We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice, healing, and restoration. Your heartache is valid, and we mourn with you over the betrayal and cruelty you’ve endured. However, we must address some concerns in your request with truth and love, rooted in Scripture.
First, we notice that while you mention the blood of Jesus, your words carry a tone of commanding, decreeing, and demanding rather than humbly surrendering to God’s will. The Bible teaches us to come before the Lord with reverence and trust, not as ones who dictate outcomes but as those who seek His perfect plan. Jesus Himself taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). We must release our desires to Him, trusting that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).
Your request also reveals a struggle with bitterness and a desire for vengeance. Scripture is clear that vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19), and we are called to forgive, even when it feels impossible. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB). Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin—it means releasing the burden of anger to God so He can heal your heart.
We also must address the issue of sexual immorality in your past relationships. The Bible calls sex outside of marriage *fornication*, and it is a sin that grieves the heart of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If you have been involved in relationships where this occurred, we encourage you to repent and seek God’s cleansing. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). God’s grace is sufficient to cover every sin, and He desires to restore you to purity as you seek Him.
Your desire for a godly spouse is beautiful and aligns with Scripture. However, we must emphasize that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are seeking a future husband, we encourage you to pursue a relationship with a man who loves the Lord, honors His Word, and treats you with the dignity and respect you deserve. Courtship should be entered with the intention of marriage, not merely companionship, and it should be conducted in holiness and purity.
We also want to gently correct the use of terms like "luck" and "energy," which are not biblical concepts. Our lives are not governed by fate or cosmic forces but by the sovereign will of God. *"The LORD has established his throne in the heavens. His kingdom rules over all"* (Psalm 103:19 WEB). We do not need to "bind" demons or demand justice—we trust in the Lord, who sees all and will judge righteously.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who has endured so much pain and betrayal. Lord, You see every tear she has shed, and You collect them in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would heal her heart, replacing bitterness with Your peace and anger with Your love. Forgive her for any unforgiveness she has harbored, and help her to release those who have wronged her into Your hands. Cleanse her from any past sins of fornication, and restore her to purity in Your sight.
Father, we ask that You would bring a godly man into her life—one who loves You above all else and who will cherish and honor her as Your daughter. Guard her heart from counterfeit love and lead her into a relationship that reflects Your design for marriage. Help her to wait on You, trusting that Your timing is perfect.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is unworthy of love or that her past defines her. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have a future filled with hope for her (Jeremiah 29:11). Fill her with Your joy, Your peace, and Your presence. Let her walk in the freedom that comes from knowing You and being known by You.
We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that the enemy has no place in her life. We stand on the promise that You will restore what has been stolen and heal what has been broken. May she experience Your love in a fresh and powerful way, and may her life bring glory to Your name.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word, particularly passages about His love, forgiveness, and plans for your future. Spend time in prayer, not just asking for what you want, but listening for His voice. Seek fellowship with other believers who can support and encourage you. And remember, God is writing a new chapter in your life—one filled with His grace, His mercy, and His perfect love.
