Peace , Protection, Freedom and Restoration

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Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors to other and lrectore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerating manner. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

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We stand with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your family, and we hear the deep pain and holy concern in your heart as a mother who raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and now sees her entangled and exhausted.

We agree with you that this living arrangement outside of marriage is not of God and must be addressed plainly. Scripture is clear that marriage is to be held in honor among all and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. To live together as if married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat fornication as marriage is sin against God and against her own body, for we are told to flee sexual immorality, every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also rebuke the ungodly counsel that encourages this, for we are to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them Ephesians 5:11. This young woman's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to direct her to dishonor God, or to place the undue responsibility of caring for a grown man upon her. We pray the Lord exposes every motive rooted in darkness, pride, jealousy and manipulation and frustrates every plan to control, divide and isolate.

We also see the pattern you describe of financial exploitation, laziness, control and disrespect. The Word tells us if anyone will not work, don’t let him eat 2 Thessalonians 3:10 and that the borrower is servant to the lender Proverbs 22:7. It is not God’s design for your daughter to take on credit card debt to sustain a man who will not provide, to be drained and made to feel worthless and familialess, or to be cut off from her supportive family and church community. Evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33, and we have watched with you how imitating stubbornness, gossiping and mocking has changed her demeanor toward you and her siblings. The isolation you describe is a tool of bondage, but Christ has made us free and we are to stand firm in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage Galatians 5:1. We also agree that a man who would be a husband must be a provider and spiritual leader, and an unequally yoked relationship that pulls her away from faith and family is not to be defended or admired, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity, or what fellowship has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14.

We are grateful with you for the promotion the Lord has blessed your daughter with and for the beautiful purpose her work serves for others, and we pray for protection over that job from any interference or undermining. We pray she will remember who she is, a child of the Most High God, created with worth and dignity, and that she will find her self worth in Him and not in the approval of this woman or this young man. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5, and God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7. We pray she stops confiding in those who do not respect her and returns to hungering for righteousness and to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another Hebrews 10:25.

We join you in pleading the blood of Jesus over you and your children and claiming the promise that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17, and we ask the Holy Spirit to break this toxic hold swiftly and to block and frustrate every word curse and plot from this woman and her son.

We pray together now, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ by whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom we are saved, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved.

Father, in Jesus name we lift this precious daughter to You. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and grant her courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets, to repent of fornication and to turn wholly back to You. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt for this man, and to no longer bear responsibilities that are not hers. Break the spirit of control, manipulation and laziness over this young man and convict his mother for enabling and instigating mistreatment and division, let her see she must focus on her own family and let her son be held accountable to stand on his own. Remove the overreach of this woman swiftly, expose her motives, and close every door of ungodly influence over our sister. Restore to this daughter a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, heal the exhaustion and chaos, and reignite her hunger for righteousness. Draw her back to You, to her family, to her siblings and to her church friends, and restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this home. Let her put You first again above any man and his family. We ask for Your supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow upon this mother and her children and to heal all brokenness, and when her daughter visits, guard her from hatred and manipulation toward her family. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You and we ask that in Your perfect timing You would bless this daughter with a godly spouse, a marriage that honors You between a man and a woman for a lifetime, if it is Your will, after she is healed and walking closely with You. Let her know she is not homeless, not forgotten, but deeply loved and supported. We declare she belongs to You, not to this manipulating influence. Bring complete restoration and peace. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and long this has been for you, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and isolated while carrying financial and emotional weight that is not hers to carry. Loving her so well while feeling shut out is painful, and we are praying for you as you keep loving her with steadiness.

What you describe about isolation and control is concerning, and it makes sense you are worried for her safety, dignity and wellbeing. One thing that may help as you walk with her is thinking about boundaries as property lines that clarify what each person is responsible for - their choices, finances, time and energy. When those lines get blurred, a person can lose the freedom to say yes and no for herself. You cannot set those lines for your daughter, but you can keep modeling them and keep the door open so she has a safe place to turn.

It helps to stay connected without pressure or shaming, so she does not feel she has to choose between family and this relationship to be heard. If she shares financial strain, gently encourage her to protect her finances and to seek wise counsel from a trusted pastor or counselor in her church community, alongside prayer, not instead of it. If you ever fear for her safety, encourage a safety plan with a trusted professional or helpline.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus' name. Grant wisdom, protection and clarity, surround them with safe community, and soften and strengthen her daughter's heart to know her worth in You and to find courage for next steps. Bring peace and restoration to this family as You lead. Amen.