Peace

[Twtaever]

Greetings. Name of Jesus. I am in separation with someone. I am severely disturbed and suffer mental anguish. I can't reach out. I'm in pain and so unhappy. I need prayer pls. I have just lost myself. Pls

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry for help and lift you up before the throne of grace, where our Lord Jesus Christ intercedes for us in our time of need. The pain of separation is deep, and the mental anguish you describe is real—we do not take it lightly. You are not alone in this struggle, for the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We come before Him now, seeking His comfort, healing, and restoration for you.

First, we must address the foundation of your request. You mentioned the "Name of Jesus," and we are grateful for that, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is His blood that cleanses us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:7). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him, confessing your sins and accepting His gift of salvation. This is the first step toward true peace and wholeness.

Now, regarding your separation, we must ask: Is this separation within the bounds of a marriage? If so, we want to remind you that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). The Bible does not take separation or divorce lightly, as Jesus Himself said, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6). If this separation is not due to unrepentant adultery or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (as outlined in Matthew 19:9 and 1 Corinthians 7:15), we must gently but firmly encourage you to seek reconciliation, if possible, through prayer, godly counsel, and repentance. The Lord desires unity and restoration in marriages, and we must align our hearts with His will.

If this separation is not within the context of marriage, but rather a courtship or dating relationship, we must address the pain you are feeling with biblical truth. Courtship should always have the goal of marriage in mind, and it should be pursued with purity and honor before the Lord. If this relationship has involved sexual immorality (fornication), we must rebuke that sin in the name of Jesus. The Bible is clear that sexual relations are reserved for marriage alone (Hebrews 13:4), and any sexual activity outside of marriage is a sin against God and your own body (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We encourage you to repent of any sexual sin and seek the Lord’s forgiveness and healing. True peace will only come when we walk in obedience to His Word.

Regardless of the context of this separation, your pain is valid, and we mourn with you. Losing yourself in this way is a sign of how deeply this has affected you, and we want to remind you that your identity is not found in this relationship or in another person. Your identity is found in Christ alone. You are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and He has a purpose and plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11). The enemy would love to keep you in this place of despair, but we rebuke his lies in the name of Jesus. You are not defined by this separation, and God has not abandoned you.

We also want to encourage you to reach out—to God first, and then to trusted believers in your life. Isolation is a tool of the enemy, but fellowship with other believers is a gift from God (Hebrews 10:24-25). You do not have to carry this burden alone. If you are struggling to reach out, we pray that the Lord would give you the strength and courage to take that step. Confess your struggles to a pastor, a godly friend, or a counselor who can walk with you through this season.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is in deep pain and anguish. Lord, You see their suffering, and You collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would draw near to them in this time of need and wrap Your arms of comfort around them. Father, we pray for healing—healing of their heart, their mind, and their spirit. Restore to them the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12) and remind them of who they are in Christ.

Lord, if this separation is within the context of marriage, we pray for reconciliation. Soften both hearts, break down any walls of pride or bitterness, and restore what has been broken. Help them to seek You first and to follow Your will for their marriage. If this is not a marital separation, we ask that You would guide them in wisdom and discernment. Show them Your will for their future and help them to walk in purity and obedience to Your Word.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has taken hold. We declare that You are the God of hope, and in You, they will find peace (Romans 15:13). Remind them that their identity is secure in Christ and that You have a plan for their life. Give them the strength to reach out to others for support and the courage to take steps toward healing.

Lord, if there has been any sin in this relationship—whether sexual immorality, idolatry of the other person, or any other disobedience—we ask that You would bring conviction and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore them to a right relationship with You. Help them to walk in holiness and to honor You in all their relationships.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus and help them to fix their eyes on You, the author and perfecter of their faith (Hebrews 12:2). We trust that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28) and that You will bring beauty from these ashes (Isaiah 61:3).

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to cling to the promises of God in this season. Meditate on His Word, spend time in prayer, and seek His face. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and He will not leave you in this place of despair. You are loved, you are valued, and you are not alone. May God’s peace guard your heart and mind as you trust in Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this pain. We've been where you are, feeling lost and overwhelmed, struggling to find peace. But we've found comfort in Jesus, and we want to share that with you.

First, we want to remind you that God is near. He sees your tears, He hears your cries. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's right there with you, and He wants to heal you.

We know that separation is hard, especially when it's from someone you care about. But remember, your identity isn't found in another person. You are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). You are loved, valued, and cherished by Him. No matter what happens, that truth remains constant.

We also want to encourage you to reach out. Talk to a trusted friend, a pastor, or a counselor. It's okay to not have all the answers right now. It's okay to not be okay. But please, don't carry this burden alone. There are people who care about you and want to support you.

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today on behalf of our friend who is hurting. Lord, we ask that You would wrap Your loving arms around them. Comfort them in their pain, heal their broken heart, and remind them of Your unfailing love. Help them to trust in You, even in the midst of their struggle. Give them the strength to reach out to others, and guide them as they navigate this difficult season. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[flora]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.