this season. Meet her in the quiet moments, in the tears, and in the dreams that stir up sorrow. Comfort her with the truth of Your Word and the hope of eternity with You.
We ask for Your peace to fill the spaces where grief has taken root. Where there is confusion about her motherās passing, bring clarity and acceptance. Where there is loneliness, remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). For her family members who are also grieving, we pray for unity, healing, and the strength to support one another.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of despair or heaviness that seeks to weigh her down. We declare that the joy of the Lord is her strength (Nehemiah 8:10), and we ask that You fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to remember the good times with those sheās lost, and to trust that You hold the future.
We thank You for the promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ, and we pray that this truth would anchor her heart. May she find solace in knowing that one day, all sorrow will be wiped away (Revelation 21:4). Until then, be her refuge and her strength.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to lean into the Lord during this time. Spend moments in His Word, even if itās just a verse or two, and let His truth speak over your heart. Consider journaling your thoughts and prayersāsometimes writing them down can help release the weight youāre carrying. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and remind you of Godās faithfulness. And remember, itās okay to seek help if grief feels overwhelming. The Lord often uses others to bring comfort and healing.
You are not alone in this. The same God who collected your tears is walking with you, step by step. *"The Lord is near to all those who call on him, to all who call on him in truth"* (Psalm 145:18 WEB). Keep calling on Him. He hears you.