Peace in home

[Praying women]

Need urgent prayer for A HUSBAND WHO LACKS COMPASSION that BREAK HIS WIFE snd break in the home and marrige
Need urgent intervention in my marrige for god to bring godly conviction to my husband from all
Of his wrong doing and to take to be God fearing man husband needs to be for his wife and children or God to set healthy distance

One of the loneliest feelings in marriage is being married to someone who doesn't truly see his wife pain, but outs her into pain effective mental health.
A husband without empathy may not recognize the damage he causes. He dismisses her feelings, ignores her tears, and refuses to consider that he might be wrong.
When i am hurting, husband becomes distant. When i need understanding, he offers excuses. When i long for an apology, he remains silent.
His selfish sister and mother in law to stop manipulating and belittle me wanting to control my husband and marrige and envious sister in law who has been interfering in ungodly ways god to intervene and send help to restore the marrige and protect it from my husand ungodly behavior habits

Over time, the pain has been so deep i am expecting comfort.
It feels like i carries her burdens alone. I hide my emotions because speaking up no longer feels safe or worthwhile, but trusting in God
while my husand believes everything is fine, i quietly losing pieces of myself raking or responsibility of my children all alone with him still being in same roof but no support more of him chasing worldly pleasures and chasing to be worldy things and putting blames on me but not realzing. He has friend who got home in to option trading which is what he does day and night chasing over night wealth and up and down more of down effecting finances and marrige peace not being emotionally available all through pregnancy and even after childbirth but causing Chos loosing money and drinking and arguing, blaming all the things me after drinking on me. Please pray for deliverance and gods urgent intervention
Its so painful when he puts me repeated disappointment, through feeling unseen by the person who promised to love me to do hurtful things being selfish .i feel emotionally exhausted by his repeated behavior and rising new born by myself.
Please pray a protection over my family and marrige
Pray fir my husband to have godly sorrow and God to bring conviction to my husband for the trouble he is causing the pain the Chos and walk away from and to hate sin and to soften his heart towards his wife and children and stop belittling his wife and my parents with prideful spirit and mis behavior
Gods peace and favor to sourrand
me like shield . Blessings for wife's finical beed to raise my daughters favor and protection

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and loneliness in your heart, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting your marriage, your husband, and your precious children to the Lord. The Word of God tells us, "A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife" (1 Corinthians 7:10-11). Yet we also know that God hates divorce because it brings harm and breaks the covenant He designed for love, protection, and unity (Malachi 2:16). Your marriage is under spiritual attack, and we declare that the enemy’s schemes will not prevail. The Lord sees your tears, your sleepless nights, and the weight you carry alone. He collects every one of your tears in His bottle (Psalm 56:8), and He will not abandon you.

First, we must address the sin in this marriage with truth and love. Your husband’s lack of compassion, his dismissal of your pain, his pursuit of worldly pleasures like option trading and drinking, and his refusal to take responsibility for his actions are not just personal failings, they are sin against God and against you. "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25). His behavior is a far cry from the sacrificial love Christ calls him to. His pride, his silence when you need an apology, and his emotional abandonment, especially during your pregnancy and after childbirth, are grievous to the Lord. "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8). His neglect of his God-given role as provider, protector, and loving leader is a serious matter.

We also rebuke the influence of his sister and mother-in-law in the name of Jesus. Their manipulation, belittling, and interference in your marriage are not of God. "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice" (James 3:16). The Lord commands us to leave our parents and cleave to our spouse (Genesis 2:24), and their ungodly meddling is a stumbling block. We pray that God would expose their motives, break their hold over your husband, and restore healthy boundaries in your marriage.

Your husband’s friend who introduced him to option trading is also a snare. "Do not be misled: 'Bad company corrupts good character'" (1 Corinthians 15:33). The love of money and the pursuit of quick wealth are idols that lead to ruin (1 Timothy 6:10). His obsession with trading, drinking, and worldly pursuits has brought chaos into your home, and it must stop. We declare that God will uproot every ungodly influence in his life and replace them with godly men who will speak truth and accountability into him.

We also address the sin of fornication if there has been any unfaithfulness, as this would be a violation of the marriage covenant. "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). If there has been infidelity, we pray for repentance, healing, and restoration, but only if your husband is willing to turn from his sin and seek God’s forgiveness.

Now, we lift you up, dear sister. You are carrying burdens no wife should have to bear alone. "Cast your cares on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken" (Psalm 55:22). You are not invisible to God. He sees your strength, your faithfulness, and your love for your children. We pray that He would surround you with His peace like a shield (Psalm 3:3), provide for your financial needs (Philippians 4:19), and give you wisdom as you raise your daughters alone for now. You are not alone, God is your ever-present help (Psalm 46:1).

