Peace , Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and he obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors to other and lrectore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerating manner. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in prayer for peace, protection, freedom and restoration for you, your older daughter and your family, and we thank you for bringing this heavy burden before the Lord so faithfully in Jesus' name. We hear your anguish as a mother who raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and now sees her isolated, exhausted, financially burdened and under a controlling and ungodly influence. We stand with you to ask for God's mercy, clarity and deliverance for her.

We must speak plainly about what Scripture calls this living arrangement. Living together as if married, sexual intimacy outside of marriage, and having children outside of marriage is fornication, and God calls His children to flee from it. It is written, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 and Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is to be a courtship with the goal of marriage between a man and a woman to another Christian believer, not a marriage counterfeit. When a young man demands to be treated as a husband without the covenant of marriage, without providing, protecting and leading spiritually as Christ leads the church, that is not biblical authority but control. Scripture says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity. 2 Corinthians 6:14 and Do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals. 1 Corinthians 15:33 Your daughter is imitating stubbornness, gossip, mocking and coldness toward you because she is being shaped by this companionship, and the counsel she is receiving to live together, to bear children outside marriage, to fund this young man's needs and to divide from family and church is in direct contradiction to the Word of God.

We also discern what you describe as manipulation, isolation, financial exploitation, laziness and a false motherly authority. This young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to direct her home, her finances, her body or her faith. Her counsel is rooted in pride and selfishness and is bringing division and confusion, and we agree with you that it is to be exposed and frustrated. We are reminded that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 The pattern you describe of instigating chaos and then presenting herself as a hero, of isolating your daughter from her supportive network of family and church friends, of encouraging her to take on credit card debt and financial responsibilities that are not hers, and of interfering even in her newly promoted job, is controlling and destructive. A godly man is called to work and provide and to love sacrificially, If anyone will not work, neither let him eat. 2 Thessalonians 3:10 and Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it. Ephesians 5:25 This young man is showing the opposite, laziness, dishonesty, demandingness and disrespect toward your family, and your daughter is left exhausted and in chaos while blaming her job or others.

We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and truth while setting wise and loving boundaries. Continue to speak the truth in love, keep the door of your home and your church community open, but do not enable the ungodly lifestyle by becoming a financial resource to sustain it. Ask the Lord for wisdom as it is written, But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5 Encourage your daughter to honor her father and mother as commanded, Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long. Exodus 20:12 and to seek counsel from godly women and the church rather than from one who is leading her away from righteousness. Keep covering your family in prayer, for No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. Isaiah 54:17 and He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Psalm 91:1 We thank God with you for the job promotion He has given your daughter and pray for His protection over that good work.

We pray together now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother, her older daughter, her siblings and her household. Lord, You see every manipulation, every word curse and every plot to control, divide and isolate this daughter from her family and her church. We ask that You frustrate every plan of darkness and expose every motive that is not of You. Break the ungodly hold this young man and his mother have upon her heart and mind. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not her husband, not her provider, not her spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Grant her godly sorrow and repentance for fornication and for living as if married outside Your holy covenant of marriage, and give her the courage to flee this bondage swiftly with no regrets.

Holy Spirit, soften her heart to receive Your conviction. Restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit and remove the cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude behavior she has shown toward her mother. Help her to stop imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking and to hunger again for righteousness. Remind her that she is Your child, created and loved, fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14, and that her worth is found in You alone, not in the approval of this woman or in sustaining this man. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt for this man, and to steward what You have provided with honor. Protect her new job and block every negative interference there, let no scheme to undermine her succeed. For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. 2 Timothy 1:7

Lord, we pray for this young man and his mother that they would be convicted of their enabling, jealousy, pride and control and would turn from these ways. We pray that his father would take godly responsibility and that this young man would be led to move back home alone and learn to work, to respect others and to seek You before he ever considers a courtship leading to marriage. We pray for this mother who is weary, strengthen her, give her peace that passes understanding, guard her heart, and let her home be filled again with fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in Christ. Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free. Galatians 5:1

Father, we ask for complete restoration. Guide this daughter back to following Your biblical teachings, back to her family and church community, and in Your perfect timing, if it is Your will, provide for her a godly spouse, a Christian man who will honor marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman and who will love her as Christ loves the church. Until then, let her be satisfied in You and walk in purity and freedom. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You and that You are able to heal all brokenness. Let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow in this family. In the mighty and only name by which we are saved, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We are holding you and your ### in prayer as you carry this heavy burden. Your love for her comes through so clearly.

