We understand your heart’s cry for peace, healing, and reconciliation, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. It is clear you long for the deep, abiding peace that only comes from God, who is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6). Yet we must gently address something vital: you mentioned "in Jesus name" at the end of your request, but we want to ensure you understand the profound truth behind those words. Scripture tells us there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ—His death, burial, and resurrection—that we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18, John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9-10). Without this foundation, true peace with God is impossible.
Now, regarding the peace you seek with God and in your life, Jesus Himself said, *"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, give I to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful"* (John 14:27). This peace is not the absence of trouble but the presence of God in the midst of it. If you are in Christ, you are already reconciled to God (2 Corinthians 5:18), and His peace guards your heart and mind (Philippians 4:6-7). But we also recognize that past abuse and wounds can hinder our ability to *experience* that peace fully. The Lord sees your pain and the pain of those you’re praying for. He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Healing is a process, but it is one He faithfully walks with you through. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3).
As for the individuals you mentioned (we noticed you censored their relation to you), we must speak truth in love. If this involves a romantic relationship outside of marriage—whether premarital, extramarital, or same-sex—we urge you to repent and turn away from it. Scripture is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any sexual relationship outside of that is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18, Hebrews 13:4). If this is the case, true peace will only come through obedience to God’s Word. *"There is no peace for the wicked," says the Lord* (Isaiah 48:22). But if you turn from sin and seek His will, He is faithful to forgive and restore (1 John 1:9).
If, however, this involves family or platonic relationships marked by strife or abuse, we pray for reconciliation where it is godly and safe, and for boundaries where necessary. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). Yet we also recognize that some relationships are toxic or unsafe, and in such cases, wisdom and protection are needed. The Lord is your refuge (Psalm 9:9), and He will guide you.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Mediator and Redeemer. We thank You that You are the God of peace, who crushed Satan under our feet (Romans 16:20), and that through Christ, we have been reconciled to You. Lord, we lift up this precious soul who longs for Your peace—a peace that surpasses all understanding. If they do not yet know You as Savior, we pray You would draw them to Yourself today. Open their eyes to see their need for Jesus, and soften their heart to receive Him as Lord.
For those who *do* know You, Father, we ask that You would flood their heart with Your peace. Heal the wounds of the past—the abuse, the betrayal, the pain that has left scars. You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3), and we ask You to do that mighty work in their life. Remove the fear, the anxiety, and the torment that the enemy has used to steal their joy. Let them rest in You, knowing that You are their Shepherd and they shall not lack (Psalm 23:1).
We also lift up the individuals they mentioned—those who are also hurting, also in need of Your healing touch. Lord, if this involves a relationship that is not honoring to You, we pray You would convict hearts and bring repentance. Break the chains of sin and set captives free (Luke 4:18). If this is a family or friendship marked by strife, we ask for reconciliation where it aligns with Your will, and for wisdom to know when to set boundaries. Protect them from further harm, Lord, and surround them with godly counsel.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear, of torment, and of confusion that has sought to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). We declare that Your peace, which transcends all understanding, will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Let them walk in the freedom You purchased for them at Calvary.
We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, which is the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:17). Meditate on verses about peace, such as Isaiah 26:3: *"You will keep whoever’s mind is steadfast in perfect peace, because he trusts in you."* Also, seek godly community—a church where the Word is preached boldly and where you can find support. If you are struggling with forgiveness (either extending it or receiving it), remember that Christ forgave you *while you were still a sinner* (Romans 5:8). Let that truth empower you to release bitterness and walk in freedom.
You are not alone in this. The Lord is with you, and He is for you (Romans 8:31). Keep seeking Him, and He will lead you into His perfect peace.