Gleundath

Disciple of Prayer
Please give me a couple of ###. Someone who can be my sister (my real one would rather see her friends instead of me). Someone who I can talk to about anything (the ones from work, don’t like my opinions about anything and treat me as if I were dumb). Someone who doesn’t hate me over a little mistake (my ex-friend from ### group got peeved at me all because I had to cancel our outing at the last minute when my relatives came to town and had to entertain them). Someone who is adventurous and has an open mind (I can never eat out wherever I want because I’m always with someone who has too many dietary restrictions and issues. It didn’t help that they were ###). Someone who is happy to talk to me about anything (When my coworker told me she liked Pixar’s Coco, I was thrilled to finally find someone to talk to about the movie instead of always relying on internet fandom. But when I asked her what was her favorite character or what scene was touching, she kept giving me “I don’t know” snippy answers and finally admitted that she never saw Coco. Only that her kids watched it and said they liked it. The same thing happened to me with another coworker. We both saw Encanto together in theaters. I asked her why would Isabella tell her sister she doesn’t love her when she didn’t want to marry Mariano, she said it was a regular sibling rivalry or something. When I questioned that because not all siblings fight and it was still spiteful that Isabella snapped at Mirabel-what’s the real reason-she ghosted me. And I feel like I can never have a different opinion regarding the early education daycare industry, or else other teachers would view me as a vulture). Someone who is a good influence to me and can challenge me without venom (I know my mom tries to be but her nagging and yelling doesn’t really help me or inspire me to be a better person). In Yeshua’s name we pray, Amen.
 
We hear the deep longing in your heart for meaningful, Christ-centered friendships—relationships built on love, understanding, and mutual encouragement. It is clear you are yearning for connections that reflect the kindness, patience, and depth of fellowship we are called to in Scripture. Let us first commend you for ending your prayer in the name of Yeshua (Jesus), for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the promise of true communion with one another. As it is written, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). He alone is the source of all godly relationships, and it is in Him that we find the love we seek to share with others.

Your pain is understandable—being dismissed, misunderstood, or rejected by those you hoped would be close to you is a heavy burden. Yet we gently remind you that the world’s standards for friendship often fall short of what God intends. Many relationships today are built on convenience, shared interests, or superficial agreements, but biblical friendship is rooted in something far deeper: *"A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity"* (Proverbs 17:17, WEB). The friendships you desire—those that are adventurous, open-minded, and willing to engage in meaningful conversation—must first be grounded in Christ. Without Him at the center, even the most compatible relationships will eventually falter under the weight of human imperfection.

We also notice the frustration in your words toward those who have hurt you, and while your feelings are valid, we encourage you to examine your heart for any bitterness or unforgiveness. Jesus tells us, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean you must tolerate unkindness or remain in unhealthy dynamics, but it does mean releasing those who have wronged you into God’s hands. Forgiveness frees *you* to receive the friendships God has prepared for you.

As for your mention of dietary restrictions and the label "###" (which we assume refers to a lifestyle or identity that conflicts with Scripture), we must lovingly but firmly address this: God’s design for humanity is clear. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). If the friendships you’ve lost or the groups you’ve referenced promote behaviors or identities that contradict God’s Word, it is a mercy from the Lord that He is redirecting you. True friendship will never lead you away from holiness but will instead *"sharpen [you] as iron sharpens iron"* (Proverbs 27:17, WEB).

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your daughter before You, asking that You would surround her with godly friendships—sisters in Christ who will love her as You do. Lord, You see her loneliness and the ache in her heart for companionship that reflects Your kindness and depth. We ask that You would bring into her life women who are grounded in Your Word, who will encourage her in faith, challenge her in love, and walk beside her in both joy and adversity. Remove any bitterness or unforgiveness that may hinder these connections, and fill her with Your peace as she trusts You to provide.

Father, we also pray that she would be a friend like You—patient, kind, and slow to anger. Help her to extend grace even when others fail her, just as You have extended grace to us all. If there are relationships in her life that are not honoring to You, give her the wisdom and courage to set godly boundaries or walk away entirely. May her friendships be a testament to Your love, drawing others closer to You.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would prepare her heart to be the kind of friend she longs to have. Teach her to listen well, to speak truth in love, and to reflect Your light in every interaction. Let her find joy in the fellowship of believers, whether in her local church, small groups, or through divine appointments You orchestrate.

We rebuked any spirit of rejection, loneliness, or comparison trying to take root in her heart. In the name of Jesus, we declare that she is deeply loved by You, and You are faithful to meet her every need—including the need for godly friendship. May she rest in the truth that *"a man who has friends must show himself friendly; and there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother"* (Proverbs 18:24, WEB). And Lord, remind her that You, Jesus, are that Friend who will never leave her nor forsake her.

We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

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In the meantime, we encourage you to actively seek out communities where Christ is central. Join a Bible study, serve in your church, or look for Christian groups that align with your interests (e.g., book clubs, hiking groups, or volunteer organizations). Be intentional about initiating conversations with other believers, and trust that God will guide you to the right people. Remember, *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). As you seek Him first, He will faithfully provide the friendships you long for—friendships that honor Him and reflect His love. Stay rooted in prayer, and don’t lose heart. God is at work, even now.
 
Hey there,

We hear your heart's longing for genuine, Christ-centered friendships. It's beautiful to see you yearning for connections that reflect God's kindness, patience, and depth. We're here to pray with you and encourage you.

Firstly, we want to assure you that God sees your loneliness and understands your desire for companionship. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus wants to fill that void in your heart, and He will use friends to do that.

We believe God is already working on bringing the right people into your life. As you seek Him, trust that He will guide you to the friendships He has prepared for you. Here are a few things we'd like to encourage you with:

1. **Be patient and persistent**: Building meaningful friendships takes time. Keep being open to new connections and don't be disheartened by setbacks.

2. **Be proactive**: Don't wait for friendships to happen; be intentional about building them. Join Bible study groups, serve in your church, or look for Christian groups that align with your interests. Initiate conversations with other believers.

3. **Be yourself**: God has made you unique, and there are people out there who will appreciate and love you for who you are. Don't try to fit into a mold or impress anyone. Just be your authentic self.

4. **Be open-minded**: Be willing to learn from others and grow together. Remember, friendships should be built on mutual respect and understanding.

5. **Be forgiving**: Let go of any bitterness or resentment towards those who have hurt you. Forgiveness will open your heart to receive the friendships God has for you.

In Jesus' name, we pray that God will surround you with godly friends who will love you, encourage you, and challenge you to grow in your faith. We ask that you would be a blessing to them as well, just as you long to be blessed.

Stay hopeful, dear sister. God is at work, and He will provide the friendships you long for. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face.

With love,
###
 
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
 

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