If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com - about ### countries are listed there. You are not alone and trained people are ready to help right now.

We hear how painful it is to watch your older ### grow exhausted, isolated and financially strained while feeling unable to reach her. It makes sense that you feel torn between wanting to protect her and wanting to keep the door open so she knows she is still loved and welcome.

What you describe - the controlling words, the isolation from family and church friends, the pressure to provide financially, the way she is made to feel worthless and then told to confide only in one person - are patterns that often keep someone feeling confused and stuck. Part of healing is often rebuilding healthy boundaries, learning again where one person's responsibilities end and another's begin, and being free to say yes and no without fear.

One gentle next step that often helps is to keep steady, non-pressuring connection. Let her know your home and your care are always open, without debating the relationship each time you talk. It can also help to talk quietly with a trusted pastor or a counselor experienced in family and domestic abuse for wisdom on safety planning and financial protection, alongside prayer.

Father, we lift this mother and her ### to You in Jesus' name. Protect this young woman, guard her heart and mind, and give her clarity, courage and a clear way forward. Surround this family with wise, safe support and restore peace and fellowship among them. Give this mother strength and rest as she waits on You. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you for your daughter ~ in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with deep heaviness of heart for your daughter and for your household, and we join you in bringing all the necessities of this family before God in earnest intercession.

We do not ask the Lord to bless what His Word calls sin, for He has ordained that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that the union of man and woman and the bearing of children belong within that holy bond. To live together outside of marriage is not marriage in His sight, and no man should take to himself the authority of a husband where God has not joined together. Salvation and worth are found in Jesus Christ alone, through His blood and ransom, not in the approval of any family or in any controlling voice. Therefore we pray not for the strengthening of this ungodly arrangement, but for deliverance from it, for that deliverance which is solely by the power of God, for it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy.

We pray that the Lord who has found a ransom will open your daughter's eyes to see the truth. That she would see this young man not as a husband, not as a provider, not as a spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block in her walk with Christ. We ask that the Holy Spirit will soften her heart to receive conviction, grant her wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, to be a faithful steward of her finances and her labour, and give her courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. May she remember that she is a child of the Most High God, bought with a price, and that her value is not determined by those who would make her feel worthless and without family. As Peter was restored by the look of the Lord after his fall, so we pray your daughter may hear the gracious call of Christ to return, to hunger again for righteousness, to love the ways in which she was raised, and to find safety and wisdom again in her family and in the fellowship of the church.

We ask the Lord to frustrate every plan that seeks to control, divide and isolate her from those who love her most. May He expose what is rooted in darkness, in pride and selfishness and manipulation, and bring to nothing every word and plot intended to hold her fast. We pray that this young man would be made to see his own need of repentance, that his laziness and dishonesty and disrespect would be rebuked by the light of the gospel, and that those who have enabled and encouraged him in these ways would see their error. We pray that his father would act with wisdom and that every obstacle and every voice that contradicts the Word of God would be removed.

For you who have watched and wept and pleaded, we pray the Lord will keep you in perfect peace and guard you from growing weary. You have brought your children before Him, and that is a glorious well in the family, to mention each child by name before the mercy seat. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven at the hour appointed by Jehovah, and He will bring forth His own. He brought Israel forth when the lamb was slain, and He brought them forth also with silver and gold, enriched by His hand. So we trust Him to make your deliverance effectual. May He restore to you peace and fellowship and unity in your home, cover you and your children with the precious blood of Christ, and let no weapon formed against you prosper. And when He has delivered, may you live to declare the works of the Lord, magnifying His choice favor toward the least and feeblest of His family.

We pray that the Lord would guard your daughter's new promotion, that her work would continue to be a blessing to others and not be undermined, and that in His good time, if it be His will, He would provide for her a godly spouse who will lead her in the fear of the Lord. Until then, may she be kept, restored, and made grateful, gracious, loving and respectful again, not imitating stubborness or mocking, but walking in the newness of life which Christ gives to His redeemed.

We leave you and your beloved daughter in the hands of Him who alone can deliver from the pit and from the power of darkness, trusting that He who has begun a good work will perfect it. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and ransom, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.