Please help me I am very stressed out 🙏.

[Anonymous]

When my mom was alive we had a fight and said one of these days I will I get up and leave you will never see me again. She said don't let me hate you if I do I don't care what happens to you . She choose my 3 oldest brothers over me and a long time ago she almost walked out out me and she got mad at me and won't speak to me for along time and I believe she hated me and she barely taught me anything. When she teach me things she gets irritated with me . And when I ask my family for help they get mad and irritated with me and I feel helpless and depressed and I don't ask for help. My siblings treats they oldest kids the way my mom used to do me when my family fights and argue I get flashbacks of my mom and I fighting . I wish my family get along it stressed me out when my family fights with me or someone else . I get traumatized. It seems like every where I its toxic people and I try hard to get along with them they treat me horrible. God please take away our trials and troubles we are tired please help us God please and Thank You in Jesus name Amen .

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and we want you to know that your heart matters to God. The wounds from family conflict, feelings of rejection, and the weight of unresolved hurt can leave you feeling isolated and overwhelmed. But you are not alone, God sees every tear, hears every cry, and longs to bring healing to your heart. Let’s come before Him together now.

First, we must address the foundation of your prayer. You closed with "in Jesus' name," and that is so important. There is no other name by which we can approach God or find true salvation. Jesus said in John 14:6, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not already, we encourage you to place your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your forgiveness, and invite Him to lead your life. This is the first step toward true peace and healing.

Now, let’s lift your burdens to the Lord. The pain of feeling unloved, rejected, or even hated by your mother and family is profound. Scripture tells us in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God does not ignore your pain, He draws near to you in it. We also see in Isaiah 49:15-16, "Can a woman forget her nursing child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? Yes, these may forget, yet I will not forget you! Behold, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands." Even if earthly parents fail, God will never abandon you.

The flashbacks and trauma you experience are real, and we rebuke the enemy’s lies that seek to keep you bound in fear and despair. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." You are not powerless, God has given you His Spirit to overcome these struggles. We encourage you to seek godly counseling or a trusted Christian mentor who can help you process these wounds in a safe and biblical way. Healing is possible, but it often requires walking through the pain with God and His people by your side.

We also want to gently address the dynamics in your family. While it’s natural to long for love and acceptance, we must recognize that not all relationships will reflect God’s design. Some family members may remain in patterns of sin, selfishness, or even cruelty. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." This means you can only control your own actions, you cannot force others to change or treat you with love. If your family continues to bring toxicity into your life, it may be necessary to set boundaries for your own well-being. This doesn’t mean cutting them off completely, but it may mean limiting interactions that bring harm.

We also rebuke the spirit of bitterness that can take root in your heart. Hebrews 12:15 warns, "Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." Forgiveness is not about excusing their behavior or pretending the hurt didn’t happen. It’s about releasing the burden of anger to God so that it doesn’t poison your own soul. Colossians 3:13 says, "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."

Let’s pray together now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our dear brother/sister who is carrying deep pain from family wounds. Lord, You see the rejection, the trauma, and the exhaustion they feel. We ask that You would draw near to them, comfort them, and remind them of Your unfailing love. Heal the broken places in their heart, Lord, and replace the lies of the enemy with Your truth. Help them to forgive those who have hurt them, not because they deserve it, but because You have forgiven us so much.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and trauma that seeks to hold them captive. Fill them with Your peace, power, and self-control. Give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries with toxic relationships and the strength to walk in Your ways. Surround them with godly community, people who will love, support, and encourage them in You.

Lord, we also pray for their family. Soften hearts that are hardened, and bring repentance where there is sin. If it is Your will, restore relationships that can be restored, but protect our brother/sister from further harm. Help them to release their burdens to You, trusting that You are their true Father who will never leave nor forsake them.

We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who bore our pain and offers us eternal hope. Amen.

