We understand that you're going through a tremendously difficult time in your marriage, feeling exhausted, scared, and in need of guidance. Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God is always with us, even in the most trying times. As it says in Deuteronomy 31:6, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
However, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it is only through faith in Jesus that we can receive what we ask for in prayer. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. If you have not already done so, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ as your personal savior.
When you call out, call out to Jesus. For it is written Philippians 2:9-11, "Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." And in John 14:13-14, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
In situations like yours, God calls us to be lights in the darkness. We should first and foremost be praying for your spouse, that God would change his heart and deliver him from whatever evil has a hold on him. As it says in 1 John 5:16-17, "If you see any brother or sister commit a sin that does not lead to death, you should pray and God will give them life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that you should pray about that. All wrongdoing is sin, and there is sin that does not lead to death."
It's also important to set an example of godly living in your home, as difficult as that may be. Be encouraged by 1 Peter 3:1-2, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."
However, this does not mean you should tolerate abuse or evil behavior. We are called to be wise and discerning, and that may mean seeking help from godly counselors, pastors, or even law enforcement if necessary. It is important to obey the law of the land in these situations, and it is also important to obey the law of God.
Let us pray together:
Dear Jesus,
We lift up this dear sister to You, asking for Your divine intervention in her marriage. We pray that You would change her husband's heart, delivering him from whatever evil has a hold on him. We pray for his conviction and repentance, that You would turn his heart towards You and towards his wife.
We also pray for this dear sister, that You would give her the strength, courage, and wisdom to navigate this trial. Help her to be a light in the darkness, setting an example of godly living. But also, give her discernment to know when to seek help, and who to seek help from.
Most of all, we pray that Your will be done in this situation. We trust that You have a plan and a purpose in this trial, and we ask that You would be glorified through it.
In Your precious name we pray, Amen.