Our hearts break for you as we read your cry for help, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees you, He hears you, and He loves you with an everlasting love that does not depend on your performance, your strength, or your circumstances. The fact that you are reaching out is a sign that the Holy Spirit is still at work in your life, drawing you closer to the Father who longs to carry your burdens and give you rest. You were never meant to live in survival mode forever. Jesus said in **Matthew 11:28-30 (WEB)**, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."* This is His invitation to you *right now*—not when you have it all together, not when you’ve "earned" it, but in the midst of your exhaustion and brokenness.
We also want to gently but firmly remind you that the breakthrough you seek will not come from mere circumstance changes, though we *do* pray for those. True peace, love, and restoration come from a deep, abiding relationship with Jesus Christ. You mentioned never knowing unconditional love—beloved, that is the very nature of God’s love for you. **Romans 5:8 (WEB)** tells us, *"But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."* You don’t have to perform, strive, or prove yourself worthy. His love is already yours, freely given at the cross. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus or if you’ve drifted from Him, we urge you to turn to Him today. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, no other source of living water that will quench the thirst of your soul. **Acts 4:12 (WEB)** declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you’re unsure where you stand with Him, cry out to Jesus now—ask Him to forgive your sins, to be your Lord, and to fill you with His Spirit. He is faithful to answer.
As for the stagnancy and financial struggles, we understand how suffocating those can feel. But we encourage you to shift your focus from the *timing* of your breakthrough to the *God* of your breakthrough. **Isaiah 43:18-19 (WEB)** says, *"Don’t remember the former things, and don’t consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs out now. Don’t you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert."* God is not limited by your past or your present. He is the God of the impossible, and He delights in turning ashes into beauty. However, we must also ask: Are you seeking His Kingdom *first* in this season? **Matthew 6:33 (WEB)** reminds us, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."* This doesn’t mean financial prosperity is guaranteed, but it *does* mean that when your heart is aligned with His, He will provide what you *need*—and often in ways you never expected.
We also sense a deep wound in your words—a longing to be loved for *who you are*, not what you *do*. This is a godly desire, but we must be careful not to place that expectation on imperfect people. Only God can fill that void completely. If you’ve been looking to relationships, achievements, or even ministry to validate your worth, we gently rebuke that lie of the enemy. Your identity is in Christ alone. **Ephesians 1:4-5 (WEB)** says, *"even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and without defect before him in love, having predestined us for adoption as children through Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his desire."* You are *chosen*, *adopted*, and *loved* by the King of Kings. Let that truth sink deep into your spirit.
Now, let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is weary, broken, and longing for breakthrough. Lord, You see the depths of their pain—the exhaustion of survival mode, the ache of feeling unloved, the weight of financial strain, and the desperation for change. We ask that You meet them *right now* in the midst of their storm. Wrap them in Your arms, Father, and let them *feel* the warmth of Your unconditional love. Remind them that they are not defined by their struggles, their past, or their performance, but by the blood of Jesus that has redeemed them and called them Your own.
Lord, we rebuke the spirits of depression, hopelessness, and stagnancy that have sought to steal their joy and purpose. We command these strongholds to be broken in the mighty name of Jesus. Fill them afresh with Your Holy Spirit—let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**). Give them supernatural strength to endure, wisdom to navigate their finances, and divine connections to open doors no man can shut.
Father, if there is any area of their life not surrendered to You—any sin, bitterness, or unbelief—reveal it to them gently and grant them the grace to repent. Heal the wounds of rejection and the lie that they must earn love. Let them encounter You as their perfect Father, the One who sings over them (**Zephaniah 3:17**), who collects their tears in a bottle (**Psalm 56:8**), and who has plans to prosper them and not to harm them (**Jeremiah 29:11**).
We declare a *new season* over their life—a season of restoration, of divine acceleration, of miracles. Let what has been stagnant *move*, what has been broken *restore*, and what has been lacking *overflow* in Jesus’ name. Give them a fresh vision, a renewed hope, and the courage to step into the next phase You have prepared for them.
Lastly, Lord, surround them with Your people—those who will speak life, pray with them, and walk alongside them in this journey. Let them not isolate themselves but find community in Your Body.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust that You are working all things together for their good (**Romans 8:28**), and we give You all the glory. In the mighty, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen."
Beloved, we want to leave you with this: **Your breakthrough starts with worship.** In the midst of your waiting, lift your hands and praise the One who holds your future. **Psalm 34:17-19 (WEB)** says, *"The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* Keep crying out to Him. Keep trusting. And *keep moving forward*, even if it’s just one small step at a time. He is faithful, and He *will* do it.
If you need further counseling or prayer, please don’t hesitate to reach out again. You are not alone in this. We are standing with you in faith!