You are not defined by the brokenness of your family. God has a purpose for your life, and He can redeem even the deepest wounds. Keep seeking Him, surround yourself with His people, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are loved, you are valued, and you are not alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear you, and we’re so sorry you’ve been carrying this weight. When someone you love, especially a parent, speaks words that cut deep, and then chooses distance and irritation over closeness, it leaves a lasting ache. The flashbacks you described make perfect sense: your mind and heart are still trying to protect you from old wounds that never fully healed. Feeling afraid to ask for help now, because past attempts were met with frustration, isn’t weakness, it’s how any of us learn to guard ourselves when reaching out has been punished.

That pattern can become a lonely cage. But it does not have to be the final word. You weren’t meant to carry this alone. Since family members have not been a safe place for you so far, it might be time to try a different kind of help, a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a support group where you can speak honestly without being met with irritation. Sometimes just having a space where someone listens without judgment begins to loosen the helplessness.

You also mentioned your mom passed away. When a relationship ends with so much unresolved pain, grief often twists together with regret and confusion. That is a heavy load. But even there, quiet steps toward healing are possible. You don’t have to figure it all out at once.

We’re praying for you right now.

Father, you see the years of hurt and the stress that feels unrelenting. Please draw near and let your presence be a wall of safety around this one. Give them courage to take one small step toward a trustworthy helper, and begin to untangle the memories that haunt them. Grant moments of peace, just a breath of relief, to remind them they are not forgotten. We ask for your gentle healing, in Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

The wounds inflicted by those who should have loved you most cut deepest, and the memory of harsh words, of favoritism, of a love withdrawn and a teaching hand grown irritated, these are sorrows that bruise the spirit and leave the heart feeling shattered beyond mending. Yet there is a Physician for broken hearts, and His name is Jesus. He gathers up the outcast, binds up the wounded, and heals the very fractures that all human aid pronounces incurable. The text says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." That healing comes not by brooding over every offense nor by demanding from your family what they cannot give, but by bringing your broken spirit to the Healer Himself. Are you not weary of looking to broken cisterns that hold no water? Then look to Him. The blood of Jesus whispers peace within, even when the world is full of strife and your own household seems a place of torment. That peace is not dependent on your circumstances changing, but on your mind being stayed upon Him, trusting Him when every earthly prop gives way.

Your family's anger and bitter ways are a heavy burden, and you say that their fighting gives you flashbacks and a sense of being traumatized. The natural temptation is to imitate what we have seen, to let the poison seep into our own spirit and to think, "I do so-and-so because my family did the same before me." But to be guided by family connections in such things is to walk the road to ruin. You must break that lineage of wrath by a new birth. If you are in Christ, you are a new creature; old things are passed away. Do not let their toxicity define you or dictate your own temper. Instead, overcome their evil with good, not by your own strength, but by learning the greater art of overcoming the Good One, Christ Jesus, by looking upon Him until your heart melts with love for Him and you long to be like Him. When the atmosphere around you is poisoned with argument and disdain, let the peace of God, which passes all understanding, garrison your heart and mind. Let your silent prayer be, "Do the will of Jesus, this is rest."

The helplessness you feel, the sense that you were barely taught and now dare not ask for help lest you be met with irritation, this very helplessness can be a plea when laid before the Lord. Do you think Christ is irritated with your weakness? He was never irritated with those who sought Him. He came to seek and to save that which was lost. He took upon Himself our sin-sickness and bore our sorrows. Pardon and healing are joined in Him. First there is forgiveness, and then there is healing. That palsied man let down through the roof received first the word, "Son, your sins are forgiven you." An inward peace stole over his soul before his limbs were ever strengthened. Have you known that forgiveness? Has the peace of God, which is the fruit of justification by faith, entered your heart? If not, then make this your great business: acquaint yourself with God and be at peace. Lay hold of Christ by a simple, personal faith, and the healing will come from the pardoning hand.

Your prayer pleads for God to take away trials and troubles. He may do so, or He may sustain you in the midst of them by granting you His perfect peace. Remember that the very leaves of the Tree of Life are for healing. Even the least things about Christ, a promise whispered to the memory, a verse read in the morning, a fleeting glimpse of His love, carry a healing virtue. Do not despise the smallest word of Scripture or the quietest prompting to prayer. If you cannot hear a sermon, hear the still small voice of the Spirit applying some simple truth to your soul. And you are not voiceless yourself. The least of the brotherhood has a word to speak for God, by a patient life, a forgiving temper, a quiet trust amid chaos. Let your life speak for Him in your family, even if you are the least and most despised of them. Your silent, steady faith may be God’s word to them.

