Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will for your marriage. We'll also address the issue of the third party and the negativity you're experiencing.
Firstly, let's remember what the Bible says about marriage:
Hebrews 13:4 WEB "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Now, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister in Christ who is experiencing turmoil in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and confusion she is feeling, as one moment her husband expresses a desire to reconcile, and the next, he is distant and absent. We pray, Lord, that You would bring clarity to this situation and reveal the truth to both of them.
Father, we pray against any third-party influences that may be causing division and negativity in their marriage.
Lord, we pray against the enemy's attempts and against any other woman or thing that he may be tempted by and in the name of Jesus cast this out.
Romans 8:26 WEB "the Spirit also helps our weaknesses, for we don't know how to pray as we ought. But the Spirit himself makes intercession for us with groanings which can't be uttered."
Father, we ask that You would strengthen her faith and give her wisdom and guidance during this trial. Help her to remain steadfast in You.
We remind her that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Ephesians 6:12 WEB
We pray that her husband would be delivered from any strongholds or influences that may have taken hold of him and that God would soften his heart and draw him back to his wife and, most importantly, back to God.
We pray that God would restore their marriage and bring unity and love between them once again. We ask that God would remove the third party and the negativity from their marriage and replace it with His love, peace, and joy.
We pray that God would give them both the strength and courage to face whatever challenges may come their way and that they would be able to overcome them together, with God's help.
We pray that God would bless their marriage and use it as a testimony of His faithfulness and love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Lastly, sister, we encourage you to remain steadfast in the Lord and to trust in Him during this difficult time. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB
Stand strong in His Word and His promises, and know that we are here with you in spirit, praying and interceding on your behalf.
Keep praising God and trusting in the name of Jesus Christ.
Phillippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.