People abusing me because of me being abused

[Anonymous]

I have a history of being abused and gaslighted as a child, teenager, young adult and adult. As a result people look down on me because of the trauma that I suffered. They attack me and judge me because of evil things that other people did to me that aren't my fault. Please pray for the constant abuse, gaslighting and abuse against me by other people to permanently end in Jesus Name. Please also pray that people will stop looking down on me for issues that aren't my fault and stop unfairly judging me.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain in your request and we are grieving with you over the long history of abuse and gaslighting you have endured from childhood through adulthood, and over the added wound of people now looking down on you, judging you and attacking you for trauma that was never your fault. Please know that what was done to you was evil and unjust, and the Lord sees it all clearly and does not blame you for the sins others committed against you. He does not look down on you as people do, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart, 1 Samuel 16:7.

The Lord is not distant from your suffering. He draws especially near to those who have been wounded this way, for the LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit, Psalm 34:18, and He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds, Psalm 147:3. The gaslighting and deceit you have endured, where truth has been twisted to make you doubt your own reality, is something God hates, for lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, but those who do the truth are his delight, Proverbs 12:22, and Jesus has promised that you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free, John 8:32. The constant judgment and contempt from others is also not from God, who calls us not to judge unfairly and who Himself will be your defender, for the LORD will also be a high tower for the oppressed, a high tower in times of trouble, Psalm 9:9, and He says don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord, Romans 12:19.

We lift you up together in prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father.

Father, in the name of Jesus we come before Your throne of grace on behalf of this precious one who has been so deeply wounded. Lord, You have seen every abuse, every lie, every moment of gaslighting from childhood until now, and You know the pain of being judged and attacked for wounds that others caused. We ask in Jesus name that You would put a permanent end to this cycle of abuse and gaslighting against them. Place a hedge of protection around them and cause those who would continue to harm, manipulate or look down on them to be removed from having power over them. Silence lying tongues and expose deceit with Your truth. Let Your justice and Your peace reign over their life. Lord, heal their broken heart and bind up their wounds. Replace shame and condemnation with Your love and the knowledge that they are fearfully and wonderfully made and deeply valued by You. Help them to know they are not what was done to them, but who You say they are, Your beloved child. Give them wisdom to set healthy and firm boundaries, to discern safe people, and to find a caring biblical community and godly counsel that will walk with them toward healing. Comfort them when memories and fear arise, and remind them daily not to be afraid, for You are with them, that You will strengthen them, help them and uphold them with the right hand of Your righteousness, Isaiah 41:10. We ask that You would soften the hearts of those who have judged them unfairly, or move them away, and instead bring people into their life who will show compassion, honor and Christlike love. We pray all of this in the name of Jesus, our healer, our refuge and our truth, amen.

We encourage you to continue to bring every hurt before the Lord honestly in prayer, for He invites you to cast all your cares on Him because He cares for you. We also encourage you, if possible, to seek out a trusted pastor or a biblically grounded Christian counselor and a safe church family who can support you in person, help you establish safe boundaries, and walk with you through the long process of healing. The trauma you suffered was not your fault, and the way people are now treating you is also not right or just. God does not despise you for your pain, He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, Psalm 46:1, and He is able to restore what has been broken and to give you beauty for ashes. We are standing with you and asking God to bring an end to the abuse, to lift off the unfair judgment, and to fill your life with His truth, peace and healing in Jesus name.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been, carrying the pain of what was done to you as a child and later, and then carrying the added pain of being looked down on and judged for it. What others did to you was not your fault, and being mistreated for having been mistreated is a double wound that can leave anyone feeling worn down and on edge.

It makes sense that constant gaslighting and criticism would chip away at your confidence and make you question yourself. That does not mean there is something wrong with you. It often means you have been on the receiving end of patterns that are about control and not truth.

One steady step that helps many who have lived through this is having one safe, consistent person to talk with openly, whether a pastor, a trusted Christian counselor, or a support group, someone who will listen without judging and help you sort what is true from what is being projected onto you. If you are experiencing ongoing abuse or feel unsafe, please also reach out right away to a trusted person nearby and to professional support in your area alongside prayer.

Father, we lift our friend to You in Jesus name. You see every hurt and every unfair judgment. Bring protection and peace where there has been constant harm, quiet the voices that accuse and control, and surround them with people who offer dignity and truth. Give wisdom for boundaries, strength for each day, and deep healing over time. Lead them into the hope and worth You give. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[tochieng]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Zedekiah]

Prayer works. Let us pray all the time. Be patient with God. Worship and dubmit to his will. Deny the flesh. Abstain. Resust temptation. Hope in the Lord. And trust in the Lord. May he guide you and help you and give a blessing. In the name of the Father Son and Holy Spirit. Am I worthy? No I'm not worthy but I keep praying and believing and trying.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry has been heard and it has moved our hearts to compassion before the Lord. To have borne abuse and gaslighting from childhood through to adult years is a great ill, a woundedness that cuts deep, and to then be looked down upon and judged by others for the very trauma that others inflicted upon you is a double burden which no soul should be made to carry alone.

Know this, that the Lord does not despise the broken hearted. It is written, He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. We very speedily care for bodily diseases, but the Lord cares for the deeper wound of the soul. There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. Not only is His fruit sweet and nourishing, but the leaves, the little things as it were about Christ, are full of healing virtue. The leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations, and the least thing about Christ is healing. These healing leaves change the life blood, affect the spirits and make the nature other than it was before. When the Sun of Righteousness rises upon His people there is healing in His wings, and pardon and healing are one in His hand.

Men may judge harshly, and their judgment is often faulty and cruel. There is a sense in which with the apostle we may say, it is a very small thing that I should be judged of man's judgment. Human opinion is not to be put in competition with divine revelation. The Lord sees what was done to you, He knows that the evil was not your fault, and He does not lay to your charge the sin of those who sinned against you. He is the heavenly Physician whose work is not to point out disease to condemn you, but to indicate and to apply the remedy. Calvary is the place for the healing balm. He is able to heal, and He is present to heal when His Word is taught and trusted.

We will pray for you as you have asked, and we do so in the name of Jesus Christ our only hope of salvation.

O Lord our God, look in mercy upon this wounded one whom Thou hast seen from childhood until now. Thou knowest the abuse, the gaslighting, the injustice that has been suffered, and that none of it was by their own seeking. We ask Thee in Jesus name that Thou wouldst cause the constant abuse and gaslighting against them to permanently end. Set a hedge about them, restrain the hands and tongues of those who would attack and judge, and bring them into a place of safety and peace. Let those who have looked down upon them and judged them unfairly have their eyes opened to see with more true judgment, or else let their voices be silenced, that Thy child may be no longer tormented.

Great Physician, lay Thy hand upon the broken heart. Let Thy healing leaves be applied to every wound of memory and spirit. Forgive sin, heal sorrow, and make the life fresh and comely again by Thy grace. Lift up this dear soul as Thou didst take Peter's wife's mother by the hand and lift her up, that healing may come before all else, and that in due time strength may return for life and service. Let them know they are not despised by Thee, but dearly loved, fully seen, and fully kept.

We ask this not because we are worthy, but because Jesus Christ has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows, and in His name alone is healing and pardon to be found. Amen.

May the Lord keep you, and may you be enabled to walk near to Christ where healing flows abundantly, and to seek the help of faithful pastors and wise and safe brethren who will walk with you toward wholeness.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.