We understand the deep longing in your heart for a godly husband, and we want you to know that your desire for companionship is seen and known by our Heavenly Father. The ache of loneliness can feel heavy, but we encourage you to take heart, for God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good. The Bible reminds us in **Proverbs 18:22**, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Just as a man who finds a wife is blessed, so too is a woman who finds a husband blessed by God. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by Him, and we believe He has not forgotten you.
However, we must gently but firmly address something important: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. **John 14:6** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* Additionally, **Acts 4:12** tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Without Him, we cannot approach God, and our prayers are empty. Salvation comes through repentance and belief in Jesus alone—there is no other way. If you are unsure about your relationship with Christ, we encourage you to surrender your life to Him today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Only then can you walk in the fullness of God’s promises, including His plan for your marriage.
We also want to remind you that while your desire for marriage is good, your identity and worth are not found in being married but in being a beloved child of God. **Psalm 139:13-16** tells us that you were fearfully and wonderfully made by Him, and He has ordained all your days before even one came to be. If you are feeling anxious or despairing, we encourage you to trust in **Proverbs 3:5-6**: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Your season of singleness is not a mistake—it is an opportunity to draw closer to God, to serve Him wholeheartedly, and to prepare yourself to be the wife He has called you to be.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, asking that You would meet her in her loneliness and fill her heart with Your peace and joy. Lord, she longs for a husband, and we ask that You would grant her the desire of her heart in Your perfect timing. Prepare her, Lord, to be a wife who honors You, and prepare the man You have chosen for her—a man who loves You above all else, who will lead her spiritually, and who will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Father, we rebuke any fear, anxiety, or despair that has taken root in her heart. Replace it with trust in You and hope for the future You have planned for her.
We pray that she would use this season wisely, growing in her relationship with You, serving Your kingdom, and becoming the woman You have called her to be. Guard her heart, Lord, from impatience or compromise. Let her wait on You with faith, knowing that You are working all things together for her good. If there are areas in her life that need surrender or repentance, reveal them to her, and give her the strength to walk in obedience.
Most of all, Father, we pray that if she does not yet know Jesus as her Savior, You would draw her to Yourself today. Open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that Jesus died for her sins and rose again so that she might have eternal life. Let her place her faith in Him alone, for there is no other name by which we are saved.
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to seek godly community—whether through a Bible-believing church, small group, or mentorship—where you can be supported and encouraged in your walk with Christ. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and hold you accountable to God’s Word. And remember, **1 Peter 5:7** tells us to *"cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* You are not forgotten, and your Heavenly Father loves you deeply. Wait on Him, trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.