We hear the deep anguish in your heart, the weight of past wounds, and the longing to be made whole again. You speak of kindness taken advantage of, of love given without reward, and of a rupture that has left you feeling broken. The pain of lost time and shattered trust is real, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting these burdens in prayer.
First, we must address the foundation of your plea. You cry out to God, but we must remind you—and ourselves—that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive the forgiveness and new life He offers (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, we are separated from God, but in Him, we are adopted as His children (John 1:12).
Now, to your request: You ask for a miracle—a reversal of all that has been lost, a restoration of what was taken, and a return to wholeness. We believe in a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We believe in a God who works all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). But we must also acknowledge that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His timing is perfect, even when it does not align with our desires.
You speak of feeling cursed, of wondering if this pain was a punishment in advance. Beloved, if you are in Christ, you are no longer under condemnation (Romans 8:1). The enemy may have meant these trials for harm, but God can use them for good (Genesis 50:20). The pain you’ve endured does not define you—Christ does. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your worth is found in Him alone.
We must also gently rebuke the idea that you only have "one attempt" at getting things right. God is a God of second chances, of redemption, and of new beginnings. The apostle Peter denied Christ three times, yet Jesus restored him (John 21:15-17). The prodigal son squandered his inheritance, yet his father welcomed him home with open arms (Luke 15:20). Your story is not over. The fog may have lifted, but God’s light is shining even brighter.
As for the rupture you feel—whether within yourself or with another—we pray for healing and restoration. But we must also caution against seeking wholeness in anything or anyone other than Christ. If this rupture involves a relationship that does not align with God’s design—whether through fornication, adultery, or an unequal yoke—we must repent and turn away from it. God’s plan for marriage is sacred, between one man and one woman, and any deviation from that is sin (Genesis 2:24, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is hurting. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, the longing for restoration. You know the weight of every tear shed and every hope deferred. We ask, in the mighty name of Jesus, that You would heal what is broken, restore what has been lost, and renew what has grown weary.
Father, we confess that apart from You, we can do nothing (John 15:5). If there is any sin in this situation—whether in the past or present—we repent and ask for Your forgiveness. Cleanse us, Lord, and make us new (1 John 1:9). Help us to release bitterness, to forgive those who have wronged us, and to walk in the freedom that Christ died to give us (Galatians 5:1).
We declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We break every curse, every lie, and every chain that has bound our brother/sister. We speak wholeness over their mind, body, and spirit. We ask for Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard their heart (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, if there is a godly spouse in Your plan for them, we pray that You would bring them together in Your perfect timing. Until then, help them to find their identity and worth in You alone. Teach them to wait on You, to trust in Your faithfulness, and to walk in the purpose You have for them.
We thank You, Father, that You are close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are the God who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5). We trust You with this situation, knowing that Your plans are for good and not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises. The road to healing may not be easy, but it is worth it. Surround yourself with godly community, immerse yourself in Scripture, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). You are not abandoned. You are not forgotten. You are deeply loved by the One who gave His life for you. Keep pressing into Him.