We also pray for your husband’s salvation if he does not yet know Christ as his Savior. There is no true transformation without the power of Jesus. "If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come" (2 Corinthians 5:17). If he is a believer, we pray for godly conviction to pierce his heart. "Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret" (2 Corinthians 7:10). May the Holy Spirit break through his hardness, humble him, and turn his heart toward you and your children.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the neglect, and the brokenness in this home. You see a husband who has failed to love his wife as Christ loves the church, and we ask that You would break his heart with godly sorrow. Convict him of his sin, Lord, his pride, his selfishness, his emotional abandonment, and his pursuit of worldly things. Soften his heart toward his wife and children, and let him see the damage he has caused.

Father, we rebuke every ungodly influence in his life, the manipulative family members, the friends who lead him astray, and the idols of money and pleasure. Uproot these things, Lord, and replace them with Your truth. Surround him with godly men who will speak life into him and hold him accountable.

We declare that this marriage is not beyond Your healing touch. You are the God who restores, who makes all things new. We ask that You would rebuild trust, bring unity, and fill this home with Your peace. Protect this sister and her children from further harm, Lord. Provide for their needs, give her strength to endure, and let her feel Your presence in tangible ways.

We pray for a mighty outpouring of Your Spirit upon this husband. If he does not know You, draw him to salvation. If he is a believer, revive his heart and turn him back to You. Let him hate sin as You hate sin, and let him love his wife as You love the church. Break every chain of addiction, pride, and selfishness, and let him rise up as the godly leader You called him to be.

Lord, we also pray for this sister’s heart. Heal her wounds, restore her joy, and let her know that she is deeply loved by You. Give her wisdom as she navigates this season, and surround her with godly support. May she find her strength in You alone.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and the only name by which we can come before You. We trust in Your power to transform, Your love to heal, and Your grace to sustain. Amen.

We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a trusted Christian mentor, who can walk alongside you during this time. You do not have to carry this burden alone. The Lord is your refuge, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep trusting in Him, and do not lose hope. Restoration is possible, but it must begin with repentance and a turning to God. Stand firm in faith, and watch what the Lord will do.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache in your words, and we are so sorry you are carrying this pain. What you describe, the dismissal, the blame, the drinking, the loneliness of raising a newborn while feeling invisible, is not something anyone should have to endure alone. It makes sense that you feel emotionally exhausted and that you are quietly losing pieces of yourself. When the person who promised to cherish you instead brushes past your tears, the isolation cuts deep.

We want you to know: your pain is real, and you are not crazy or overreacting for feeling it. Emotional mistreatment grinds away at a woman’s spirit over time, especially when it is paired with denial or blame-shifting. That does not mean you are weak; it means you are living with a heavy weight that God never intended you to carry by yourself.

A concrete next step we would urge you toward is to reach out to a wise, trauma-informed counselor or a domestic abuse advocate, someone who can help you untangle what you have been living with and build a safety plan for you and your children. Even if you are not ready to leave, you deserve a protected space to catch your breath and regain clarity. You mentioned that your husband’s behavior leaves you feeling repeatedly disappointed and that raising a newborn alone is overwhelming; a professional can walk with you through practical steps toward stability and healing, whether that means healthy boundaries or separation for a season. Please do not try to sort this out entirely on your own.

In the middle of the chaos, we pray with you now.

Lord Jesus, you see this wife’s exhaustion and the silent grief she carries. Hold her close. Be the comfort and the defender she longs for. Shield her and her daughters from further harm, financially, emotionally, and in every other way. Give her wisdom to know what boundaries to set, and courage to take the next right step for her own safety and sanity. For her husband, we ask that you would stop the cycle of destructive choices, the drinking, the gambling, the hardness of heart. If he is willing, soften him; bring people into his life who will speak truth and not just chase wealth. But above all, Lord, protect this mother and her children. Give her daily strength to care for her newborn and herself. May she feel your presence in the lonely hours, and may your peace settle like a shield around her home. We trust her into your great mercy, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

I do not need to tell you the pain of being unseen in your own home. You know it far too well already. You have poured out your heart, and the one who ought to have caught every tear has let them fall to the ground unnoticed. You have cried out for understanding and received excuses; you have longed for a tender word and met only silence. And now you carry a newborn in your arms and carry the whole weight of your home upon your shoulders, while the man who pledged himself to you chases after shadows and blames you for the darkness he has made.

But there is One who sees.

Your husband may not notice the tears that fall in the night, but the Lord bottles them. He keeps a record of every sigh, and not one escapes His notice. When you hide your emotions because speaking up feels unsafe, Christ draws near to the brokenhearted and makes His dwelling with the crushed in spirit. You are not carrying these burdens alone, however much it feels that way. The unseen hand of your Father is beneath you even now.

I know that a dark thought whispers to you in the stillness, that God has forgotten you, that your cries rise no higher than the ceiling, that this pain will never end. That is the voice of the hound of hell, and I charge you to muzzle it. Do not let your tongue speak what your faith knows to be false. When your heart is full of sorrow and your frame of mind is jaundiced and weary, it is a temptation to talk according to your feelings rather than according to the promises of God. But the Lord has not forsaken you. He has not cast you off. The woman who carries her burdens to the mercy seat will find that mercy's door is never locked against her.

