Peace , Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors to other and lrectore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerating manner. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your family, and we hear the deep pain and holy concern in your heart as a mother who raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and now sees her entangled and exhausted.

We agree with you that this living arrangement outside of marriage is not of God and must be addressed plainly. Scripture is clear that marriage is to be held in honor among all and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. To live together as if married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat fornication as marriage is sin against God and against her own body, for we are told to flee sexual immorality, every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also rebuke the ungodly counsel that encourages this, for we are to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them Ephesians 5:11. This young woman's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to direct her to dishonor God, or to place the undue responsibility of caring for a grown man upon her. We pray the Lord exposes every motive rooted in darkness, pride, jealousy and manipulation and frustrates every plan to control, divide and isolate.

We also see the pattern you describe of financial exploitation, laziness, control and disrespect. The Word tells us if anyone will not work, don’t let him eat 2 Thessalonians 3:10 and that the borrower is servant to the lender Proverbs 22:7. It is not God’s design for your daughter to take on credit card debt to sustain a man who will not provide, to be drained and made to feel worthless and familialess, or to be cut off from her supportive family and church community. Evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33, and we have watched with you how imitating stubbornness, gossiping and mocking has changed her demeanor toward you and her siblings. The isolation you describe is a tool of bondage, but Christ has made us free and we are to stand firm in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage Galatians 5:1. We also agree that a man who would be a husband must be a provider and spiritual leader, and an unequally yoked relationship that pulls her away from faith and family is not to be defended or admired, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity, or what fellowship has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14.

We are grateful with you for the promotion the Lord has blessed your daughter with and for the beautiful purpose her work serves for others, and we pray for protection over that job from any interference or undermining. We pray she will remember who she is, a child of the Most High God, created with worth and dignity, and that she will find her self worth in Him and not in the approval of this woman or this young man. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5, and God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7. We pray she stops confiding in those who do not respect her and returns to hungering for righteousness and to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another Hebrews 10:25.

We join you in pleading the blood of Jesus over you and your children and claiming the promise that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17, and we ask the Holy Spirit to break this toxic hold swiftly and to block and frustrate every word curse and plot from this woman and her son.

We pray together now, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ by whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom we are saved, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved.

Father, in Jesus name we lift this precious daughter to You. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and grant her courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets, to repent of fornication and to turn wholly back to You. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt for this man, and to no longer bear responsibilities that are not hers. Break the spirit of control, manipulation and laziness over this young man and convict his mother for enabling and instigating mistreatment and division, let her see she must focus on her own family and let her son be held accountable to stand on his own. Remove the overreach of this woman swiftly, expose her motives, and close every door of ungodly influence over our sister. Restore to this daughter a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, heal the exhaustion and chaos, and reignite her hunger for righteousness. Draw her back to You, to her family, to her siblings and to her church friends, and restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this home. Let her put You first again above any man and his family. We ask for Your supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow upon this mother and her children and to heal all brokenness, and when her daughter visits, guard her from hatred and manipulation toward her family. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You and we ask that in Your perfect timing You would bless this daughter with a godly spouse, a marriage that honors You between a man and a woman for a lifetime, if it is Your will, after she is healed and walking closely with You. Let her know she is not homeless, not forgotten, but deeply loved and supported. We declare she belongs to You, not to this manipulating influence. Bring complete restoration and peace. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy and long this has been for you, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and isolated while carrying financial and emotional weight that is not hers to carry. Loving her so well while feeling shut out is painful, and we are praying for you as you keep loving her with steadiness.

What you describe about isolation and control is concerning, and it makes sense you are worried for her safety, dignity and wellbeing. One thing that may help as you walk with her is thinking about boundaries as property lines that clarify what each person is responsible for - their choices, finances, time and energy. When those lines get blurred, a person can lose the freedom to say yes and no for herself. You cannot set those lines for your daughter, but you can keep modeling them and keep the door open so she has a safe place to turn.

It helps to stay connected without pressure or shaming, so she does not feel she has to choose between family and this relationship to be heard. If she shares financial strain, gently encourage her to protect her finances and to seek wise counsel from a trusted pastor or counselor in her church community, alongside prayer, not instead of it. If you ever fear for her safety, encourage a safety plan with a trusted professional or helpline.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus' name. Grant wisdom, protection and clarity, surround them with safe community, and soften and strengthen her daughter's heart to know her worth in You and to find courage for next steps. Bring peace and restoration to this family as You lead. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your burden has been heard and we join you before the throne of grace with earnest prayer for your older daughter and for your household.

We do not ask the Lord to bless what His Word calls outside of His holy ordinance, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to live together and to share the privileges of marriage apart from that covenant is not according to His will. Rather we pray that the Lord in mercy will grant deliverance from the power of darkness and bring your daughter into the liberty wherewith Christ makes His people free.

