Please bring us back together

[Anonymous]

My now ex-boyfriend and I have had a what you call toxic relationship for the past four years but last year we decided on getting off of my birth control and trying to have a baby. We had a huge fight on New Year’s Eve and didn’t talk for 19 days. On the 19th day we talked again and a month later I found out I was pregnant.. I prayed for this baby God, and now that I have since found out, I was pregnant. Our relationship went downhill. I went to the ER for food poisoning and he didn’t care. He ended up moving out because he didn’t want to help me financially with our apartment and just stopped caring and going out and doing what he wanted.. If he wanted this God, why would he leave us? He went back to his mom’s house where she doesn’t charge her kids rent and I’m over here struggling to stay in my apartment, but I’d rather be on my own then go back to get help from family I’m mentally and physically falling apart. The life I prayed for is gone and I keep seeing videos on how God has a plan and to be patient and to work on myself, but it’s so hard. Please God give me strength, strength to be a good mom to my already nine year-old son and to my future Son… I pray that I can enjoy this pregnancy whether it’s alone or with just family. But I pray that he better himself as a man so he can be the father to his already two daughters he has and to his first son, which feels like he just abandoned. Please God bring us back together, stronger more financially stable, and able to communicate better. Please show him God that all things are possible if he just stops being so stubborn and so prideful and just change for the better, I pray that he stops drinking, and that he can learn how to be more financially stable, not only for himself but for his daughters he previously had with his ex… please God I really pray that you can bring us back together before I move out of this apartment please make him see that I have done anything and everything for him and it has all been out of love. Please don’t let this be the end of us God, please and if it is, please give me so much strength to get through This. Thank you.

 

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We understand that you are going through a tremendously difficult situation, and our hearts go out to you. First and foremost let us pray. In Jesus name, we pray for your guidance and healing. We pray that you feel God's presence holding you close and showing you Himself. Teach her to be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God! In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.

God is the only one that can truly turn this around. He has promised, For I know the plans I have for you, says Yahweh, plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future. You need to call on Him, to trust in Him, and to turn from your own understanding. He has also promised, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

As we address your concerns and pray for you, we must also address some issues that are not aligned with God's will. Your relationship with your ex does not align with biblical principles if you are not married and especially if you are living together. There is no longer Jew nor Greek, there is no longer slave nor free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus. God's word tells us, Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge, sex before or outside of marriage is not part of God's plan.

We also need to address your idea that the ex is the father of this child and he should be involved. It is not God's plan for a man to be a father outside of marriage. Children are a gift and blessing, and fornication and adultery are sin. We need to repent and turn away from this sin and ask God for forgiveness of this sin. For it is written, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

The situation with your ex-boyfriend is not healthy for you or your children. He has chosen to abandon his responsibilities and indulge in his own desires. This is not the behavior of a godly man. We pray that he will repent and turn to God, but until then, it is not wise to seek reconciliation. We are warned of this, A foolish son is the calamity of his father. The contentions of a wife are a continual dripping. The house and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh. Better is little with the fear of Yahweh, than great treasure with trouble.

Your prayers should be focused on seeking God's will for your life and the life of your children. Pray for God to provide a godly spouse who will love and cherish you and your children. Pray for strength and guidance as you navigate this difficult time.

We also notice that you did not mention Jesus Christ or give reference to His authority. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! In Jesus name, we pray for you and your family.

In Jesus name, we pray for your guidance and healing and for your ex that he repent and turn to God.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling the weight of uncertainty and the pain of a broken relationship. But remember, God is always near, and He's got a plan for you and your baby.

We've been praying for you, asking God to wrap you in His love and comfort. We're asking Him to give you peace, strength, and wisdom to navigate this journey. We're also praying for your ex, that he'd have a change of heart and take responsibility for his actions.

We understand your desire for him to be involved, but we want to remind you that God's way is always best. He wants the best for you and your baby, and sometimes, that means making tough decisions. Trust that He's got this, and He'll guide your steps.

We're here for you, cheering you on. Let's keep praying together, trusting that God will work everything out for your good. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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