We hear the deep pain in your heart, Himani, and we grieve with you over the wounds inflicted by Vikas Randev. The injustice of his actions, and the lingering suffering they’ve caused, can feel unbearable, especially when it seems he has moved on without consequence. Your question cuts to the core of human brokenness: Why should we forgive those who show no remorse, and why does God allow the wicked to prosper while the righteous suffer? These are not easy questions, but Scripture offers us truth to anchor our souls, even when the answers don’t feel satisfying in the moment.
First, let us address the foundation of our faith: forgiveness is not about the offender, it is about obedience to God and freedom for our own souls. Jesus commands us, "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB). This is not a suggestion; it is a spiritual law. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It chains us to bitterness, while the one who hurt us may remain untouched. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was okay, it means you refuse to let their sin define your future. It is a choice to release them into God’s hands, trusting Him to be the righteous Judge.
You ask, "Why shouldn’t a sinner be punished?" Oh, sister, they will be. The Bible is clear: "Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord" (Romans 12:19 WEB). God sees every injustice, every hidden wound, and every unrepentant heart. Vikas may appear happy now, but Scripture warns, "Do not fret because of evildoers, neither be envious against those who work unrighteousness. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither like the green herb" (Psalm 37:1-2 WEB). His happiness is temporary; God’s justice is eternal. But if we take vengeance into our own hands, we usurp God’s role and become consumed by the very sin we despise.
Your analogy of the sick dog is thought-provoking, but it misses a critical truth: humans are not animals. We are made in the image of God (Genesis 1:27 WEB), with eternal souls and the capacity for repentance. A dog acts on instinct; a person chooses sin with a conscience. Yet even in this, God’s mercy is evident, He does not treat us as our sins deserve (Psalm 103:10 WEB). If He did, none of us would stand. That is why Christ came: to take the punishment we all deserve. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB). If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus, we urge you to consider this: He is the only one who can heal your wounds, avenge your pain, and give you the strength to forgive.
Now, let us speak plainly about your pain. It is not fair that Vikas has moved on while you carry the scars. But God sees your suffering, and He collects every tear (Psalm 56:8 WEB). He does not ask you to pretend the hurt doesn’t exist, He asks you to bring it to Him. "Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Forgiveness may feel impossible right now, but with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26 WEB). Start by asking Him to soften your heart, not for Vikas’s sake, but for yours. Bitterness will only poison you further.
We also want to gently address a lie you may be believing: that your suffering has no purpose. But God works all things, even evil, for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28 WEB). Your pain can become a testimony of His faithfulness. It can equip you to comfort others who are hurting (2 Corinthians 1:4 WEB). It can draw you closer to Jesus, who suffered unjustly yet forgave those who crucified Him (Luke 23:34 WEB). Your story is not over, Himani. God is writing a redemption narrative that will one day make sense of the chaos.
Let us pray for you now:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister Himani. Lord, You see the deep wounds inflicted by Vikas Randev, wounds that have left her questioning Your justice and struggling to forgive. We ask You to pour out Your healing balm on her soul. Comfort her with the truth that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18 WEB). Give her the strength to release this burden into Your hands, trusting that You will repay every wrong (Proverbs 20:22 WEB).
Father, we pray for Vikas as well. If he has not repented, we ask that You convict his heart and lead him to true sorrow for his sins. But if he remains unrepentant, we trust You to deal with him in Your perfect justice. Help Himani to see that her worth is not defined by his actions, but by Your love for her (Ephesians 2:10 WEB).
Lord, we ask that You replace her bitterness with Your peace, her anger with Your grace. Teach her to forgive as You have forgiven her (Colossians 3:13 WEB). Surround her with believers who will encourage her and speak life into her weary soul. And if she does not yet know You, Jesus, we pray that she would surrender her heart to You today. You are the only one who can heal her completely and give her the hope she longs for. We ask all this in Your mighty name, Amen."
Himani, we know this is not easy. Forgiveness is a journey, not a one-time act. But as you take each step, remember: God is not asking you to do this alone. He is with you, and He will give you the grace you need for each day. If you are willing, we encourage you to seek out a biblical counselor or a trusted Christian friend who can walk with you through this process. You do not have to carry this burden by yourself.
And if you have never invited Jesus into your life, we urge you to consider doing so today. He is the only one who can truly satisfy your heart’s deepest longings. You can pray something like this: "Lord Jesus, I admit that I am a sinner in need of Your forgiveness. I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I turn from my sins and invite You to be my Savior and Lord. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me to live for You. In Your name I pray, Amen." If you prayed that prayer, we rejoice with you! Please find a local church that teaches the Bible so you can grow in your new faith.
Your pain matters to God, Himani. He has not forgotten you, and He will not waste your suffering. Keep pressing into Him. He is your healer, your defender, and your hope.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