We pray that God, who alone works deliverance, would open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not a marriage, not a provision, not a spiritual covering, but a snare that has brought exhaustion, financial hardship, isolation and confusion. We ask that every ungodly counsel that encourages living together and bearing children outside of marriage, that treats such an arrangement as if it were marriage, and that places upon her responsibilities which are not hers to bear, would be exposed and frustrated. May the Lord break the hold of controlling and manipulative influence, of jealousy and pride, and of every word and plot that would divide her from her family and from her church.

We pray that the Holy Spirit would soften her heart to receive conviction, that He would restore to her a hunger for righteousness, and that He would remind her that she is a child of the Most High God, bought with a ransom which God Himself has found and given in Christ. As we have been taught, deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God, it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy, and He who brought Israel forth with silver and gold is able to bring forth His own from every pit. We ask that He would grant her wisdom to guard her finances, courage to take on no more debt to sustain what dishonors Him, and strength to turn from imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking, and to walk again in a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful manner.

We pray for your protection and peace as a mother who has raised her children in the ways of the Lord. The Lord knows the coldness and rudeness you have endured, and He has not forsaken you though you be grieved and slandered. We ask that He would keep your heart from weariness, that He would preserve the fellowship of your home, and that your daughter, when she visits, would be kept from being influenced to show hatred or disrespect toward you and her siblings. We ask that the Lord would guard her new promotion and the good purpose of her work, and frustrate every attempt to undermine or interfere with it.

We pray also for this young man and for his mother, that the Lord would show them their need of repentance and faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation, that the young man would be convicted of laziness, dishonesty, exploitation and disrespect, and that his mother would see that to encourage and enable such ways is not love. We pray that his father would be moved to take rightful responsibility and that this young man would be led to live apart and to seek the Lord before he presumes to lead any household.

We ask the Lord to restore what has been broken, to heal the exhaustion and chaos, to rekindle your daughter's love for Christ, for His Word, for her family and for the communion of the saints. May she no longer confide for guidance in those who have no biblical authority to speak into her life and who draw her away from the church, but may she return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community where prayer is made for her daily. We pray that she would cease to use her family as a financial resource for this arrangement, that she would put her faith and trust in Christ again, and that she would know her worth in Him rather than in the approval of others.

We plead the mercy of the blood of Christ over you and your children, and we rest in this, that no weapon formed against those who are in Christ shall finally prosper, for our deliverance was attended with enrichment when the Lamb was slain. May the Lord grant your daughter wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly and without regret, and in His perfect time, if it be His will, to bless her with a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church.

We will continue to bring all the necessities of your household before God, mentioning each child before Him, trusting that He who has chastened sorely is also He who delivers, and that He will cause you yet to live and declare the works of the Lord. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and righteousness we pray, Amen.

 

[marls]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

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Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

We have heard your heartfelt cry for your older daughter and we join you in prayer before the Lord who sees, protects and restores. We understand the deep sorrow of watching a child you raised in the ways of the Lord become entangled in a relationship that is exhausting her, isolating her from those who love her, and pulling her away from her family, her church and her walk with Christ.

We agree with you in prayer that God is the only source of salvation through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage as God designed it is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, where living together and sexual union belong. What your daughter is living in now is not marriage, and we will not ask God to bless it as if it were. Scripture is clear that such a living arrangement outside of marriage does not reflect His good design and often brings the very exhaustion, financial hardship, confusion and division you are describing. Love does not control, manipulate, exploit finances, isolate or make a person feel worthless, and it does not encourage a child to dishonor her family or forsake the fellowship of believers.

So we pray with you for clear eyes and courage for your daughter. Father, open her eyes to see this relationship truthfully, not as a husband and provider and spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block to her walk with You. Break the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, remind her that she is a child of the Most High God, loved, valued and not in need of this woman's approval to have worth or belonging. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt to sustain this man and this lifestyle, and to stop treating an ungodly living arrangement as if it were marriage. Restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, and remove the coldness, gossip and mocking she has learned to imitate. Give her holy courage to step away swiftly and without regret, to hunger again for righteousness, and to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community.

We pray also concerning this young man and his mother. Lord, expose motives rooted in pride, selfishness, jealousy and manipulation, and frustrate every plan to control, divide and isolate. Show this mother how she is enabling her son in laziness, disrespect and exploitation rather than calling him to responsibility and repentance. Convict this young man of his controlling and dishonest ways, and make clear that he is not ready for a relationship. We pray that his father would take rightful responsibility and call his son to come home alone and to grow into maturity apart from your daughter. Block every word spoken against her, every plot and every attempt to interfere even in her workplace, and let no weapon formed against her or your family prosper.

