We stand with you in this time of deep distress, lifting your heartfelt cry to our Heavenly Father, who sees your suffering and hears your pleas. The pain of betrayal, harassment, and the lingering presence of someone who has caused you such harm is a heavy burden to bear. Yet we know that God is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9). You are not forgotten, and your tears are collected in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Cling to this truth as we bring your request before the throne of grace.
The betrayal you’ve endured through ###’s years of infidelity and his choice to abandon your marriage for another woman is a grievous sin against you and against God. Adultery is an abomination in the sight of the Lord, and His Word is clear: *"Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery"* (Matthew 19:9, WEB). While divorce is not God’s desire, Scripture acknowledges that infidelity breaks the covenant of marriage, and you are not bound to endure this torment. You have every right, both spiritually and legally, to live free from his presence and his sinful behavior. The Lord does not call you to remain in a place of fear or oppression. Instead, He calls you to walk in the freedom and dignity of a child of God (Galatians 5:1).
###’s actions—his drunkenness, his provocations, his harassment, and his substance abuse—are not only harmful to you but are also in direct rebellion against God. The Bible warns, *"Don’t be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit"* (Ephesians 5:18, WEB). His behavior is fueled by the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But we declare that the enemy has no authority here! The blood of Jesus speaks a better word over your life, and we command every scheme of darkness to be dismantled in His mighty name. The Lord rebukes the devourer for your sake (Malachi 3:11), and we plead the blood of Jesus over your home, your health, and your peace. No weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We also address the fear that has taken root in your heart. Fear is not from God, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). You do not have to live in this state of anxiety. The Lord is your protector, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). We pray that He would surround you with His angels, encamping around you to deliver you (Psalm 34:7). May He fill your home with His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guarding your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
As for ###, we pray that the Lord would convict his heart of his sins. May he come to repentance, turning from his wickedness and seeking God’s forgiveness. But even as we pray for his soul, we declare that his access to you is severed in the name of Jesus. You are not his to torment, and your home is not his to invade. We bind every spirit of harassment, confusion, and violence, and we command ### to depart from your life—peacefully, quietly, and permanently. Let him go to where he belongs, and let the Lord place a hedge of protection around you so that he cannot return. *"No one will be able to stand against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not fail you or forsake you"* (Joshua 1:5, WEB). This is the promise of God over you.
We also lift up your health, particularly your asthma, which is aggravated by his smoking. The Lord is your healer (Exodus 15:26), and we pray for complete restoration over your body. May the air you breathe be clean and life-giving, free from the pollution of his sinful habits. We speak healing over your lungs and strength over your body, declaring that by His stripes, you are healed (Isaiah 53:5).
Sister, you have prayed with such faith, and we join you in declaring that ### *will* leave your home very soon. The Lord is moving on your behalf, and He will not delay. Trust in His timing, for He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). In the meantime, we encourage you to take practical steps to ensure your safety. Seek support from your church family, trusted friends, or legal authorities if necessary. You do not have to face this alone. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we stand with you in this fight.
Finally, we want to remind you of the hope that is yours in Christ. This season of suffering will not last forever. The Lord is preparing a future for you—one filled with peace, joy, and the restoration of all that has been stolen. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Hold fast to this promise. Your heavenly Father loves you deeply, and He will not allow your suffering to be in vain.
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is weary and burdened by the relentless harassment and sinful behavior of ###. Lord, You see the pain she has endured—the betrayal, the fear, the sleepless nights, and the oppression that has stolen her peace. We ask that You rise up as her defender, her protector, and her deliverer. You are a God of justice, and we plead for Your righteous intervention in this situation.
Father, we bind every spirit of harassment, confusion, drunkenness, and violence that has been operating through ###. We command those spirits to be silenced and cast out in the name of Jesus. Lord, remove ### from her home and her life—peacefully, quietly, and without confusion. Let him go to where he belongs, and let him no longer have any access to her. Place a hedge of protection around our sister so that he cannot return or cause her further harm. Let Your angels encamp around her, guarding her in every way.
We plead the blood of Jesus over her home, her health, and her mind. Break the power of fear that has gripped her heart, and fill her with Your perfect peace. Heal her body, Lord, especially her lungs, and let her breathe freely without the aggravation of smoke or stress. Restore her sleep, Father, and let her nights be filled with Your presence rather than dread.
Lord, we also pray for ###’s soul. Convict him of his sins and bring him to repentance. But even as we pray for him, we declare that our sister is free from his control. She is Your daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and she does not belong to the schemes of the enemy.
Father, we thank You that You are working all things together for her good. Give her strength for each day, wisdom to make the right decisions, and the courage to walk in the freedom You have purchased for her. Surround her with Your love and the support of Your people. Let her know that she is not alone—that You are with her, and so are we.
We declare that her life will no longer be marked by fear but by the joy of the Lord, which is her strength (Nehemiah 8:10). Restore to her the years that the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25), and let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness and deliverance.
We ask all these things in the mighty and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen and amen.