Please pray for ### I made a terrible mistake and everyone is mad at me.

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I have very bad anxiety I am afraid to tell people things and . My brother and I got a house and my other brother tells me don't tell my roommate yet. When I told my roommate she said I have to give her a 30 day notice and when I tell my brother that he gets mad at me and said I suppose to tell her and if we forfeit the place they will keep the money. And someone is paying my rent for November. And I have to move out and help out my brother. I didn't mean to do this I feel terrible I feel like it's my fault. And I don't know what to do I just want to run away and disappear. I make too many mistakes everyone is mad at me I feel like everyone will be better with out me I make mistakes at with my family and at work. I feel like a waste of space. God please help me and everyone else I pray that things get better with me in Jesus name Amen 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏.
 
We hear the deep sorrow and overwhelming anxiety in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this. The weight of mistakes, fear of disappointing others, and the feeling of being a burden can crush even the strongest among us. But let us remind you of this truth: your worth is not defined by your mistakes or the reactions of others. You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, and He has a purpose for you, even in this moment of chaos. The enemy wants you to believe the lie that you are a "waste of space," but that is not the voice of your Heavenly Father. He calls you His beloved child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ.

You mentioned praying in Jesus’ name at the end of your request, and we praise God for that. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is in Him alone that we find forgiveness, peace, and direction. As it is written, *"There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who don’t walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit"* (Romans 8:1, WEB). Even when we stumble, Jesus is our advocate before the Father. He does not abandon us in our failures—He lifts us up and guides us forward.

Now, let us address the situation at hand. You made a mistake in communication, and now there are consequences involving your living situation, your brother, and your roommate. It’s clear that fear and anxiety clouded your judgment, and now you feel trapped between the anger of those you love. But running away or disappearing is not the answer. Instead, we urge you to face this with honesty, humility, and trust in God’s provision. Proverbs 28:13 tells us, *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."* You’ve already confessed to us and to God—now it’s time to take practical steps to seek reconciliation and wisdom.

First, go to your roommate with a heart of sincerity. Acknowledge that you should have communicated with her sooner, and ask for her forgiveness. Explain the situation honestly, and see if there is any way to resolve the 30-day notice with grace. Even if she is upset, a soft answer can turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1). Next, speak to your brother—not in fear, but with a desire to understand and make things right. It may be that he was also acting out of stress or poor communication. Ask him how you both can work together to minimize the financial loss and move forward without further conflict. Remember, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2, WEB). This is a time for family to support one another, not turn against each other.

As for the anxiety that grips you, we plead with you to cast it upon the Lord. Philippians 4:6-7 says, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* You do not have to carry this alone. Every time fear rises up, speak Scripture over yourself. Remind yourself that *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). If you feel like you’re drowning in mistakes, remember that God’s grace is greater. *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB).

We also want to gently address the thought that "everyone would be better without you." That is a lie straight from the pit of hell. Satan wants to isolate you and make you believe that your life has no value, but Jesus says otherwise. He died for you—*for you*—because your life has eternal purpose. You are not defined by your failures, but by the love of the One who created you. If you are struggling with thoughts of despair or self-harm, we urge you to reach out to a trusted believer, pastor, or counselor immediately. You are needed in this world, and God is not done writing your story.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You right now, knowing that You see every tear, every fear, and every mistake. Lord, we ask that You wrap them in Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Calm the storm of anxiety within them and replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear. Father, we pray for wisdom in this situation with their roommate and brother. Give them the right words to speak, words seasoned with grace and truth. Soften the hearts of those who are angry, and bring reconciliation where there is division. Lord, we ask that You provide a way forward—whether it’s in the financial details, the moving process, or the relationships involved. You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider, and we trust You to make a way where there seems to be no way.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and condemnation that has taken hold of our brother/sister. In the name of Jesus, we break the lies that they are a burden, that they are worthless, or that running away is the answer. Fill them with Your truth: that they are loved, redeemed, and called by You. Remind them that their identity is in Christ alone, not in their performance or the opinions of others.

Lord, we also pray for their heart to be guarded against despair. Surround them with Your people—those who will speak life, offer help, and walk alongside them in this season. If there is any bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness in their heart toward their brother or roommate, we ask that You would uproot it and replace it with Your love.

Finally, Father, we pray that this situation would be used for Your glory. Teach our brother/sister to lean on You in ways they never have before. Show them that even in mistakes, You are working all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). Give them the strength to face each day with courage, knowing that You are with them.

We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness, and we declare that our brother/sister will come through this season stronger, wiser, and more dependent on You. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, even if it’s just a few verses. Let His truth be the lens through which you see yourself and your circumstances. Psalm 34:18 says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is near to you now. Cling to Him, and let Him lead you one step at a time. You are not beyond His reach, and this is not the end of your story. Trust Him, even when the path is unclear. We are praying for you.
 
We're right here with you, friend. We know it feels overwhelming, like you're trapped between a rock and a hard place. But remember, God is right there with you, in the middle of it all. He hasn't left your side, not for a second.

You've taken the first step by confessing your mistake and asking for prayer. That's huge! Now, let's take the next step together. You mentioned feeling like a burden, like everyone would be better off without you. That's a lie straight from the pit of hell. Satan wants to isolate you, to make you believe your life has no value. But let us remind you of the truth: You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. You are His masterpiece, created in His image, and He loves you more than you can comprehend.

We want you to know that it's okay to feel anxious and overwhelmed. It's okay to make mistakes. What's important is that we learn from them and grow. You're not alone in this. We're here for you, and so is God. He's got this. Trust in Him, even when the path seems unclear.

Now, let's talk about the situation at hand. You need to face this with honesty, humility, and trust in God's provision. Go to your roommate with a heart of sincerity. Acknowledge your mistake, ask for her forgiveness, and explain the situation honestly. See if there's any way to resolve the 30-day notice with grace. Remember, a soft answer can turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1).

Next, speak to your brother. Not in fear, but with a desire to understand and make things right. Ask him how you both can work together to minimize the financial loss and move forward without further conflict. Remember, bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ (Galatians 6:2).

As for the anxiety that grips you, we plead with you to cast it upon the Lord. Every time fear rises up, speak Scripture over yourself. Remind yourself that God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). If you feel like you're drowning in mistakes, remember that God's grace is sufficient for you, for His power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

We're praying for you, friend. We're asking God to wrap you in His peace that surpasses all understanding. We're asking Him to calm the storm of anxiety within you and replace it with His perfect love, which casts out all fear. We're asking Him to provide a way forward, to be your Jehovah Jireh, your Provider.

Remember, you are not defined by your failures, but by the love of the One who created you. You are needed in this world, and God is not done writing your story. Trust in Him, even when the path seems unclear. We're here for you, and so is God. You are not alone.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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