We pray for you as her mother. The Lord sees your faithfulness, your pain when you are treated with coldness and disrespect, and your love that does not give up. Grant you protection, peace and strength to continue to love with both grace and firm boundaries, to keep your home a place of truth and prayer, and to trust God even when you feel you cannot bear more. We thank God with you for the promotion He has given your daughter and for the good purpose her work serves, and we ask Him to guard that work from interference and to keep her from withdrawing further.

We plead the precious blood of Jesus over you and your children. We ask for supernatural intervention to remove every obstacle and every voice that contradicts His Word, to heal what is broken, and to restore peace, fellowship, respect, unity and freedom in your family. May your daughter again put her faith and trust in Christ above any person, may she be surrounded by supportive family and godly friends who speak truth in love, and may the Lord in His perfect time and will provide a godly spouse for her if it is His plan, a man who will honor Him and cherish her within the covenant of marriage.

We stand with you, trusting that nothing is impossible with God, and that He who delivered us from darkness and adopted us as His sons and daughters through Christ is able to deliver, to heal and to restore completely. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[Silas]

Your love for your daughter and your desire to see her walk in truth and freedom is evident, and it is right to bring this burden to the Lord in prayer. Your heart to see her restored to fellowship with God, with family, and with her church community reflects God's own heart for His children.

Scripture is clear that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and that living together and sharing intimacy outside of that covenant is not marriage in God's eyes and does not carry His blessing. To treat a cohabiting arrangement as if it were marriage brings confusion, exhaustion and hardship, and it dishonors the Lord who designed marriage for our good. It is loving to pray not that God would bless that arrangement, but that He would open your daughter's eyes to see it for what it is, bring conviction where needed, and give her courage to step out of what is harming her and walk again in obedience and purity.

The first Psalm describes a clear progression. Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of those who mock what is good. At first there is simply listening to ungodly advice, then standing with those who live contrary to God's Word, then settling down among those who scorn His ways. When your daughter is being counseled to live together outside marriage, to have children outside marriage, to treat this arrangement as marriage, and to look to a voice with no biblical authority for guidance about her life, that is the counsel of the ungodly. It leads to division, isolation from those who truly care for her, and a sense of worthlessness. The contrast in that Psalm is the person who delights in the law of the Lord and meditates on it day and night. Pray that her hunger for righteousness would be renewed and that she would again find her counsel and her worth in God's Word and in the Holy Spirit, not in voices that flatter and then control.

God knows how to deliver those who are His. Just as He delivered Lot, a righteous man who was vexed and worn down by the ungodly lives around him, so He is able to deliver your daughter from confusion and control. He also sees ungodly influence clearly. Scripture shows how a mother's ungodly influence can shape a son toward evil, as when a daughter of wicked rulers led her own son and household away from the Lord, and how such influence must be exposed and turned from. It is right to pray that the Lord would expose selfish and manipulative motives, frustrate every plan to control, isolate and divide, and bring truth into the light. He is the one who pleads the cause of His people and delivers from the deceitful and unjust.

Isolation is a common tool of control, and you have wisely discerned it. Keeping your daughter away from supportive family and church friends makes her more vulnerable to exploitation, including financial exploitation, and to imitating cold, disrespectful and mocking behavior that is not her true character. She was raised in the ways of the Lord, she is loved and valued as a child of the Most High God, and she does not need the approval of those who would use her. She needs wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, to stop using family resources and debt to sustain a lifestyle that is draining her, and to set healthy boundaries. Encourage her, as God gives opportunity, to return to the safety and wisdom of family and the church community where she can be strengthened and reminded of who she is in Christ. For your part, continue to set a strong spiritual example, seeking the power of the Holy Spirit and not just good advice, because your children need that living example to stand against pressure.

We join you in praying for your daughter's protection in her workplace and for the promotion God has given her, that no interference would harm the good purpose He has for her there. We pray that the young man's father would step into appropriate responsibility and that every obstacle and voice that contradicts God's Word would be removed. We pray that your daughter would see this man not as a husband, provider or spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block to her walk with Christ, and that she would no longer defend or carry responsibilities that are not hers to bear. We pray the Lord would soften her heart to receive His conviction, restore her grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, and give her wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage to walk away from bondage swiftly and without regret. We pray the blood of Jesus over you and your children, that no weapon formed against you will prosper, and that God would restore peace, respect, unity and joy to your home.

For the future, pray that if it is God's will to give her a spouse, it would be a godly one within the covenant of biblical marriage, in God's timing and in a way that honors Him. Until then, pray that she would put her faith and trust in Jesus Christ alone for salvation and for identity, and that she would hunger for His Word again.

Do not grow weary in praying. God hears, He sees the exhaustion and the chaos, and nothing is impossible for Him. Keep entrusting your daughter to Him, speaking truth in love when doors open, maintaining loving boundaries, and resting in His strength when your own is spent. He is able to bring complete restoration and to surround you and your family with His supernatural love, favor and protection.