We join you in this prayer and we share your heart for those who are lost in this kind of sin to be set free and brought to true faith in Christ. To behave as a player in romantic relationships is not harmless or clever, it is sinful and evil in the eyes of God. It is rooted in lust, deceit, selfishness and a disregard for the dignity of others who are made in the image of God. Scripture calls this sexual immorality and warns us plainly about it.
We are called to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also read that the works of the flesh are obvious, which are adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness Galatians 5:19 and that among us there must not even be a hint of sexual immorality or of any kind of impurity Ephesians 5:3. A person who toys with the hearts and bodies of others, who pursues fornication outside of marriage, who lies and manipulates for selfish pleasure, is walking in darkness and needs repentance. God ordained romantic love to be expressed within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman for life, and any courtship or dating should be with that holy goal in mind, between believers in Christ, honoring purity. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4.
We also rejoice that no one is beyond the grace of God and that Jesus Christ came to save sinners. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9.
We pray together for every person who is living as a player. Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, and we ask for Your mercy and convicting power to fall upon those who are using and deceiving others in relationships. Open their eyes to see the evil of their ways, to see that they have sinned against You and wounded others. Grant them godly sorrow that leads to repentance. Wash them in the blood of Jesus, forgive them and cleanse them, and set them free from lust, pride, deceit and bondage to sexual sin. Draw them to true faith in Christ, that they would believe on Him with all their heart and be saved, and that they would be transformed by Your Holy Spirit to walk in purity, honesty and self control. Raise them up to honor You in all their relationships, to pursue marriage as You designed it if it is Your will for them, and to love others as You have loved us. We also pray for those who have been hurt and used by such behavior, that You would heal their hearts, restore their trust in You, and guard them in Your truth. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to pray with this kind of compassion while also holding fast to the truth that God calls all of us to repentance. We can love the sinner and still call sin what it is, and we can trust that God is able to change the hardest heart when that person turns to Jesus in faith.