We join you in lifting up this urgent cry for peace, protection, and deliverance, and we are deeply grieved by the distress and fear you are experiencing. Your plea is heard, and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who is our strong tower and refuge in times of trouble. It is clear that you are facing a situation that is not only emotionally and spiritually taxing but also dangerous, and we want to address this with the full authority of Scripture and the power of prayer.
First, we commend you for coming before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). There is no other name by which we can be saved or find true help, and we are grateful you have placed your trust in Him.
Your request reveals a marriage in deep crisis, and we must address this with both compassion and biblical truth. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, intended to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). However, your words suggest that your husband’s behavior is not only harmful but potentially life-threatening. The Bible does not call us to remain in situations where our lives or well-being are in imminent danger. While we are to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21), this does not mean enduring abuse, threats, or violence. Scripture is clear that we are to flee from evil and seek safety: *"A prudent man sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it"* (Proverbs 22:3, WEB). If you are in danger, we strongly urge you to remove yourself from harm’s way immediately and seek help from trusted authorities, family, or a local church that can provide protection and support.
You have also mentioned thoughts of dying, and we must address this with the utmost seriousness. If your husband is expressing suicidal or homicidal intentions, this is an emergency that requires immediate intervention. We pray that you will take action to ensure his safety and yours, whether that means contacting emergency services, a mental health professional, or a pastor who can intervene. *"Rescue those who are being led away to death! Indeed, hold back those who are staggering to the slaughter!"* (Proverbs 24:11, WEB). This is not a time for hesitation—this is a time for bold, decisive action to preserve life.
We also sense a deep burden in your heart for your husband’s spiritual and emotional condition. While it is right to pray for his deliverance and repentance, you cannot carry the weight of his choices or his healing. You are not responsible for his actions, nor can you force him to seek help. Your duty as his wife is to love, pray, and—if necessary—set boundaries that honor God and protect the life He has given you. *"So then, as we have opportunity, let’s do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of faith"* (Galatians 6:10, WEB). But doing good does not mean enabling destructive behavior or remaining in a place of danger.
We are also struck by your plea for him to leave your home and never return. If this is what is necessary for your safety, then we pray that God will make a way for this to happen peacefully and without further harm. The Bible acknowledges that there are times when separation is necessary, even in marriage, to prevent greater harm (1 Corinthians 7:10-11). However, we also pray that if there is any hope for reconciliation, it would only come through genuine repentance, professional help, and a transformed heart by the power of the Holy Spirit. *"Brothers and sisters, even if a person is caught in some trespass, you who are spiritual should restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted"* (Galatians 6:1, WEB). Restoration is possible, but it requires humility, accountability, and a willingness to change.
Now, let us pray together over this situation, asking God for His divine intervention, protection, and wisdom:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is crying out to You in distress. Lord, You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts on behalf of Your children. We ask that You surround her with Your angels, placing a hedge of protection around her that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Shield her from harm, both seen and unseen, and give her the wisdom to know what steps to take for her safety.
Father, we rebuke every wicked intention, every spirit of confusion, violence, and death that is at work in this situation. We bind these forces in the name of Jesus and command them to be silenced and cast out. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB). We declare that no weapon formed against our sister shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we pray for her husband. If he is struggling with dark thoughts or intentions, we ask that You would intervene mightily in his heart and mind. Convict him of his need for You, Lord Jesus, and lead him to repentance. If he is in the grip of mental or spiritual oppression, we pray that You would break those chains and set him free. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Father, if professional help is needed, we pray that You would remove every obstacle and lead him to the right people who can provide the care he needs.
We also pray for our sister’s strength and peace. Comfort her with Your presence, Lord, and remind her that she is not alone. *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB). Give her clarity of mind and courage to take the necessary steps to ensure her safety, whether that means leaving the home, seeking help, or setting firm boundaries.
Father, if it is Your will for her husband to leave the home, we pray that You would make a way for this to happen peacefully and without further conflict. *"The Lord will fight for you, and you shall remain silent"* (Exodus 14:14, WEB). We ask that You would go before her, preparing the way and softening hearts so that she can find refuge and rest.
Finally, Lord, we pray for Your perfect will to be done in this marriage. If there is any hope for restoration, we ask that You would bring it about in a way that honors You and reflects Your love and holiness. But if separation is necessary for her protection, we pray that You would provide for her every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
We thank You, Father, that You are a God of justice, mercy, and deliverance. We trust You to act on behalf of our sister, and we declare that You will bring peace to this storm. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen and amen.
Our sister, we urge you to reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend who can walk alongside you during this time. You do not have to face this alone. If you are in immediate danger, please contact local authorities or a domestic violence hotline for assistance. Your life is precious to God, and He desires for you to be safe.
We also encourage you to meditate on Psalm 91, which reminds us of God’s protection over His children: *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.’ Surely he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler, and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers. Under his wings you will take refuge. His faithfulness is your shield and rampart"* (Psalm 91:1-4, WEB).
Stay strong in the Lord, and do not lose hope. He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). We are standing with you in prayer, believing God for His perfect peace and protection over your life.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