Your longing for your family to get along is a grief that cries out for the healing of the nations, but first, let the healing begin in your own heart. You cannot change your departed mother’s past choices, nor control your siblings’ present harshness, but you can bring your own sickness of soul to the Great Physician. He does not merely point out the disease; He applies the remedy. Calvary is the place for healing balm. Go there in your mind. See Him who bore the chastisement of our peace. Trust Him with your whole weight. And if you have trusted Him, then believe that He has given you peace, even if the storms within are not yet stilled. His peace is often given in the midst of sorrows surging round. Bear your sorrow with Him, and you shall find that He is able to subdue all things unto Himself, even the wildest tumults of a wounded heart. Earth’s struggles soon shall cease, and Jesus calls us to Heaven’s perfect peace. Until that day, lay your head upon His bosom, and let His love cast out the fear and the fretfulness. He will keep you. He will heal you. He will bring you through.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

You cry out for the strife around you to cease, and your heart is heavy with the wounds of the past. But understand this: the peace that the world longs for is not the peace Christ gives. He Himself said, “I am not come to send peace, but a sword.” Do not be troubled, then, that those nearest to you have often been the source of your sharpest conflicts. This is the division His truth brings where sin holds sway.

That coldness from your mother, the irritation from your family, the flashbacks that torment you, these are the fruits of a soul turned away from the love of God. Sin is a fearful thing; it ruins the soul and often overflows into the body and the mind, bringing with it such agony. Yet, in His mercy, God sometimes permits these trials as a severe medicine. As He said to the paralytic, “Behold, thou art made whole; sin no more, lest a worse thing come unto thee.” This is not to say that every affliction is a direct punishment, but rather that the Lord uses the very pains we feel to draw us to Himself, to cleanse our souls and root out the pride and resentment that can take hold when we are mistreated. Your own anguish can become the fire that purifies, if you let it.

Do not look for the peace that is merely the absence of quarrels. That kind of peace is often harmful and unprofitable. The peace Christ gives is different: it is peace with Him through a virtuous life, a peace that remains even when the world around you storms. The warfare you endure within your family, if you bear it nobly, puts an end to a far greater war, the war between your soul and God. When you are at odds with the spirit of this age that sets itself against His commands, you are at peace with heaven.

You say, “I feel helpless and depressed, and I do not ask for help.” This is the very trap the enemy sets. When you are dragged into conflict, you must stand firm; but when you are not summoned, learn to be quiet and wait upon God. Often we rush into the fray, expecting a peace that the world cannot give, and we are shattered when it crumbles. Instead, cut out the root of these earthly attachments that bring such pain. Your longing for a family that gets along perfectly, while natural, has perhaps become a snare. If a man steals your money, he has not injured your soul; if he steals your earthly honor, he destroys himself, not you. So it is with this desire for external harmony. When your family’s strife troubles you to the point of despair, it has stolen something you hold too dear. Let it go. Seek the treasure which is above. The only lasting peace comes from looking always toward Christ, not from negotiating a truce with broken people.

Perhaps you think, “If God would just take these trials away, I could finally be whole.” But remember Abraham: when the righteous are on the point of finishing their conflicts, God often enhances their struggles to bring them to a greater victory. Do not, then, despise this season of suffering. It may be that relief is near at hand, and this sharp test is meant to strengthen you for a peace you cannot yet imagine.

When you pray, do not merely ask for the trouble to vanish. Pray as Christ taught us, with thanksgiving, knowing that the Father hears you always. Christ Himself prayed, not from any weakness or need, but to show that His will and the Father’s are one. So bring your weariness to God, but let your chief petition be that you may believe more firmly that He has sent the Son for your salvation, and that this faith will make you stronger than all the turmoil. The preparation for walking in peace is a life of virtue, a heart guarded by the gospel. When you have that, no family conflict, no harsh memory, can truly wound your soul.

Fear not, beloved. Already the victory is won, if you stand fast with Christ.