Do you know what your heavenly Father has done? He has given you permission to trust Him. He has commanded you to believe. Think of that! You need never stand at a distance and wonder whether you may draw near. You need never question whether Christ will have you. He says to you, "Come." He commands it. So you may come boldly, with all your weariness and all your disappointment and all the shattered hopes of what marriage was supposed to be, and you may lay them at His feet. There is no sin so dark, no sorrow so deep, that it can bar the door against a soul that obeys the gospel's sweet command to believe.

I want you to picture something with me. In the wilderness of this world, the children of God have wells from which to drink. The world is a dry and thirsty land, and your own marriage may feel like a desert, but there is a well that never runs dry. That well is Christ. When you are faint with exhaustion and no one comes alongside to help you, you may go to Him and drink. When the long night with the baby leaves you spent and no hand reaches out to relieve you, you may draw living water from His inexhaustible spring. He knows what it is to give and give and receive nothing in return. He knows what it is to be despised by His own. And He is not far from you now.

You spoke of feeling that you are losing pieces of yourself. I hear that. It is the cry of a bone that has been broken. And yet hear this: the bones that God has broken may still rejoice. The Lord knows how to restore what the locust has eaten. He knows how to make the lame to walk and the broken to sing. You are not beyond His mending. The woman who has been crushed in spirit is precisely the one upon whom He looks with tenderest pity.

As for your husband, you have asked God to bring conviction, to soften his heart, to open his eyes. And I tell you that the Lord knows the address of every proud heart. No man sits so loftily that the arrows of the Almighty cannot find him. He may think himself safe, wrapped in his worldly pursuits and his nights of drinking and his schemes for sudden wealth, but God is not mocked. The same God who speaks in the still small voice can also shake the foundations of a man's life if that is what it takes to awaken him. Do not take matters into your own hands or wear yourself out with trying to force what only the Spirit can do. Entrust him to the God who is able even now to turn the key in the lock of that hard heart. The Lord has a thousand doors by which He can enter a man's conscience, and when He determines to deliver a soul from the pit, no stubbornness can finally withstand Him.

In the meantime, you are not under the power of darkness. You are a child of the light. The enemy would love to convince you that the gloom will never lift and that you are trapped in despair's dungeon, but Christ has already turned the key. You are free to hope. You are free to rejoice in the God of your salvation even when every earthly prop gives way. The giant of despair may roar and rattle his chains, but he cannot hold a soul that Christ has set free.

The Lord who kept Martin Luther safe until his work was done will keep you. The Lord who gave the patriarchs wells in the desert will give you water. The Lord who sees the sparrow fall and numbers the hairs of your head has not lost sight of you for a single moment. You shall not die in this sorrow, you shall live, and declare the works of the Lord. This trial is not the end of your story. The story ends in glory, in the presence of the Bridegroom who will never disappoint, never dismiss, and never leave.

Let us pray.

Father, You see this dear woman, worn and heavy-laden, standing in the breach for her home and her children. Be to her a shield and a very present help. Let Your peace, which passes all understanding, garrison her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Raise up for her the help she needs, and send deliverance in the way that only You can ordain. Protect her children and provide for every financial need according to Your riches in glory. As for her husband, we commit him into Your hands, for You alone can turn a heart of stone into a heart of flesh. Bring him to true godly sorrow and to the foot of the cross, and restore what has been broken in Your time and in Your way. But above all, Father, hold this precious daughter of Yours fast. Let her know in the depth of her soul that she is seen, she is loved, and she is kept. In the tender name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[hostadmin]

We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer during this deeply painful and exhausting season. Your honesty about the loneliness, the emotional weight, and the brokenness in your marriage has moved our hearts, and we have lifted every word of your request before the Lord with urgency and compassion.

We have prayed for your husband—for God to break through the hardness of his heart, to bring godly conviction, and to replace indifference with tenderness. We have asked the Lord to open his eyes to the pain he has caused and to stir in him a desire to cherish, protect, and lead his family with humility and love. We have also prayed against the influence of those who seek to manipulate and divide, asking God to shield your marriage from ungodly interference and to restore peace where there has been strife.

Most of all, we have prayed for *you*—for strength in the weariness, for comfort in the loneliness, and for the Lord’s nearness to surround you like a shield. You are not forgotten, and your tears do not go unnoticed by our Heavenly Father. We have asked Him to sustain you as you carry the burdens of motherhood and marriage, to provide for your needs, and to fill your heart with His peace even when circumstances feel overwhelming.

If God has moved in answer to these prayers—if you’ve seen even a glimmer of change, a softening, or a breakthrough—we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report so we can rejoice with you. But if the weight still feels heavy and the answers seem distant, please know we are still here, still standing with you. You are not alone in this. We will continue to lift your marriage, your husband, and your family before the Lord, trusting that He is at work even when we cannot see it.

May the Lord bless you with His presence, His provision, and His hope as you press into Him. We pray all these things in the powerful and compassionate name of Jesus. Amen.