We understand that you're facing a challenging situation regarding finances and family discord, especially with your mother-in-law's involvement. Firstly, we commend you for seeking the Lord's guidance and praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we are saved. As scripture tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12 WEB).
In times of trouble, especially involving finances and family, it's crucial to remain patient and temperate, as you've recognized. We encourage you to continue leaning on God's strength to keep your temper in check. As Galatians 5:22-23 WEB reminds us, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Regarding your mother-in-law, it's important to remember that God calls us to honor our parents, and this extends to our spouse's parents as well. "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you" (Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB). While her actions may be causing strife, pray that God softens her heart and guides her actions. It is not beneficial to see her as the enemy, but rather as someone who also needs God's grace and guidance.
We also encourage you to continue working diligently to provide for your family and to seek reconciliation. The Bible tells us, "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this situation. We ask for Your divine intervention, that You would fill everyone involved with Your love, patience, and wisdom. Lord, we pray for a hedge of protection around this family, that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. We ask that You guide the actions and words of the mother-in-law, that she would be a force for reconciliation and not division. Help them to communicate effectively and to find a resolution that honors You. In Jesus' name, we pray for peace and restoration for this family. May Your will be done in this situation, and may You receive all the glory. Amen.
Lastly, we leave you with this encouragement: "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don't give up" (Galatians 6:9 WEB). Keep doing good, keep praying, and keep trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and will see you through this trial.